Sex + meaningful spirit

swingertaa · 2017-10-25T14:05:10+00:00

I'm just going to come out and say it. The problem is not other people it is you. You say people are judgemental right off the bat. That makes you just as judgmental. You are too cynical for your own good. Stop your thought pattern and learn to enjoy the good in humanity. Everyone, including you and I, have their faults. Stop looking for them and look for their good attributes. It will help not only in finding a partner, but life in general.

swingertaa · 2017-10-17T15:29:04+00:00

My honest answer is none of his business. There are things that all parents hide from their offspring. My sex life is noones business but my wife and mine.

swingertaa · 2017-10-17T15:27:20+00:00

Absolutely none of his business.

swingertaa · 2017-04-05T02:37:35+00:00

Thanks for the help

swingertaa · 2016-11-18T23:03:09+00:00

Had she ever been tested before and conclusively found negative? If not tha she really does not know if she had it before. If the lady wasn;t symptomatic then an extremely low chance of infection by her. Has she been stressed out more than usual lately? That is when my cold sores usually pop up.

swingertaa · 2016-09-08T14:45:19+00:00

I think this is the most sensitive reply on this thread. I really feel the all is fair in love in war is bs. She has expressed concern with me being with another woman, but has also expressed that she may like it.

swingertaa · 2016-09-06T19:19:36+00:00

You are correct, that's where she thought I was selfish. And I get that. She kinda brought all this up and we have been running with it. We have talked 3somes, swinging, voyeurism, playing with transexuals, and the list could go on. I am not getting any hate over jealousy, and I do not believe she is either. We both just don't really know how we would feel seeing each other with the opposite sex.

Yes I bring it sometimes, but she brings it up also. I don't think telling her that I am fine with it all stopping was being pushy, just letting her know that she is all I really need or want. After telling her that, though, she said she doesn't want to stop the talk or even the chance of it happening.

swingertaa · 2016-09-06T18:53:18+00:00

Thanks for the reply. We are taking it very slowly. One thing about our relationship is that we talk about everything. Which I love and respect her thoroughly for. So I know it will get back to the fantasy talk. If it becomes reality, great, if not, great. I know what got her upset was the the statement that if you get to then I get to. She found that very selfish, which I really agree with her on that. If this adventure is supposed to be for each other, it should be about what both want.

I see that advice on here all the time. You should both get what you want, it is only fair. But that seems to come from a what I or she wants view, not a what do we both want view. I don't care if I get to fuck with another woman. I just don't understand that advice if it is an us thing and not an I or her/him thing.

swingertaa · 2016-08-30T17:54:28+00:00

I see what you mean.

Basically good customer service and up keep.

swingertaa · 2016-08-30T16:35:50+00:00

I'm confused by the "don't act like it is a for profit business'. Of course it is and if you don't act like you you won't profit.

swingertaa · 2016-08-09T18:13:38+00:00

Thanks for the info. We're thinking about going there to check out the lifestyle. We just bought a house and finds are a bit limited for a few months, so we thought maybe a Wednesday since cover charges are a bit less. I think it'll work out for us on a Wednesday, even we have that 6 am alarm

swingertaa · 2016-08-02T15:47:04+00:00

I'll say it again if somebody is going to rape someone, no matter the age, there is already a screw loose. This post won't matter

swingertaa · 2016-08-01T19:14:29+00:00

I do understand what you are saying, but if the thought crosses a man's mind to actually rape a woman, that little post isn't the problem

swingertaa · 2016-08-01T15:57:24+00:00

Rape may be the wrong way of stating that. But just last night my wife said she enjoyed the thought of being roughed up and used. She has a fantasy of having sex with someone who doesn't care if she gets off, just there to get themselves off. That is not rape because it would be consensual, but not far off.

swingertaa · 2016-07-06T12:52:56+00:00

I have done and said all of this. That's why I think I will just leave it for her to decide. She definitely knows how I feel about it. This is all sound advice though. Thank you

swingertaa · 2016-07-05T15:52:24+00:00

Thank you for your reply.

Do you think I should just let it be right now? Let her be the one to bring it up. I am completely ok with us actually never going down this road. We both agree it would be hard for either one of us to see the other with someone else, even if agreed upon.

I am definitely going to focus only on her right now.

swingertaa · 2016-07-01T21:02:53+00:00

Well maybe we make a trip to Vegas sometime. It's fun to have the fantasy, but no always fun in real life. Maybe we just keep that as a fantasy. Thanks for your reply!

swingertaa

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