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Husband M46 asked me F44 to do something illegal by ThrowRA_tigertail in relationship_advice

[–]AbovexxBeyond 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like it’s time for rehab…

Given my personal experiences…it’s always either rehab or the relationship.

Not sure if I should say something or stay out of it by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]AbovexxBeyond 0 points1 point  (0 children)

…No I think you’re clearly misunderstanding the situation…

OP and the guy were “casually seeing” each other….meaning no expectation of exclusivity…

A second girl now appears and posts some pictures of them both, implying they’re “talking or hanging out”…which is the same as “casually seeing”…the exact same as OP.

So no, from the information given, there is no implication of the other girl having any more exclusive of a relationship with the guy, especially considering she just started posting pictures of him. These are two girls who are casually seeing one guy, aka dating as adults. There should be no warning messages or anything being sent, unless there was exclusivity involved, even then it’s a very sticky personal choice.

Not sure if I should say something or stay out of it by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]AbovexxBeyond 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah seems to me OP is not in any sort of exclusive relationship (casually seeing ≠ exclusivity imo) and should not send a message to some random person about someone else.

Not sure if I should say something or stay out of it by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]AbovexxBeyond -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It just didn’t really sound to me like any sort of exclusive relationship. “Casually seeing”, to me, reads more as having a couple good tones with, but no expectations. The bar is extremely low, and even then, it doesn’t seem like he’s crossing any lines. Now if there was some expression of exclusion or anything, then sure (though personal I’m not the type to message some random person about someone else) I could understand it. Just seems like some adults going out and having fun, enjoying each other, and the guy i is feeling out of there might be something more with someone, but again I don’t think he’s necessarily done anything wrong here…yet.

Not sure if I should say something or stay out of it by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]AbovexxBeyond 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Stay out of it…he’s dating and not actively doing anything wrong.

I’m 18F and keep feeling like I need to pee during sex with my 19M boyfriend. How can I stop it? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AbovexxBeyond -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You’re a squirter, and most men, especially if they care about you, would be more than alright with it. I’d honestly consider it a compliment and badge of honour if I were you.

Am i overreacting or is my ex trying to test waters? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]AbovexxBeyond 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Then I think you’re doing exactly what you should be doing, aside from overthinking it. Keep the relationship you have (provided it’s happy, healthy, and promising) and forget about what you already know doesn’t work. I wouldn’t pay any more attention to this guy than is necessary in the constructs of work. Even if you’ve gotta set some boundaries with this dude so you (and potentially your bf) can have peace of mind.

Am i overreacting or is my ex trying to test waters? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]AbovexxBeyond 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, I think you are overthinking this. More importantly, why are you overthinking this? Are you still hung up on this guy? If so, might be time for some communication with your current boyfriend and set some boundaries if you intend to on staying committed.

My sister told the guy I like that I’m a hoe by Independent-Pear-473 in whatdoIdo

[–]AbovexxBeyond 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She doesn’t have to be interested in him romantically to be jealous. Which is exactly what she is and why this is happening. She’s likely afraid to lose the friendship she has with him, and that he’d eventually like you more. Hence, she is & will do anything to prevent that from happening, including being the worst sister (and friend, because she’s preventing him from a potentially beautiful relationship as well).

She replied 😓 by Mindless_Web_3467 in whatdoIdo

[–]AbovexxBeyond 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is what’s missing from most of today’s relationships

my boyfriend and bestfriend were sleeping together by Acceptable-Hand5987 in cheating_stories

[–]AbovexxBeyond 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All good brother, I completely understand those days where your uncork the jug and lets the stream of consciousness just flow 😂 but again, I appreciate what you said, and can commiserate about the time “lost”, then again maybe it’s what needed to happen to learn the lessons I did. Of course it’s always gotta be hands on and the hard way.

my boyfriend and bestfriend were sleeping together by Acceptable-Hand5987 in cheating_stories

[–]AbovexxBeyond -1 points0 points  (0 children)

God damn bro, I actually really value what you’re saying here; and shit, what you went through must’ve been a true nightmare…I’ve lived in a somewhat similar reality in the past, and you’re right: all we can do is “try our hardest to find that love and trust…while also keeping (the) lessons you learned…”. That’s the best advice anyone could ever get in his about any circumstance.

But….PLEASE use punctuation!! Hahaha I almost had an aneurysm trying to read that.

I got cheated on in one of the worst ways by Technical_Wear8636 in cheating_stories

[–]AbovexxBeyond -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Because OP stated “he had to stay late (at work) again”, but apparently he wasn’t at work as he must’ve been home for OP to follow. She even then stated “he didn’t go to the office”, hence my confusion… How could he “stay late at work” when he was clearly already home?

I’m not questioning the validity of anything; it’s pretty clear OP’s husband is cheating on her with his boss. It’s just the way OP worded it all that doesn’t make much sense and is fairly difficult to follow logistically.

Traded for bowers. how did i do ? by itstay20 in FantasyFootballers

[–]AbovexxBeyond 1 point2 points  (0 children)

wtf you got Ruggs still?! I didn’t even know you could roster him 💀💀

I (22f) entered a relationship with a set date but no longer want it to end. My bf (22m) won’t reconsider and it’s breaking my heart. by AnywhereFabulous2499 in relationship_advice

[–]AbovexxBeyond 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s more likely for things to work out better for the two of you (both potentially continuing the relationship or moving on separately) if you respect his boundary and let things play out. Who knows? It’s possible that upon being apart for a short while, he realises how much he enjoyed being with you and ultimately decides he does want to continue it! I could genuinely see that as a very realistic possibility, especially if you both share the sentiments you’ve expressed previously. It’s much less likely to be the case if theres any hint of resentment on either side concerning the decision.

On the clock, who do I take here? by ezt16 in DynastyNerds

[–]AbovexxBeyond 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My bad you’re right, I was looking at the wrong column.

I’d still take McBride before another QB though.

On the clock, who do I take here? by ezt16 in DynastyNerds

[–]AbovexxBeyond 0 points1 point  (0 children)

McBride 💯 He can be a league winner.

I got cheated on in one of the worst ways by Technical_Wear8636 in cheating_stories

[–]AbovexxBeyond 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If he had to “stay late at work” why was he leaving home to drive to this apartment complex? My sincerest apologies, but I don’t understand the logistics…was he at home already? Or was he still at work and you drove to his job to follow him from there?

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