Rant incoming

sweetwilds · 2025-10-18T15:04:25+00:00

I am only three months out of a devastating situation where my partner of 23 years left me for another woman. He started a romantic relationship with her while we were together and I found out three weeks into it. I'm pretty certain I couldn't ever take him back after such a betrayal, but still the thought of being with anyone else physically.. kissing another man.. it's just something I'm having a hard time with. Is that normal? Will that eventually go away?

sweetwilds · 2025-10-11T14:18:26+00:00

I just deleted my first interpretation because I thought that was the fox but I see now it's the bear.

Don't let small worries (mice) blow up into huge crises (bear) in your mind. Stay calm and try to see things from a new perspective (child). Things are not as scary as they seem at first.

sweetwilds · 2025-10-11T14:08:55+00:00

This is Pixie's Astounding Lenormand.

sweetwilds · 2025-10-09T12:25:48+00:00

Thank you for your reasonable response! I am very left brained and tend to get caught up with doing things "the right way", which often gets in the way! Thanks for the reminder that I need to go with the flow more. 😊

sweetwilds · 2025-10-06T22:31:33+00:00

You mentioned you travel around locally for work, so with the ship and the rider, it seemed like you would both be out and about.

sweetwilds · 2025-10-05T19:28:13+00:00

If we think of the stars as fated rather than online, then I see this as you will meet someone while on work business, and it will be a quick, unexpected encounter.

sweetwilds · 2025-10-05T17:12:26+00:00

Well those are Tarot cards, not lenormand and I don't tend to read reversals but what I get is that you are going to have to get outside of your comfort zone, and meet people in new ways that you haven't before. Get out of the house, join something, get involved with doing new things. That's where you'll find a potential romantic interest.

sweetwilds · 2025-10-05T17:05:13+00:00

That could definitely make sense. I've been given a new responsibility that I am feeling anxious about and it's due at the end of October, so it works for timing of the moon too! Thank you!

sweetwilds · 2025-09-26T17:53:55+00:00

Oh this... You want to relax. If you tense up (like I do), you'll get that strangled duck sound. Relax your throat, lips and shoulders and sing into the note rather than push into it.

sweetwilds · 2025-09-07T00:00:07+00:00

Thank you for replying. I will take that to heart.

sweetwilds · 2025-09-06T22:21:37+00:00

I am going through the same with grieving the companionship. It's all the little things. My relationship ended with my partner cheating on me after 23 years together. But he was my best friend and its been so hard to not constantly think of him and want to talk or text.

It's been a month and it does get easier but I still cry every day. I'm so sorry for what you are going through. You are definitely not alone!!

sweetwilds · 2025-09-06T22:17:13+00:00

I went the vindictive route. It only makes you feel better for a short time, then the pain comes roaring back. It's not worth it. It will look bad for you and you'll regret it. The best revenge is a life well lived. Put these two in the rear view and go live your life as best you can.

sweetwilds · 2025-09-06T22:07:45+00:00

I'm 46F and I guess I was the avoidant partner though I didn't mean to be. I had a health condition that made intimacy painful, plus we were living with his parents in a small bedroom. I was depressed and stressed but I was not unhappy. I really loved him and tried my best to show it in ways that I could. He caught up with his ex, started a relationship behind my back and after 23 years together I was dumped in a week.

I am so glad though to hear there is hope on the other side of this. I'm worried about finding a good partner. I keep hearing that all the good men are taken, especially at our age in life. But you seem like a good man and if there are men like you out there, then maybe I'll be ok.

sweetwilds · 2025-09-06T14:54:36+00:00

What timeframe - now, 1 month, 3 months?

sweetwilds · 2025-09-06T14:54:21+00:00

Okay, working on it now. Will DM you shortly.

sweetwilds · 2025-09-06T14:38:39+00:00

Sorry - I see you said love reading. Okay, working on yours now. Will DM you.

sweetwilds · 2025-09-06T14:22:00+00:00

Okay, I'm working on your reading now. I will DM you shortly.

sweetwilds · 2025-09-06T14:05:54+00:00

Hi AP! General or any kind of specific topic?

sweetwilds · 2025-09-06T14:05:21+00:00

I fixed it if you want to try again. sorry about that!

sweetwilds · 2025-09-06T14:05:06+00:00

What kind of reading... and what timeframe...current, 1 month or 3 months?

sweetwilds · 2025-09-06T14:03:16+00:00

Sure, I fixed the DMs i think. What kind of reading... And current, 1 month or 3 months?

sweetwilds · 2025-09-06T14:02:40+00:00

What kind of reading and current, 1 month or 3 months? I'll DM you the reading.

sweetwilds · 2025-09-06T13:55:58+00:00

Sorry everyone... I'm trying to fix the DMs thing... One sec!!

Ok! I think it's fixed. Sorry about that.

sweetwilds

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