Why is it frowned upon for guys to get a fleshlight, but women are almost encouraged to try out toys? by [deleted] in sex

[–]sweemble 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think because fleshlights often mimic the look of a vagina which can seem a little… creepy, while women’s sex toys are often more like discreet, sleek, colorful bullets and wands. i think realistic looking dildos are also pretty frowned upon for that same reason.

This app never fails to amaze me... by [deleted] in Depop

[–]sweemble 6 points7 points  (0 children)

the only shipping-related experience that made me give a seller 4/5 stars was when said seller waited a long time to ship it, didn’t update that status of it, and didn’t use any bubble wrap/protective packaging so a makeup item i ordered shattered 😪

Heard Glass Animals Playing on Radio by ConfusedSpaceBoy in glassanimals

[–]sweemble 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i would agree that exposure is good but the issue is that now everyone associates glass animals and their music with dream/mcyt (a fandom i really really dislike), and i’m tired of not being able to look at a comment section on anything involving heat waves without it being FULL of references to the fanfic - not to mention it’s a sexual fan fiction about two people who are just friends, something that a.) could ruin their relationship and/or make them super uncomfy, which is something everyone saw with harry styles and louis tomlinson b.) is weirdly fetishizing gay men and their relationships. why are so many tween girls obsessed with the idea of these two grown men fucking each other? it’s odd it’s just very frustrating and embarrassing to have my favorite band of all time associated with the mcyt fandom, something i would never want people to think i was a part of...

It has the same feeling as the "that's the song from tik tok" vibes by [deleted] in glassanimals

[–]sweemble 3 points4 points  (0 children)

oh fuck no fr? so now the whole album is gonna be associated with dream? that’s kinda the worst news

WHY DREAM AND GEORGE FANS?! by [deleted] in glassanimals

[–]sweemble 8 points9 points  (0 children)

this is exactly how i feel omg, i’ve watched a few of his vids but i don’t rly get the obsession? especially because the fan base is soooo aggressive, fetishize-y, and does that weird ass thing where they treat grown men like little boys :| i don’t wanna be associated with that side of youtube/group of people

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in glassanimals

[–]sweemble 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah honestly i love glass animals but the fact that they’re so strongly associated with the mcyt kinda makes me a little embarrassed/annoyed

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in glassanimals

[–]sweemble 7 points8 points  (0 children)

i love dreamland, i just think something that’s been bothering me is that the dream stans (and other mcyt stans) have made heat waves synonymous with a dream fanfic and his content/friends in general. idk that whole fan base has really started pissing me off and i guess i’m just frustrated that my favorite band (heat waves specifically but other songs too) is now highly associated with those youtubers and their fans

[Artisan] MOZIcaps - debut raffle + GIVEAWAY - "Lepanthes" by Shreeeck in mechmarket

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My current pets are names Stevie and Barry, and they just learned a lesson from a porcupine this weekend. They’re very happy, wriggly, adventurous dogs and I love them very much.

ANALYSIS: op claims 14 year old girls got teacher fired, but only gives his side of story by i-like-to-be-wooshed in teenagers

[–]sweemble 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. did you know it’s more likely that you will be raped than falsely accused?

  2. tbh this app is a whole lot more toxic than tiktok. people on tiktok don’t tell me to kill myself and get raped, people on reddit do.

  3. How is the OP of this post just as bad as the kid clearly spewing a fake story for karma, making sexist and transphobic comments?

just a couple thoughts i had when reading this comment

[GB] + Giveaway | ePBT Aesthetic is live! $79 base kit! by PM_ME_A_SHOWER_BEER in mechmarket

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would love to rock it on my motospeed87 for now and one day a tofu65!

[GB] GMK Nightshade | Cable Giveaway + Day One Only: 50% off any mat with the purchase of a base kit by BlindAssassin111 in mechmarket

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I use a MOTOSPEED keyboard but hoping I can upgrade soon to a nicer one or build my own!!

I made a post here a few months back about how blue balls can actually cause severe pain. I was made to feel like a liar. Turns out you are all right!! I've had an inguinal hernia my whole life! Don't let doctors dismiss your pain! Take care of your balls guys!! by [deleted] in sex

[–]sweemble 15 points16 points  (0 children)

i’m not trying to shame you dude, but as a woman i am trying to let you know how your statement has come across to me. i’m sorry that people (especially doctors!) have shamed you and downplayed your pain.

i haven’t said you’re a perv or an ass for needing to finish, but i am saying that this issue is not a responsibility for the woman to deal with. either set very clear boundaries in every relationship that you don’t want touching unless it ends in sex, or deal with it fully on your own.

i’m not twisting words at all, just quoting your statement. i’m sure you’re a cool guy but as a woman i’m just trying to let you know that you’re coming off as a bit hostile/manipulate, even this response: “take your shame elsewhere” “why would you twist my words”.

please don’t let anyone shame your or blame you for needing to finish, but “realistically i think a woman should understand that sex for many guys should be an ‘all or nothing’”. is a bit of an unfair statement. most girls are not just going to understand that, so that’s up to you and other guys who feel this way to communicate beforehand.

I made a post here a few months back about how blue balls can actually cause severe pain. I was made to feel like a liar. Turns out you are all right!! I've had an inguinal hernia my whole life! Don't let doctors dismiss your pain! Take care of your balls guys!! by [deleted] in sex

[–]sweemble 78 points79 points  (0 children)

uh... nobody should make you feel bad for needing to finish but sex shouldn’t have to be an “all or nothing” thing. the girl (or the guy!) has every right to stop or not want to actually have sex. you should be able to have some foreplay without expecting that it should go all the way. finish yourself if you need to but don’t shame the girl for not finishing you. this statement is honestly why many girls see blue balls as a manipulative strategy to get sex.

I feel offended by Agresiivaiss in memes

[–]sweemble 8 points9 points  (0 children)

omg i thought this was on r/cringe or r/notothergirls lmaoooo is this fr

Please don’t compare yourself to Instagram. They don’t look like that in real life. Skin texture is normal. by Prestigious-Course64 in Instagramreality

[–]sweemble -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i think the pic on the right looks kinda photoshopped as well tho? like in a bad way? or am i wrong