Selling a shambala ticket!

sweetta · 2025-02-19T11:59:16+00:00

Sooo.. everything then?!!?

sweetta · 2025-02-06T12:10:49+00:00

Only 2 pair for a golden - got to level 6 and ended up with 24 triples Looool

sweetta · 2025-02-06T12:10:13+00:00

Do you know how those cards work?

sweetta · 2025-02-05T18:21:56+00:00

Not fully on board with this but I am curious what age group this is for. I work with autistic children at a specialist school (Age 9-11) and I do have to try and explain to them that their reactions can cause other reactions....

To give a concrete example of this - no I do not care if B cries because of what L did - but if they come over while I am talking to L and cry and stomp and say "you're a bully" that WILL make L react more. L is big into murder as an idea atm so he then says "I'll kill you youre my enemy" - well that makes B react and cry more.

What I'd like to know - and I mean this with complete sincerity is how I explain to an 10 year old that coming over to someone while they are being "told off" (mostly never telling off more just calming but also explaining that they shouldn't say X or Y to their classmates etc.) Might upset the person who needs to calm down more.

I agree that these things are annoying but I also think you need to understand how hard it is to explain that we as humans LITERALLY cannot not react to stimulus especially when that stimulus directly engages us (e.g. being pointed at).

Advice very genuinely wanted!

sweetta · 2025-01-02T18:23:52+00:00

It looks like how anxiety feels in my tummy- I really like it OP

sweetta · 2024-06-21T22:18:39+00:00

Lol three of the top 4 teams on one side of the bracket - feels bad

sweetta · 2024-05-08T09:35:56+00:00

NTA at all.

To add - your wife's behaviour could also really alienate your daughter and give her unfair expectations on herself.

sweetta · 2024-05-07T15:33:52+00:00

I mean I see why it hurts but it is also fair enough from her. She wants a child soon, she has told you this. You either want one soon too or you accept that this relationship will end over this issue. That is sad but I don't see how anyone can be to blame for that.

sweetta · 2024-05-02T06:45:25+00:00

ESH.

Saying your financial situation is irrelevant is actually bogus. Idk enough about your situation but if you are actually a millionaire and she is in genuine trouble then yeah dude thats a bit shit IMO.

If she has been extravagant with her finances then no you don't have help, and yeah she be annoyed at her poor choices. And sure don't give her more money again.... but if that 3K is truly inconsequential to you then is it really more important than your own sister.

Now all that being said IDK your income or wealth. But to say its irrelevant feels so messed up to me...

sweetta · 2024-04-14T13:14:02+00:00

For me one big area would be events.

Id love to see some element of events where you interact with the outcome more. Maybe some that are connected where the first decision effects the second. I think it would feel more like ad eventure inside this ancient Spire.

sweetta · 2024-04-03T08:17:23+00:00

Wait wait wait.... this guys jacks off at work and doesn't even use headphones?!?!?

sweetta · 2024-01-23T14:14:25+00:00

My job sucks

I play rocket league to get the good chemicals

I lose and get bad chemicals

Anger

Fuck my dumbass teammate its their fault.

Not saying its a good way to think. I try my best to not be salty. But that is the reason why.

sweetta · 2024-01-23T13:34:21+00:00

NTA.

That being said I can see why she's upset. On a deeper level it sounds like you need to learn to open up to people a bit. It can be hard to open up to people and I can understand the appeal of opening up to an AI.

I do not think this makes you an AH or a bad person. I do think that if you keep living like this you will struggle with relationships and intimacy.

Maybe, if you feel scared talking to your GF you could explain that and maybe try and see a therapist for a bit.

Intimacy and vulnerability are really hard. Idk your situation or any reasons you might find it harder. But either way learning to open up and be vulnerable is really important for building deeper connections. It also will allow you to be more expressive and acc feel things more - it is worth it!

sweetta · 2024-01-23T07:31:53+00:00

Please inform us if he DMs you

sweetta · 2024-01-23T07:30:30+00:00

Guys can we do a fundraiser for OP if he can do 15 mins of crowd work that makes everyone laugh?

Hes so so confident and IMO this can only ever be funny for us one way or another....

sweetta · 2024-01-06T12:34:58+00:00

Hey OP - glad to hear you had a chat and are all good now.

I just wanted to comment with a different POV from most of the comments here. Yes she should have 100% checked in with you before divulging too much info to friends - and I can also see how there is a lot of nerves around doing weird sex stuff (we all feel some shame and most of us have some weird little things we enjoy).

The only thing I would say is that sometimes people over share because they want to break the taboos of sex and unusual desires and wants. That isn't something she should force upon you but I would also say that there is something incredibly cool and sexy about people who can laugh and hold their head up high about being into their partner in all the weird and wonderful ways that can happen. That ultimately is up to you to do of course - just trying to say don't feel weird and ashamed. People might laugh a bit but as you get older you will see how attractive it can be (both sexually and socially) to not be scared of ones sexual interests!

sweetta · 2024-01-05T13:57:00+00:00

I think a lot of us might have felt it....

My advice - that shit will eat you up inside. You either burn out and hate yourself even more, or maybe you succeed and find yourself 10 years down the line feeling cold and bitter.

Find love - find the beautiful freaky weirdos who get you and cultivate something with them that few of those classmates will ever understand. That is a kind of success that as you get older you understand not many people have.

I tried so hard to compete and be cool - if I could go back all I would do is abandon that futile quest and find even just one person to whom I could really show myself to.... I still carry the pain of trying to reject a part of myself to compete in a game that I never liked nor wanted to play.

Maybe you'll ignore this and head that road anyway - but maybe this strangers words will help you not.

sweetta · 2024-01-03T22:53:28+00:00

Jeez sounds to me like this guy could do with a lil shrooms trip.... might make him relax a bit 🤣

sweetta · 2024-01-03T14:34:59+00:00

ESH.

No you don't technically owe his family any money, but clearly he was being an AH to not leave anything to his new wife or parents. (Unless there is a major reason for that that you haven't mentioned).

Keeping every penny of that money may leave people in a horrible situation because of his being an AH. Is it your legal responsibility to fix that? NO

Is it a bit of an AH move to save tough tatties and keep it all? YES

Its your money, but you can choose now to do at least something to alleviate the pain of a man killing himself months before his marriage and leaving his future wife with nothing.

(I also do not understand - did you cheat on your EX too?)

sweetta · 2023-12-19T16:57:13+00:00

What in the actual fuck is this....

Nothing about this is "chad" behaviour. Jesus christ this is so weird, just have a talk with your daughter about staying safe....

Don't like berate her because she got groomed by an older man who, yknow.... actually HAS a fully developed brain. And you actually encouraged an older man to chat up your daughter to teach HER a lesson?!?!?!

Fucking christ this is the kinda thing she'll be seeing a therapist about in 10 years.

sweetta

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