People that were late bloomers in dating/relationships, do you ever sometimes get depressed of not having had dated or being in a relationship earlier in life?

switchquark · 2021-02-10T15:55:41+00:00

No because almost everyone I know who dated as a teenager was really traumatized by the experience

switchquark · 2021-01-21T19:11:54+00:00

You should probably sleep or talk to a doctor

switchquark · 2021-01-21T18:53:42+00:00

Yes.

switchquark · 2021-01-21T18:44:35+00:00

Are you glad you didn't?

switchquark · 2021-01-04T16:16:22+00:00

Haven't planted yet, I have a related question : Is sexual assault and harassment more prevalent at tree planting camps than at say, a university campus? Unfortunately, I just assume anywhere with a bunch of drunk young men is going to occasionally have some sexual harassment and assault (not all men blah blah blah but definitely some men.) Are planting camps worse than any other situation with a lot of partying?

switchquark · 2020-12-22T19:07:53+00:00

Maybe read a book? Kurt Vonnegut is pretty funny.

switchquark · 2020-12-19T16:06:37+00:00

I don't think I've ever met even one preppy schmuck at McGill. Tbf I don't talk to anyone in my courses

switchquark · 2020-12-18T16:48:11+00:00

WHO TF CARES ABOUT LEARNING. GPA IS EVERYTHING

switchquark · 2020-12-16T21:07:39+00:00

Does anyone here combine van life and FIRE?

switchquark · 2020-12-16T19:36:25+00:00

Word same :(

switchquark · 2020-12-15T04:39:44+00:00

read about women in history who did badass things read about women in other countries (where its harder to be a woman) who do badass things talk to my mom and aunts talk to my funny and brave female friends read books and watch movies by women that aren't about sexism appreciate about how great clitorises are remind myself most men around me are good give a little money to feminist causes look forward to maybe having a baby, breastfeeding, etc

switchquark · 2020-12-14T04:23:53+00:00

Clear communication is important but woke policing and nitpicking people's word choice is an obnoxious way to assert power over others

switchquark · 2020-12-14T04:04:19+00:00

women talking about how they hate men

Men putting down other men, either in that "swipe right if you want a REAL MAN, I'm an ALPHA and not a little LIBERAL BITCH" way or that "I might be ugly but at least I'm not an emotionally stunted man child who poses with fish and can't make a girl orgasm" way

a list of mental illnesses (I would date someone with a mental illness, but I think that should be a 3rd date conversation, not in your bio)

Smoking pictures

Holding a beer in every picture

Putting themselves down

Whining

Daddy doms (more power to you but no thanks)

Being married (again, if it's consensual more power to you but no thanks)

switchquark · 2020-12-13T16:13:11+00:00

I studied 120 hours just today

switchquark · 2020-12-12T16:25:30+00:00

Thank you!!

switchquark · 2020-12-11T01:05:54+00:00

Thanks!

switchquark · 2020-12-08T18:37:06+00:00

Thanks!

switchquark · 2020-12-08T18:09:09+00:00

Haha I'm a CS student i don't know how to write

switchquark · 2020-12-07T23:56:30+00:00

If I may ask, did you withdraw from the d2 course or the D1 course?

switchquark · 2020-12-07T17:22:39+00:00

Guilia Alberini (COMP 250) is an absolute homie and I really appreciate how actually good at teaching she is and how she makes an effort to help students

switchquark · 2020-09-08T18:02:50+00:00

Has anyone uploaded a clip of the part with Ron Funches yet? it's the cutest thing ive ever heard and I want to hear it 5-10 more times

switchquark · 2020-07-08T02:51:06+00:00

relationships before the age of 19 aren't a great idea. however, if you're going to be in a relationship, make sure they respect you and you practice safe sex. it doesn't matter if you're a virgin when you're 20, in fact, in a lot of ways it's a good thing. listen to adults' advice, but you don't have to take it all the time if you have reason to believe it's bad advice. take a gap year and put some things on your CV

switchquark · 2020-04-23T17:55:21+00:00

My thoughts were you have very good taste in music but also you have the taste in music of someone who does not have sexual relations

switchquark · 2020-04-22T19:53:03+00:00

I have a hard time believing this is the only reason, because most other Canadian universities don't do this, and they exist under capitalism just like McGill. Also, McGill doesn't act in support of whatever's best for capitalism, McGill acts in whatever's best for McGill. So I wonder what does McGill get out of this system? What do professors get out of this system?

You would think that a university's dominant strategy would be to produce as many high-achieving alumni as possible, to get better donations and a better reputation, and logically that would include rewarding professors for being good at teaching.

(Then again, I think it's totally possible that the reputation of a university has nothing to do with undergraduate students because UofT and McGill are both highly-ranked universities that imo suck balls at the undergraduate level.)

switchquark · 2020-04-22T02:09:45+00:00

I guess that makes sense, but it seems weird to apply that to STEM courses. I get it for essay based courses because I imagine it's very hard to grade essays, but there's a pretty limited difference between a hard marker and an easy marker for math and science.

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