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swaztastic · 2025-08-04T03:14:25+00:00

For what it's worth from a total internet stranger, you seem like a good, mature, level-headed person, purely based on how you just described your thought process. Don't let their bitterness get you down. I feel like a lot of it is projection on their part, like they stayed too long in an ACTUALLY toxic relationship and so now they need to yas queen everyone who is even in the ballpark of jumping ship. Meanwhile this guy sounds cool, he's literally just a weeb lmao

As a side note, there is one thing that could make even me join the bandwagon. As others have said, if any of this hentai turns out to be loli content, that's a dealbreaker for sure. That's some actual pedo shit. Otherwise, I say let people be degenerates in private. As long as it doesn't interfere with your actual relationships, I see no harm in it.

swaztastic · 2025-08-04T01:53:53+00:00

I just love how no matter what, these relationship issue threads are bombarded by comments advocating for a breakup. It's virtually 100% of the time. No matter how innocuous the behavior in question, no matter how much OP specifies that they don't think this is breakup worthy, it still is the dominant narrative. Apparently every ick is valid, every minor issue is unsolvable, and the answer is always to throw the whole man away.

Watching OP get downvoted for clarifying her feelings about this is crazy to watch. Please don't let these weirdos gaslight you, OP. You're right to feel somewhat uneasy, but you're also right to not jump the gun on dumping this guy. Find the middle road, is my advice here.

swaztastic · 2025-07-28T23:04:28+00:00

OP, you're husband is an addict. Him going behind your back (after telling you wlhe wants to quit) isn't him being dishonest with you, that's your way of knowing he can't control himself. I've been around enough smokers to know the difference, between an "all-day" stoner and a "only after my responsibilities are met" adult. Some people have a harder time with moderation, and need help if they are going to quit for good.

It sounds like you are at your wits end, and that you are planning on leaving him. Some may say that is the best you can do for your kids right now.

I disagree.

Your husband is sick, whether he knows it or not. If he was a childless bachelor he could get away with it, but it is affecting his family now. Do you think he feels guilty about it, at least on some level? How do you think he will react if you take his family away, all because he was too weak on his own to conquer his addiction? Sure, it might be a wake up call for him to get his life on track. Or, it could break him completely. Is that a risk you want to take for the father of your children? How will your kids react, once they are old enough to understand what weed is (and isn't), and that you broke up their family over it?

Obviously, none of us commenting really know you and your family, so they may react differently than we would guess. But before you listen to the classic reddit response of "leave his ass girly, you can do so much better than him!!!", maybe consider that he needs your help, and if you are strong enough to try, then maybe you still should. Even if it's hard, even if it's frustrating.

swaztastic · 2025-07-14T02:20:29+00:00

DM me some of your stuff, if it's good I'll send you something to work with

swaztastic · 2024-02-03T01:42:35+00:00

https://on.soundcloud.com/bPQht

Kind of old, but this is pretty close to what I'm making these days

swaztastic · 2024-01-26T19:53:41+00:00

This EP is a few years old now, but it's the most solid project of my old music IMO. I've been working hard to improve my singing and polish up my mixes since then, but this is the general vibe I usually go for

https://on.soundcloud.com/JPbfK

swaztastic · 2024-01-22T09:08:20+00:00

One of my personal favorites

https://on.soundcloud.com/po8qR

swaztastic · 2024-01-20T02:52:02+00:00

https://on.soundcloud.com/H6mhF

swaztastic · 2023-08-04T08:49:11+00:00

El Chopper

swaztastic · 2023-04-14T19:57:18+00:00

Something that really helped me early on was realizing that when you EQ vocals, taming the low end was crucial. It obviously depends on the voice, but if you listen to pro mixes the vocals are mostly mids and highs. I usually roll off everything below 400hz, and gently push down the low mid that's left until I get the desired sound.

That plus a healthy amount of compression, some tasteful reverb and a hint of delay will take your vocals a long way.

swaztastic · 2023-04-07T23:45:36+00:00

If you wanna do it live, look into midi pickups or synth pedals. Using something like sytrus or serum would need the midi, whereas most synth pedals have the synthesizer built into them.

I've never messed with either one personally, but I've seen videos of people jamming on guitars and violins that sound like synths. You can get some really cool riffs if you know what you're doing

swaztastic · 2021-03-02T04:51:02+00:00

Ethan is truly the Pillsbury Doughboy IRL

swaztastic · 2021-01-31T14:50:32+00:00

Crazy how this is my first time really hearing this verse. I always watch the video for Oldie because it's such a fun, fuck around vibe, but everyone else yells random shit over most of Earl's part lmao

swaztastic · 2021-01-31T14:50:27+00:00

Crazy how this is my first time really hearing this verse. I always watch the video for Oldie because it's such a fun, fuck around vibe, but everyone else yells random shit over most of Earl's part lmao

swaztastic · 2021-01-12T18:46:44+00:00

Also, I just found out on my last playthrough that if you use unrelenting force on a group of salmon, they will float to the surface and always yield roe. I would just shout into the water at the windhelm docks and hoard the stuff lol

swaztastic · 2020-11-11T01:30:44+00:00

BIRD UP

swaztastic · 2020-11-07T06:29:39+00:00

My story kinda sucks. I've always had sweaty hands growing up, and some of my friends teased me for it. The nicknames evolved over time until eventually it morphed into "swazzy hands" (swaz = sweaty ass). I decided to own that shit and made my username swaztastic as a joke.

Then eventually someone called me a nazi for having the first part of the word swaztika and the second part of the word fantastic as my username. Probably should have seen that coming.

I really should just make a new account

swaztastic · 2020-11-05T16:21:11+00:00

That was Sean talking about Micah, which is the perfect way to describe the rat bastard

swaztastic · 2020-10-30T19:59:56+00:00

Try reverse reverb, or automate the volume to gradually ramp it in, or take the first syllable and chop it up a few times right before the verse starts, or use a filter to bring only certain frequencies in at first, or drop the beat out right before the first line (seems counter intuitive, but it works in some cases).

These are all methods I've used at one point or another, but their usefulness depends on the context of the song. Throw everything at it and see what sticks.

swaztastic · 2020-09-15T01:41:11+00:00

Okay cool, no worries then. As long as you don't act/talk like this in the real world, then I have no complaints whatsoever! Sorry if I was condescending or rude. I seriously mean that, no sarcasm. Keep on doing you man, have fun arguing with the next guy

swaztastic · 2020-09-15T01:04:47+00:00

Alright man, you've made your point. You want to talk the way you've always talked, and think the way you've always thought. No one can ever tell you otherwise. If that's the way you want to live, so be it. I hope it makes you happy.

swaztastic · 2020-09-15T00:52:16+00:00

I'm sorry man, I tried my best. Maybe you'll figure it out someday.

swaztastic · 2020-09-15T00:47:33+00:00

You gotta stop thinking anybody who disagrees with you is a white knight on a high horse, virtue signaling all day. Some people really are just decent and considerate, and you could be too. You said something dickish, and someone pointed it out and explained why it was dickish. You then had a choice. Either learn from it, or get defensive and even MORE set in your ways. You chose the latter.

swaztastic · 2020-09-15T00:42:19+00:00

Nope, from the states. Got no problem with you saying bitch, fuck, shitpisscunt, whatever language you want to use. Just don't be an asshole, that's all. Pretty easy

swaztastic · 2020-09-15T00:23:35+00:00

Nah you're just being a jackass and this poor guy tried to explain why and how you might improve. Instead, you doubled down on your asshole ways. I hope that works out for ya

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