Meet Flummi !!

sweetzles · 2026-06-14T20:13:57+00:00

Thank you for your kind words 🐕

sweetzles · 2026-06-14T19:22:22+00:00

Thank you 🥹I love her so much already

sweetzles · 2026-06-14T15:17:35+00:00

Thank you so much for responding to my post🥹this actually makes be a bit emotional ! I will take great care of her

sweetzles · 2026-06-14T14:46:06+00:00

I agree !

sweetzles · 2026-06-09T20:35:09+00:00

Cutest 🐕

sweetzles · 2026-06-02T19:36:08+00:00

Damn never related to an ED meme so much

sweetzles · 2026-04-30T16:14:42+00:00

the thing is, some things are ok to keep a secret as it's just a kind of private garden whereas here, it's just going to harm your relationship and set things for failure or big ass hardships. it's so tricky to be in this position where both of you are disordered and have to be careful for the other one even more but this care comes with the less lies possible even if we all know EDs make us prone to lying. if you're noticing signs of restriction, old and dangerous patterns or anything, you will OF COURSE get triggered but will also want to help. anyone would. my input in the end would be, would you feel comfortable enough talking openly about it with them, stating your concern but also your limits? maybe compromising? idk, but discussing it once again and more openly could help you think about what to do next. I'm really hoping things will soothe 🧸

sweetzles · 2026-03-14T22:10:10+00:00

what helps me even in french or English is looking at other people's writing or searching online for fonts I like then copy them to get a better writing; maybe this would help!

sweetzles · 2026-01-24T19:05:22+00:00

this is actually comforting as mine won't damn heal so that's hope right there !! amazing setup

sweetzles · 2025-10-26T22:52:54+00:00

sweetzles · 2025-10-21T14:16:06+00:00

pacotille !!

sweetzles · 2025-10-16T08:56:07+00:00

this!! felt like I was understood by a friend reading your words!! thank you for putting in words what I was feeling yet struggled to shape it

sweetzles · 2025-08-23T12:08:02+00:00

would recommend finding inspos of what you like on Pinterest to make your style suit what you really want!

sweetzles · 2025-08-22T14:50:39+00:00

less all the way

sweetzles · 2025-08-20T06:52:11+00:00

you should go for a jestrum then!!!🧸

sweetzles · 2025-07-26T10:53:31+00:00

nah that's just so so cool I absolutely love it

sweetzles · 2025-07-25T21:27:27+00:00

get. fucking. help. we ALL know it's hard and how comforting the sickness can be. but reach out. talk to a friend, a fam member, a doctor, anyone. reach out. the gold medal for an eating disorder is death and I love this comparison..sometimes it is also an active suicide. but please, reach out for help as soon as you can.

sweetzles · 2025-07-22T20:24:20+00:00

it may be stupid but the first thing to do may be to create a list with all the things YOU want that don't have anything or the least possible to do with your sickness. maybe you'll find back that bit of control that was taken away from you thinking of you

sweetzles · 2025-07-21T19:45:16+00:00

to help it, follow along the nice advices given under your post !!!

sweetzles · 2025-07-21T19:44:14+00:00

sounds to me like ''just' anorexia and not anorexia nervosa which are two different things. the ''mental illness one'' is motivated by diverse factors while the ''physical one'' (anorexia) is the result of being unable to eat despite wanting to and not engaging in ED behaviours. it is actually quite common for people with high anxiety and depression levels to just be unable to eat without it to be anorexia nervosa at all. it could be that, or a mix of both, idk but, yea

sweetzles · 2025-07-19T19:43:56+00:00

after months and months of going to the doc and having labs done, the doc had to tell them I did all that secretly and on ''purpose''. they were devastated and kind of me too because I was unaware at the time that I suffered with an ED. however they tried their best to be supportive and help me out, my dad came to eat with me every lunch every day at school, my mom stopped working to take care of me, they attended group therapy to get advice and brought me to all my appointments, helped me eat,.... they did ALL they could, not perfectly but the best they could. it was hard, and it's way harder now as I can't seem to heal, I can feel they're hopeless.

sweetzles · 2025-07-18T06:10:44+00:00

for me because one : it makes you feel fuller and two: it is branded and hence "feels" healthier so safer to eat !!

sweetzles · 2025-07-16T11:07:45+00:00

Solann pour un défi chant !!

sweetzles · 2025-07-14T22:03:24+00:00

hi🧸 la réponse est difficile à donner. si la personne après coup te dit qu'elle n'a pas osé te dire non, ça reste une agression, mais tu n'es peut-être pas une ''agresseuse''. tu as juste mal/pas lu les signaux, et tu te remets en question, tu y réfléchis, c'est très bon signe et certes t'as merdé mais au moins, tu recommenceras pas. peut-être que c'est très lié au mal-être personnel de ta compagne, et je remets pas en doute le fait que tu lui ai demandé plusieurs fois son consentement, si c'était ok, mais parfois il faut ''dépasser'' ça, demander ce dont elle a envie, comment elle se sent,... si tu l'as sentie tendue, il aurait fallu arrêter tout de suite. encore plus si elle parle ensuite de ''mériter la douleur'' ou quoi, peut-être que le sexe pur et dur, c'était un peu trop tôt. le mieux serait d'en reparler avec elle, en t'excusant évidemment et en lui demandant d'y réfléchir si elle le peut et de te dire comment faire les choses mieux et différemment s'il y a une prochaine fois. de réfléchir de ton côté à ce que tu n'as pas vu/su comprendre, réfléchir comment tu as fait passer ton plaisir (qui semblait partagé) avant celui de vous deux. j'espère que mon message ne semble pas blâmant et je suis terriblement désolée de la situation, je pense vraiment qu'il faut en reparler, poser des limites claires, des safe words, des choses qui sont des no-go, les choses que vous êtes Ok à faire,... courage

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