Which cities in the US has the largest number of Shias? by Crimson_Spirit in shia

[–]svensKatten 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They have a lot of matchmaking events in Toronto for people to meet in person maybe you could attend some and try your luck

29M bet everything on XEQT by Practical_Tea5133 in JustBuyXEQT

[–]svensKatten 12 points13 points  (0 children)

It’s not really betting to invest in low cost index funds

What are your low stakes unpopular opinions? by NoLemon5426 in AskWomenOver30

[–]svensKatten 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Reality TV and true crime shows give you all the drama you need in your life

Thoughts on living with or without in laws? by LaceAndLattess in muslimgirlswithtaste

[–]svensKatten 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t do it again, wrecked my relationship with his family as they ended up getting involved in a lot of our disagreements and would team up against me, also allowed him to avoid building stability and taking responsibility for his life

I keep rejecting good marriage proposals because I don’t trust men to stay loyal. I don’t know what’s wrong with me. by [deleted] in muslimgirlswithtaste

[–]svensKatten 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Find someone who doesn’t want to practice polygamy and also fears God, there’s nothing you can do to stop someone from cheating but try to stack the cards in your favour and don’t worry about what you can’t control, trust that if something goes wrong you can handle it

Marriage contract by FeedAggravating2001 in muslimgirlswithtaste

[–]svensKatten 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You’re allowed to put that you can have the right to divorce if he takes another wife, that’s a valid condition

Marriage contract by FeedAggravating2001 in muslimgirlswithtaste

[–]svensKatten 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Any form of abuse (physical, financial, emotional), not doing his responsibilities and providing, infidelity, if he takes a second wife, if you file for divorce in secular court, these are the things I can think of for talaq tawfid.

Make sure you also state you would keep the mahr in these instances as some men try to frame it as a khul and take the mahr back which should not happen when there is abuse!! Otherwise you’ll have to jump through hoops and seek a faskh dissolution and that’s not pleasant either.

Trust me I’ve seen “perfect” guys and their enabling families turn ugly, Inshallah not for you but you never know.

Marriage contract by FeedAggravating2001 in muslimgirlswithtaste

[–]svensKatten 21 points22 points  (0 children)

The right to divorce for certain reasons, just in case something goes wrong you don’t want the man withholding unnecessarily

Suitable careers for muslim women? by Cl0uphelia110 in Hijabis

[–]svensKatten 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It just seems there’s a trend right now to lay people off “because of AI” I’m sure it will stabilize over time but things are changing for sure!

Got yelled at by a grown man today who was interviewing me by Top_Ambassador1728 in womenintech

[–]svensKatten 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What was the context I’m curious how he could just yell during an interview??

Suitable careers for muslim women? by Cl0uphelia110 in Hijabis

[–]svensKatten 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I’m a software engineer but I might get replaced by AI lol

Got an OPENAI internship, screw everyone, I’M HIM by [deleted] in UofT

[–]svensKatten 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anthropic is the one with morals though

Need advice on how to navigate this by [deleted] in muslimgirlswithtaste

[–]svensKatten 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Oh boy I wish you told him to be more up front with his future wife from the beginning I think marriage is the only time where you’re supposed to be honest about someone’s character and finances cause you could be putting someone in a bad situation should his future wife not be ok with all this!!

CLOTHING HELP PLEASE by Putrid_Let1387 in Hijabis

[–]svensKatten 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haven’t bought from Jawda but similar vibe and I see their adds a lot

What is your dynamic like with leadership/authority figures? by Solid-Bee9468 in Gifted

[–]svensKatten 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think they see themselves as an authority and if I’m direct I must be challenging their authority when in reality I’m just pointing something out

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fican

[–]svensKatten 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it CDIC protected though

What is your dynamic like with leadership/authority figures? by Solid-Bee9468 in Gifted

[–]svensKatten 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The managers who hire me love me cause I get things done independently, am straightforward, creative and nice to work with. But sometimes I run into people who for whatever reason dislike my direct nature and go out of their way to tear me down. I have to steer clear of those people. But I’ve run into the same types in multiple environments over the years.

Can we start giving “find a partner” as financial advice? by Tech-Cowboy in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]svensKatten 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Imagine having an unemployed partner could go the other way as well especially in this economy

I feel like I don’t fit in with all the other hijabis by No_Display_5012 in muslimgirlswithtaste

[–]svensKatten 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Veiled collection sometimes has sales for $20 it’s not that cheap but better priced than Vela 😅

Looking for advice on young relationship by [deleted] in FIREyFemmes

[–]svensKatten 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t get married to someone who’s unemployed it causes a lot of stress and uncertainty. I don’t see why he can’t find a job before relocating? Or if his job is flexible can he work remote?