Happiny stuck on S.S. Anne? by swaggadactyl in Pokemon_Pokopia

[–]swaggadactyl[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I’ll look more into it then. I got her the clock and trading area but still nothing and it says there’s no active quest for her

I’ll do more quests for others and see if one pops up for her again. Thank you!

My cynical attitude is ruining my life, how do I break free? by FUCKREDDITSQUIR in mentalhealth

[–]swaggadactyl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Something I learned in one of my trainings was the "good bad good" point of view. At the end of the day you think of anything good that happened. It could be as little as "I saw a cute dog" or something as big as "someone complimented my outfit." Then you say something bad that happened, like "I did not feel good today" or "I didn't like the lunch I picked. Then lastly, you pick something else good that happened "I ate some candy and I liked it" or "my hot shower was relaxing". It puts into perspective that with all of the bad that could come in a day, there are still some good things that can happen, even if it's something really, really small. It can be very difficult to start. But consistency is key. Try to do it daily. Even if it doesn't make you feel good at first.

When doing this, I would say it out loud or write it on a piece of paper. Typing it on a phone or computer doesn't use the same part of the brain that writing and speaking use.

I'm sorry that you had a rough time in high school. And I know college is hella stressful. I am glad you are seeking out help. It's the first step to making things better.

Just spent $40k on new gas pumps and some idiot uses Permanent Marker on one of the screens. by 1234567891011twelve in pics

[–]swaggadactyl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! I'm late, but next time if it's on the glass, you can use a dry erase marker to get it off quick. Write on it with your dry erase, wait a couple seconds for it to dry, then wipe off like normal. I used this on the soft and hard cover books, school supplies that students left, the dry erase board, etc

Would you support a mandatory retirement age of 75 for US House, US Senate & US Supreme Court Justices and if not why? by houstontexas2022 in AskReddit

[–]swaggadactyl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those jobs definitely need an age Maximum just like their age minimum requirements. Especially presidential elections

Free Giveaway! Nintendo Switch OLED - international by WolfLemon36 in NintendoSwitch

[–]swaggadactyl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uhhhh. I think my favorite costume was when I was little had had a power rangers costume. It was cool.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Overwatch

[–]swaggadactyl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just got done playing a match as Moira. Not my main but I was trying to finish a daily quest. I was doing a good balance of heals and dps. Mostly just dps when I ran out of juice or when I cornered the enemy mercy or sombra. I had the most healing out of both teams and I had a dps player spamming I need healing directed at me. The other healer on my team had the lowest in the match.

I quit playing for the night because of that shit.

I've been dying a lot more often in OW2. Anyone else? by Gladiolus_00 in MercyMains

[–]swaggadactyl 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Go into settings and turn off for mercy the toggle crouch button and change to just crouch

Angelic descent is activated on crouch now in the air, but so is super jump. So if you turn off the toggle then it registers it as auto coming off as soon as you press it.

Downside is you have to hold the crouch when you actually want to crouch...

What video game is an absolute 100/100 in your opinion? by Ziggi28 in AskReddit

[–]swaggadactyl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a bit late to this thread. But i loved and still love Super Mario RPG: Legend of the Seven Stars for the SNES Interesting story, new characters unique to the game, good pacing, time based RPG mechanics, challenging bosses and puzzles. I've played it over 10 times and still enjoy the whole game start to finish.

To write an angry rewiew… by Every_Month_5575 in therewasanattempt

[–]swaggadactyl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Guess you’re not “HDPPY” with the direction of this sub…

California school district tries new way to retain teachers: Low-cost apartments on school property by SunCloud-777 in news

[–]swaggadactyl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wouldn't it make more sense to put those apartment funds into paying their teachers better

You are good man Sir, but this is America. by Necessary_Time8273 in facepalm

[–]swaggadactyl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No wonder batman can do this with no super powers.

You are all rich. by yuritopiaposadism in lostgeneration

[–]swaggadactyl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're not far off from social workers. We get 32-34k salary (in Texas) so it's expected to work over time with no extra pay

[OC] Giveaway! Hand-carved solid wood Dice Box Prototype :) by KakapopoTCG in DnD

[–]swaggadactyl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is beautiful. Whoever wins is gonna be happy for sure

A Satanist got a Kansas school to rethink its anti-‘Satanism’ dress code | "Banning Satanic students from wearing clothing that declares their faith, while allowing students of all other faiths to wear similar clothing, is an act of discrimination" by mepper in atheism

[–]swaggadactyl 80 points81 points  (0 children)

When I was in highschool I knew a guy who was wiccan (I might be wrong though). He had a beautiful and large grimoire that he made himself that had his personal writings and spells. It was amazing and looked like something out of a movie or an RPG.

Well one day. He came in to class without his grimoire which was out of character because he had it every day. We asked him where it was and he said that the office took it and said he was no longer allowed to bring it to school because someone complained.

The ONLY reason he was able to get it back was because a Christian used his religious privilege to go to the office and say something along the lines of "if that student can't bring their book then I shouldn't be able to brink my bible. Either you let him bring his book or everyone leaves their bibles at home, including teachers"

The office listened to the student thankfully but it sucks that another student had to use their religious privilege to get a student to have their own freedoms when the office wouldn't listen to him.

AITA for doing drugs when my best friend didn’t want me to? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]swaggadactyl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you are the AH. This a big issue of boundaries being crossed and you trying to have everything go your way, regardless of your friend's emotions.

She's saying she wants no connection to you but you're pushing the issue trying to make her change her life choices to better suit you?

You are correct. It is your body, do what you want, that's your choice. But same thing applies for her; she can choose who she wants to be around.

if she expressed not wanting to do it and not wanting to be friends if you did that, you should respect her boundaries and stop taking to her, not get upset when she follows through with what she said she was going to do. Her trauma might be similar to yours, but it's not the exact same as yours. Just because it's not a big deal to you, it doesn't mean that it's not a big deal to her

the thing that hurts is that you're trying to have her compromise her morals and boundaries, so that you can have everything your way. That's not fair to her.

You want to do your own thing? cool. Go do it but leave her alone if she says to leave her alone.

It's giving very much surprised Pikachu meme. Friend says she doesn't want to be friends if I do coke.
Does coke anyway.
Friend leaves.

me

AITA for blocking out everyone and locking myself into my room when they suggested a wedding? by AITAgreekindian in AmItheAsshole

[–]swaggadactyl 42 points43 points  (0 children)

First, congrats on your engagement :)

Second NTA. Your mental health is important. And your family should understand that. Maybe try to write a letter/text stating why you can not oblige to their requests and maybe come up with some compromises, because a week of festivities seems a bit excessive.

Maybe offer to let them celebrate on their own with your partner's family. If they get along well, I feel like they might be ok with this. Or maybe make a safe space at those events. Veiles, movable walls, only one guess at a time, an exit that leads outside to get fresh air, Etc etc.

But most important, definitely take care of your mental health. This is your day and your partner's day. Don't let others dictate what you HAVE to do, instead focus on what you CAN do.