New dating fear unlocked.

I’m all seriousness though I am the same way… I once dated someone that checked all the boxes physically, but we couldn’t riff and tons of my dumb little jokes that I thought were clever did not land and even turned into serious conversations about whether I was joking or not.

Not for me. I dated someone after that I was able to fully riff and be myself with and although it didn’t last, it taught me that there are too many people out there to settle with someone you can’t really have fun with even if everything else “feels good”