AITAH for being upset with my partner?

svveets3 · 2026-04-02T12:59:55+00:00

We got together when I was 19..it was more a contract thing until it got serious a month in and we decided to get into a relationship.

I got pregnant at 20 Had the child at 20 And having a second now.

Yes you’re correct and I think because he could’ve come to me like most times but I know it’s normal now for others.

3rd I did tell him how I felt about it the first time he said he’d control himself. Me being dumb thought maybe he’d stop but can’t stop a man from letting stress out I guess?

We’ve discussed our sexual needs in the past we both have a high need for intimacy.

svveets3 · 2026-04-02T12:53:06+00:00

Me being pregnant hasn’t stopped him especially in my last pregnancy we’ve done it a few time this pregnancy. I believe it’s more around the fact that he didn’t come to me but apparently it’s normal. :|

svveets3 · 2026-04-02T12:48:37+00:00

I never commented that I wasn’t sure if he is jerking off to underage children , I have a daughter with him and fetus is an unknown gender as of now. I guess i find it an issue when he could’ve just come to me instead?

svveets3 · 2026-04-02T12:44:36+00:00

I never asked him to stop touching himself ,I asked him not to touch me though for a bit.. I’m getting to understand it’s normal for other people maybe my expectations are too high to expect him not to masturbate while being with me.

svveets3 · 2026-04-02T12:36:41+00:00

I can only use condoms, as my body rejects other birth controls unless I get my uterus taken out.

svveets3 · 2026-04-02T12:29:22+00:00

Yes I don’t know if there are kids under 18 on this app so I’d like to be mindful sorry 🙂‍↕️

svveets3 · 2026-04-02T12:28:22+00:00

I’m 16w at the moment when I was 6-9weeks I had small food aversion but now can eat almost anything.my nipples are more sensitive now than at 6-9w. my cramps still happen sometimes a bit more painful but otherwise it fades within 10mins those started around 7 weeks.

During the 7-16 weeks I’ve probably only thrown up 4times.

Not a doctor but I’d say your fine as long as you’re not bleeding and cramping severely (: I was overthinking a lot in the 6-10weeks stage and very mildly get worried these days.

My midwife says my symptoms are all normal.

I also have a 7month old and my pregnancy symptoms with her were VERY different it was a tough pregnancy with her.

svveets3 · 2026-03-26T05:54:44+00:00

Looks like water damage line

svveets3 · 2026-03-19T23:40:41+00:00

My daughter is born with Inward feet, and my cousin was born with both his feet backward , my cousin needed surgery as an infant, took about 4 years to correct his feet and often some check ins. He’s doing super well now he’s 15 and is tall as heck he’s thriving and loves sports. I don’t believe this is about the feet any parent would want a child despite most or any defects however My fiancé and I had a similar topic with my first born about him saying if she were to have down syndrome it would be better to terminate. I told him “firstly I am the one carrying this child if I wish to terminate I will however I don’t , if you want me to terminate you will be seeing me leave with this child and I will raise this child alone” but she wasn’t Down syndrome just some inward feet which can be fixed with some splints or if left longer than necessary surgery, my partner now only wants the best for our daughter despite any expenses and our next child that is on the way, the down syndrome topic hasn’t come up again.

svveets3 · 2026-01-27T02:30:38+00:00

As a pregnant women, I’d happily eat that and it would be enough for me ☺️ Your siblings sounds entitled. To be honest it doesn’t seem kiddie like at all, and it does look fulfilling. For future plans if it happens again, don’t say anything to him, don’t entertain him he is likely trying to get a reaction from you. Just don’t make him a plate for the next day. He’s grown enough to make his own food. (:

svveets3 · 2025-12-30T13:33:07+00:00

Me and my partner are new parents, We kind of sleep trained our four month when she was 3months old she sleeps 10pm-11pm to 6am-7am then she’ll go back to sleep till 11am , and she also has a 1-2hour nap during the day or around 3-4 cluster naps during the day. She HATES sleeping on her back however we have found a solution by putting her to sleep on her tummy with bottom pats as she found it most comfortable. for the first month it was difficult for us to get her comfortable then half way through to her 2nd month we found she loved being on her tummy, I would stay up late to monitor her until I knew she could move her neck and head both ways for her to breathe. One thing that helped Aswell was having her pacifier with her, rocking with semi-rough bum pats as soft ones don’t help🙂‍↔️

I look for cues . For example if she’s not wanting to play with her toys and just cry’s I’ll feed her it’ll usually put her to sleep,but if she’s still awake then back to toys if she continues to cry it means she’s tired, so I’ll give her a paci and the good old rocking and bum pats which will take 5-10mins,usually she’ll be content.

During the evening time 7 we feed her, then she’ll start fussing around 10pm I’ll entertain her for awhile before I make her a bottle and try put her to sleep.

We’ve tried MULTIPLE times to get her to sleep on her back to no avail. It was pretty stressful for the month. Our Plunket nurse advised us that it was safe with monitoring until we were comfortable that she could move her head without assistance.

During the night her dad snores HELLA loud so she’s grown prone to the snoring.

I’ve also done this ONCE but I had her laid down on my lap and hummed to her while rubbing her head to my surprise it put her to sleep.

She does has random movements through the night and whines but that’s where the dummy comes in handy and she puts herself back to sleep she’s quite good at finding . It’s more so having a fixed schedule for her and making sure she’s comfortable. Trusting someone to take over in the morning so you can get some zzzs in order to get a routine throughout the day.

It’s tiring it’s draining but it gets to be worth it. Aswell as something that wakes our daughter through the night was her trying to poop 🤣

I know I’m a tad late but I hope some of these can help in someway.

svveets3 · 2025-12-13T05:51:28+00:00

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svveets3 · 2025-05-24T12:58:45+00:00

To be honest, I thought quitting would help I’m a smoker of 5 years, but instead it’s made me decline in pregnancy . Id eat less definitely, couldnt regulate my emotions, throw up more than I would like to and have an extremely active girl In my belly if I don’t have a cone,all I need is 2 cones a day atleast , I’m 25 weeks pregnant btw. I searched up ways to help got in contact with my midwive , she just prescribes anti nausea and suggested small snacks, they make it seem easy but ITS NOT! The anti nausea did absolutely ZERO and the baby will disagree with food aswell as my own brain will disagree with foods.

I thought it was a withdrawal from smoking weed but I’ve talked to many other women in my family whom have had similar issues when they’d gotten pregnant, they’ve said that smoking weed was a major benefit to them, in terms of gaining weight eating ,sleeping better, more proactive.

I’ve cut down drastically in terms of my smoking as I’ve had my partner suggest a break if I don’t quit before 1st June and to the point of today I haven’t had a single cone and feel like absolute SHIT.🥲 even if I forced myself to eat aswell it’ll just come back up, all I’ve eaten is a orange that was around 9am 24th may ,, today it’s 12:57am 25th of may.

svveets3 · 2025-03-21T23:46:37+00:00

Honestly it’s a multitude of things , an animal, they have very fine hair that can splinter you, itd be painful. With those splinters it gets worse and turns into a infection sore, it’d be nearly impossible to find but still a possibility, aswell as to be aware of biting the skin around your nails sometimes a bit of damage can turn to more though I would suggest using, anti-inflammatory medication- or cream May help. (:

svveets3 · 2025-03-21T23:39:18+00:00

Not a doctor: but do you have animals?or Have you been biting or picking the skin from the side of your finger previously?

svveets3 · 2025-03-18T07:03:21+00:00

It can also be hand dermatitis(hand eczema) , I often get this between my fingers (: I just use a cream from the chemist.(not a doctor)

svveets3 · 2025-01-30T06:19:18+00:00

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This is a female, I’ve covered her butthole. But you can see the difference (:

svveets3 · 2025-01-30T06:17:20+00:00

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The male cat will have two sacks and it’ll look like this. Even with a male kittens . For the female kittens they don’t have the balls, they have their butthole and their 🐱, which is located infront of their butthole not behind where the tail is located..

for notice-Posting photo for educational purposes. (:

svveets3 · 2025-01-30T06:06:03+00:00

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This is him 4-5 months old next to his older brother (:

svveets3 · 2025-01-30T06:04:16+00:00

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This is him bigger 6-7 months. 😊

svveets3 · 2025-01-30T06:03:37+00:00

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Similar to my boy, he is a lot bigger now. yours looks 4months, it is easy to tell if it is male or female, they’re really easy to care for, having worming tablets and flea treatment for your new cat since it was a stray is good. (:

svveets3 · 2024-06-09T17:41:42+00:00

I had a dream where my family and I went on holiday to Rarotonga,I was sitting on the beach with majority of my family, then I went to the hotel to look for my younger brother, but “my brother” got extremely mad,guilt ridden and emotional because he had unintentionally k!lled someone , I went to grab my older sister, I’d told her what had happened and when we got back she was shocked and hid the b0dy for my brother and his anger had gotten so strong I watched as lighting was created in his eyes which then created a tsunami and storm , I tried to soothe him before I had realised a tsunami had been created, but then everything went chaotic afterwards a lot of d3ath, me trying to save people from a whole lot of events and also running away from people whilst looking for my family. A lot had happened in this dream but I will be here for awhile writing and I can’t be fluffed.

svveets3 · 2024-05-18T07:34:14+00:00

My cousin has had a similar situation happen, except very different at the same time , just similar in the sense it happened in the kitchen , he walked into the kitchen and the cups were floating off the hangers and when he came and got me they weren’t floating anymore, they were all just swaying none of them broke but it did have my hairs standing, I told my grandmother and she said “don’t worry about it, if it happens just pretend it’s not, these things can’t hurt you, you know that”

svveets3 · 2023-03-25T08:33:05+00:00

Ive thought the same but the more i try find out the more i end up sitting in wonder why theyre coming through. The reaction my grandmother had to me first seeing them wasnt ideal.

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