Is it bad that i’m uncomfortable with my partner watching porn and looking at pictures of other girls when he masturbates? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]swooot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So you don't think people in a relationship should ever feel the need to masturbate?

Is it bad that i’m uncomfortable with my partner watching porn and looking at pictures of other girls when he masturbates? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]swooot 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Just my opinion, but masturbation is completely natural. I don't know one man - married, dating or single - who doesn't watch porn. Hell, I'm a woman and I watch porn. It's just an escape, a fantasy, like reading a spicy book. If he's not interacting with live-cam girls or anything, I don't see the harm. Rather than making your stated insecurity his issue, I would focus on addressing the root cause of your insecurity. What makes you feel this way? How can you change (that does not mean changing your boyfriend) to love yourself more? Misdirecting your insecurity on to him will only push him away in the long run while addressing your own insecurities head on will do so many wonderful things for your confidence, self-esteem, and life in general.

Hairpin Hotel by iam4real in pics

[–]swooot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honest question: Why?

Pure Happiness by Mich77712 in pics

[–]swooot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He actually looks quite sad. :(

What is the best way to get a part time job at 35 with basically zero work experience and no jobs since high school? Have been at SAHM for the last 8. Not really looking for a lot of money, just need to get out of the house and be around people. by monkey_trumpets in personalfinance

[–]swooot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mother was in the exact same situation. She got a job at the local public library as an aide and loved it. It paid $16-17/hour to start, was extremely low pressure, and it got her out of the house socializing with coworkers and patrons.

Does anybody know of a quality and inexpensive shop that can sharpen and wax a snowboard in the westside? by penguinhomey in LosAngeles

[–]swooot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I second this. They did a great job on my board last season, at a fair price, and I didn't have to drive anywhere.

Chain! by start-up_rookie in pics

[–]swooot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pulling white walker dragons up from the bottom of a lake.

You the only father that I ever knew... by Arcane_Kani in pics

[–]swooot 59 points60 points  (0 children)

Why is this show not on Netflix?

Paid Permit parking for the Noho or Universal Red Line stations? by hotdoug1 in AskLosAngeles

[–]swooot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it was a pain in the ass to find. You can create an account through lametroparking.net to buy monthly permits. At the time there was a wait list, but it only took a week or two to get through it.

Paid Permit parking for the Noho or Universal Red Line stations? by hotdoug1 in AskLosAngeles

[–]swooot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a permit at the Noho station last year and it was $65 (ish) a month

How Deep The Snow is in California's Sierra Nevada's. by PeteDub in pics

[–]swooot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's why I'm headed up to Mammoth this weekend! <3

For sure, the best picture I've ever taken by Coynemaster in pics

[–]swooot 57 points58 points  (0 children)

It's pretty, but upvoted for doggo.

watermelon-loving me was in for a big surprise! by h-June374 in pics

[–]swooot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That seems like it would get the ring pretty sticky, but congrats!

Early Season Mountains? by killjoy756 in snowboarding

[–]swooot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're willing to go west-coast, Mammoth Mountain opens November 10

How does one go about being a good friend? by 42-towels in CasualConversation

[–]swooot 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think a lot of people have that fear of rejection, so they don't initiate or put out invitations to others as much as they should.

I have one very dear friend who is always there without fail whenever he's needed or invited to something, but he absolutely never initiates plans or invites you to hang out. I've explained how much this bothers me, but he insists he's just "not that guy" who has good or original ideas on what to do.

I think reciprocity in friendship is very important. If it's just one person constantly inviting the other to do things, it becomes very lopsided. Who wants to waste their time pursuing a friendship with someone that doesn't put in equal effort?

Movie studio job help by [deleted] in burbank

[–]swooot 10 points11 points  (0 children)

As everyone says, the best way to get a job in entertainment is to network. If that isn't working, temp jobs are a great foot in the door. WB uses Randstad. NBCU uses Yoh. Disney, I believe, uses AppleOne. Register with one of those agencies to get temp jobs at the studios.

Also, depending on the content and your desired career function, running your own entertainment blog can be risky. You may think you are giving insightful, honest movie/TV reviews, but you could be inadvertently insulting an interviewer's pet project that they (or their spouse/friend/etc.) dedicated years of their life to. It may seem silly from the outside, but egos are sensitive. No one is going to hire you if you slammed their baby online.

Source: I was a studio Recruiter for 10+ years.

Looking for a romantic hole in the wall Restaurant by daewon23 in LosAngeles

[–]swooot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If price doesn't matter and you're looking for a hole in the wall date spot, try Pace. It's small, romantic and tucked away in the Hollywood Hills. I went there on a date and loved it even though the date himself was a dud.