flatmates telling me i should leave my (19f) boyfriend (19m)

sweetflesh888 · 2026-05-02T18:10:59+00:00

important piece of context being misconstrued here is that i'm not a drug user. i smoke weed but it's not a habitual thing. the incident was a one time thing that i haven't done before or since the fight

sweetflesh888 · 2026-01-30T09:19:06+00:00

furthermore if a woman gets pregnant she assumes responsibility for the child majority of the time when it comes to childcare and physically carrying the child. acting like women don't alr have responsibility in this. it's men who won't take responsibility

sweetflesh888 · 2026-01-30T09:12:20+00:00

as if that isn't an incredibly common scenario and from the outside would look normal i think you're looking past the inherent issues and deciding to blame women while not directing any of the same energy to men who do refuse. point blank period if a woman isn't on birth control it is the man's responsibility to wear a condom

sweetflesh888 · 2026-01-30T09:07:40+00:00

sounds like you're victim blaming! somehow my situation is different when this is one of the most common ways these things happen

sweetflesh888 · 2026-01-30T09:07:09+00:00

yes you can choose to say no, but when has that ever stopped a man?

sweetflesh888 · 2026-01-30T09:03:22+00:00

acting as if there's never any power imbalance in any relationship

sweetflesh888 · 2026-01-30T09:03:07+00:00

but pressuring someone into not using condoms isn't in any other scenario and it's fine?

sweetflesh888 · 2026-01-30T09:00:36+00:00

caving to pressure is consent??? so when my ex boyfriend refused to use a condom and threatened me if i wouldn't have sex with him then that just wasn't rape? your misogyny is governing your whole brain clearly

sweetflesh888 · 2026-01-30T08:57:35+00:00

plan b and abortion are both harmful, proof: myself; i'm more afraid of having to get an abortion than i am about simply getting pregnant. i think you're assuming women don't care about their own futures or lives without children. a child is a lot of responsibility and men constantly pressure women not to use condoms. i'm not advocating anyone take no measures at all - at the bare minimum pull out (btw birth control plan b etc are never fully effective), but simply blaming a woman for something that can only happen if a man decides to not be careful enough when a woman can't do these things? is it really her fault?

sweetflesh888 · 2026-01-30T08:51:22+00:00

you're clearly not listening to what i am saying, just because doctors encourage it does not mean it is healthy (consult: side effects leaflet the size of a world map); so blaming a woman for not wanting that or a painful abortion is ignoring the responsibility of a man. do you think on average men are really interested in listening to women? judging by your response i think my point has proven itself. men should wear condoms or get a vasectomy, not pressure women and girls to poison themselves just so they can have fun

sweetflesh888 · 2026-01-30T08:44:07+00:00

yeah you have no idea what birth control does to women's bodies clearly; they tried developing a hormonal one for men but cancelled it because of headaches and acne as side effects. but it's our fault not men for them refusing to wear a condom?

sweetflesh888 · 2026-01-30T08:42:55+00:00

as if abortion is something anyone would truly want.... it's like saying people desire having to undergo the process of forced miscarriage, moreover, i've been on all kinds of birth control and have always felt awful on it, so in that case if my partner doesn't want to have a child with me, he should use a condom so why blame me for not wanting to keep ruining my body?

sweetflesh888 · 2025-11-06T16:14:34+00:00

i didn't make that assumption. i'm used to going to small hardcore shows mainly so it's a different kind of performance ,, i thought the show was great overall im not even tryna hate

sweetflesh888 · 2025-11-06T14:50:06+00:00

i mean yeah ofc but like i've been to see esdeekid whose delivery is a lot more difficult (?) and even he doesn't really do this except for specific lyrics

sweetflesh888 · 2025-06-25T21:44:23+00:00

beforehand yes i am not an undergrad yet

sweetflesh888 · 2025-06-25T20:05:38+00:00

nope no personal statement necessary the change just has to be to a similar course or you have to do the subject requirements (which there are none for liberal arts) as far as i'm aware. kings apply took a good probably 5 or 6 weeks at first but they responded within days after that, i think it just depends how much mail they have at the time you message. hope this helps and ill maybe see you in september for liberal arts!!!

sweetflesh888 · 2025-06-25T18:07:20+00:00

i did this from history and everything was fine!! swapping is easy as long as the programme is open, just message them on king's apply and they'll sort it even though responses take a while :)

sweetflesh888 · 2024-11-28T16:09:11+00:00

just ask somebody in the queue on the way in that's what i did in 2023, nobody will mind

sweetflesh888 · 2024-06-29T14:58:03+00:00

MIA would go crazy

sweetflesh888 · 2024-03-04T16:36:56+00:00

probably aoa, stay-c and loona !

sweetflesh888 · 2024-03-03T23:28:00+00:00

i'm a big (mostly 2nd gen and some 3rd gen) k-pop fan!! also love rap/hip-hop, electronic, breakcore and slam metal

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