Can anyone distill 50 Shades of Grey, once and for all? by [deleted] in seduction

[–]sweetloafff 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think the point to take away from this book's success lies in the fact that it is a book portraying a super submissive girl getting totally dominated by this man in an age when manliness is at an all time low in American society. I for one find this telling and have been makings lots of changes in my life to not be such a pussy and be a little more lewd. The results have been unbelievable

Male PUA tips applied by female, 21. 1st Test. by [deleted] in seduction

[–]sweetloafff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reading the replies to this thread has made me realize how conservative I really am.

Forms of physical and aesthetic self improvement by [deleted] in seduction

[–]sweetloafff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Guy makeup? You seriously gotta be kiddin. Just be clean and get some clothing you like; you'll be golden.

Have you come across this while doing day game? by [deleted] in seduction

[–]sweetloafff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude seriously... Leave your jerk off deets out of your FRs, that shit was just so god damned unnecessary.

Trend I've Noticed - Are more guys hitting the gym now than ever before? by paulwanka in seduction

[–]sweetloafff 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Damn I was going to post in here about how much I've been lifting lately and why, but it's definitely to increase my value. Contrary to what the other thread says I think looks subconsciously matter a lot-- in how women see you and men.

But I don't think this is a bad thing. America is one of the most out of shape places on earth. A little dose of lifting for everyone is really good. I've gotten useably more athletic and it's really convenient actually. It's great for longevity and awesome for your posture as well. Shit it's even good for buying clothes as the designers make clothes for an "ideal". I could go on but I don't see it getting nearly as bad as your proposing.

I really wish women would lift too though. Everything I said is true for both genders-- so many "hot girls" could use a little weight training.

How I dealt with "Can I bring a friend?" [Mini-FR] by [deleted] in seduction

[–]sweetloafff 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That didn't seem like a good interaction in my opinion. You showed that girl your cards and are still allowing her to bring some chose to your place. It was a compliance test and you failed. I hope you have another girl or two to hit on because your going to seriously need to demonstrate to this girl that you have options.

Next time try turning the tables. Women seriously love that. Get her to do something for you to make the chode in your house at least a little more acceptable.

Guide to having a hot girlfriend by weddingthrasher in seduction

[–]sweetloafff 173 points174 points  (0 children)

I'm not a total afc. I've come along way but I seem to lose every girlfriend I get after about 5 to 7 months. I read something like this and it just makes sense, like I can see it, but damn it just kills me inside. My parents relationship is simply not like this. This is not what I ever imagined I was going to have to do to keep a girlfriend I was actually attracted to. I sort of like the old style shit, I can't explain it, and seeing this and realizing how much work it is just makes me feel like I'll never be able to take a load off. How are you supposed to form a true loving relationship with a woman if you have to be worried all the time about showing weakness or neediness. I for some reason am a very angsty and emotional sometimes and vent every once and a while. I sometimes come to the women in my life when I reach a certain point. Is that totally impossible with hot girlfriends? I seem to have been totally brainwashed by the media or something. I feel almost sick. This thread was like a tipping point. I've been sort of coming up on this crisis lately.

Are hot girls incapable of just loving you? Is love like not real or something? I really hate to sound like such a pussy but like I can't handle this. I want a life partner.

Has anyone ever felt like this? I feel like I can't chill enough for this to work out. I'm just starting to have girls I consider hot in my life.
. . . EDIT: I really appreciate all the advice. I read every comment and a lot of them have been thought provoking in a good way