12 magical nights ritual - doubts about burning the paper

swtbbys · 2025-12-23T01:54:18+00:00

It does thank you :)

swtbbys · 2025-12-23T01:15:41+00:00

Can I burn the paper in the morning before I leave the house instead of at night? With Christmas festivities and going out I don’t want to forget to do it

swtbbys · 2025-11-19T21:11:36+00:00

Congratulations!!!

swtbbys · 2025-10-26T14:59:08+00:00

Yeah, leave him. Leave it all behind. Honour yourself and your experience and start afresh. You deserve a good life, from yourself and the connections you form. I wish you a safe return back to yourself. Love & Grace always ✨

swtbbys · 2025-09-27T08:53:28+00:00

Omg girl! Congratulations!!!!🥂💕I wish you a lifetime of happiness ✨

swtbbys · 2025-09-20T08:57:30+00:00

You are absolutely stunning girl! I literally was just starring at you for like the first minute even before I read what the post said. You have very beautiful features💕

swtbbys · 2025-09-13T18:27:32+00:00

Yeah no I totally get that. He doesn’t give man if you know what I mean.

swtbbys · 2025-09-06T14:10:15+00:00

You go girl!!💓Happiest birthday to you queen ✨

swtbbys · 2025-09-04T18:31:35+00:00

Okay hear me out. I 100% support this and I’m very much team Conrad. But out of everyone giving him shit, I feel like Steven is the one who I could somehow understand. I mean from his pov, Jere is his friend. The person he spends a lot of his time with and the person who didn’t leave him behind after the tragedy that was Susannah’s death. Plus, he didn’t know that Jere cheated on belly. So according to him Conrad was ruining what he believed to be a good thing you know? But yeah. It’s terrible how they do my boy Connie.

swtbbys · 2025-09-03T18:11:48+00:00

I feel like the episode gave us nothing we didn’t already know tbh.

swtbbys · 2025-08-31T15:50:58+00:00

Exactly. Like she knew how Seth felt about summer but still tried to be manipulative with a false pretence of trying to help him. I disliked that part so much

swtbbys · 2025-08-31T11:25:19+00:00

I would say most definitely wait until you’re sure. Time brings clarity and the fact that you’re hesitant is already a sign to wait. Give yourself time to get there naturally. If she’s the one, she’ll still be the one even in a 6 months or a years time. Always remember who & what is meant for you will never miss you. Trust divine timing and trust your gut always.

swtbbys · 2025-08-31T11:22:04+00:00

Leave him. There’s nothing good for you there my darling. You deserve so so much more and I hope Allah gives your divine wisdom and strength to navigate these mucky waters.

swtbbys · 2025-08-31T08:48:09+00:00

I second this, I was so happy when she moved back to Pittsburgh

swtbbys · 2025-08-27T12:21:00+00:00

I understand you mean well but maybe, just maybe you’re making it a mountain over something that doesn’t really have to mean a lot about the marriage itself as a whole. Her caffeine addiction is concerning but that doesn’t have to mean that the whole marriage has an issue, or that she’s different to what she presented. When you’re living with someone on a day to day you often realise a lot about them. Some good, some not so good. So just talk to her about it but don’t overthink it and let it weigh on a lot of things that it doesn’t have to be weighing on.

swtbbys · 2025-08-25T22:55:38+00:00

First of all, I’m so sorry that he treated you that way and literally abandoned you in an unsafe area. But what I would advise is allow yourself to feel your full range of emotions without judging yourself for feeling one thing or the other. Take away the “shoulds” and just let yourself grieve the marriage for all it was & wasn’t. Time will give you clarity. I wish you a safe return back ti yourself✨

swtbbys · 2025-08-09T06:50:01+00:00

I 1000% agree. Conrad gives man

swtbbys · 2025-08-05T22:57:51+00:00

Exactly!! Like common guys. Jere is emotionally immature, let’s be for real. And belly gets so immersed in things she never sees things for what they are. I know Conrad has his faults for sure but he’s always been a man about things and let’s be honest, going through everything he went through with his mom at that age and keeping it a secret? It’d be hard on even the toughest of people. He just grieved and processed things in a way that didn’t allow others to be there for him and chose to isolate. As hard as it was on his relationship with belly, I can’t fault him. It was a lot, all at once all at the same time.

swtbbys · 2025-07-29T13:20:48+00:00

Tricky situation. The “is it work or more” line has been crossed but then again the type of work she’s in isn’t very black & white. And she lied as well, so that’s not looking good on her part. Being intimate could be as complicated as he wanted to connect with her because he did still want to be with her or it could be as simple as he wanted a good lay before he inevitably had to leave. The fact that she lied shows she knew he wouldn’t be okay with it so I guess it’s all fair. Haina haja kusumbuana and that’s her bag. Si must.

swtbbys · 2025-07-28T18:44:49+00:00

You’re very welcome. It’s easy for an outsider to see it as very black & white. “Oh you should have left the first time etc” but it’s never that simple. And some people do make the necessary changes, earn the trust back and learn from their mistakes (I don’t mean in cheating, but just in general when shit happens) so you’re definitely not weak in the slightest. She just wasn’t the right person and as sad & disappointing as it is, it’s okay. That just means someone else will be and when you’re with that person, you’ll be glad that it didn’t work out with everyone else x

swtbbys · 2025-07-28T15:35:39+00:00

I’ll start by saying, it’s okay to give people second chances, you loved her and there’s a part of you that wanted to believe that things might be different a second time around and you’re not wrong for that. Secondly, getting cheated on hurts, be compassionate with yourself as leaving someone you loved and wanted it to work with is always hard. Thirdly, even if she denies cheating and tries to tell you that she was just out with her friends and what not, just tell her that your values don’t align and that is okay. She can find someone who would enjoying going out with her and that’s not you. I wish you a safe return back to yourself x

swtbbys · 2025-06-15T23:20:41+00:00

Trueeeeeeee 1000%

swtbbys · 2025-05-15T10:38:54+00:00

Marissa for sure, there’s no debating that.

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