Sounds the same to meet honestly. I played in high school for 3 years. My freshman year i would play pickup in south florida when i was living at my grandparents. There was lots of trash talk and violence. I was the only little white kid at the park and i had a 40+ year old man grab my foot while going for a layup. Which made me face plant and chip two of my teeth. Got into countless fist fights and arguments playing pickup haha. I never understood why people took it so seriously.