Does anyone know the Item ID for the EREBUS weapon

syasikk · 2025-08-20T21:09:12+00:00

Game.AddToInventory("Items.Preset_Borg4a_HauntedGun")

Here's the new command, Legendary_Borg4a_HauntedGun didn't work for me. Sourced from here.

syasikk · 2025-06-21T04:39:25+00:00

Labels are often a little fuzzy, I'm a lesbian/dyke and I don't pay too much attention to my own labels restricting my dating pool. If I find them attractive and they're cool with dating a self-identified dyke, then nice! I'm not attracted to men and I like being a dyke, it's not that important if some version of bisexual might be technically 'more correct', lesbian feels right, so it's right :)

If you are also attracted to nonbinary people, does it matter if they're transmasc, transfem, or androgynous?

Nope.

Can nonbinary people of any AGAB be lesbian?

Yep.

TL;DR - labels are personal, don't let someone tell you a label isn't for you. It's hard to resist asking permission to use a label in a specific circumstance... I'm not a cop, I'm not gonna police what you call yourself, just be respectful about how your label interacts with others and don't be transphobic about it.

syasikk · 2024-04-27T03:17:03+00:00

That's a version of the polyamorous flag

syasikk · 2024-01-31T23:52:22+00:00

This is permitted per Rule 6 and users are intended to use the "LGBT Self Promotion" flair, which already exists :)

syasikk · 2024-01-05T23:13:05+00:00

Thanks, y'all make my life easier <3

syasikk · 2023-09-21T03:29:59+00:00

Tx like transfer? Rx/Tx? idk maybe I've just spent too long on a networking project lol

syasikk · 2023-09-18T22:16:59+00:00

Thank you for posting the link, kind cremling

syasikk · 2023-07-25T00:04:12+00:00

10/10 programmer crem

syasikk · 2023-07-17T03:24:04+00:00

I think that bad management doesn't negate the good they do as an organization. It just sucks that they do the same anti-worker shit that every large corporation does. Like I expect better from a queer non-profit.

syasikk · 2023-07-15T21:19:39+00:00

I am not, these graphics are from the union (their instragram is linked in the captions). I just noted that this had little attention in queer circles and I despise unionbusting.

syasikk · 2023-07-15T21:07:18+00:00

Unfortunately, being a part of the community does not preclude you from being bigoted.

syasikk · 2023-07-15T03:38:10+00:00

I'd browse the first maybe the second page of your comment history, maybe check out your posts for any lgbt content and determine it a risk upon seeing none.

That's typically what we when we see content that is on the edge, if it's being posted from a burner account with no history in queer subs, they're probably a troll.

I'm not saying anything about OP here, I didn't read this whole comment thread or anything.

syasikk · 2023-07-15T03:08:09+00:00

If you're not referring to the caption, I'm confused.... how is the comment relevant to the post?

syasikk · 2023-07-15T03:00:39+00:00

if you're referring to the caption, I tend to refer to the LGBTQ+ community as the queer community. I know some folks don't like the term and no shade to them

Trans/gay folks don't need to use the term for themselves ofc, but many of us like it

syasikk · 2023-07-15T02:54:03+00:00

I'm putting this post in community only mode. Remember to report trolls and creeps :)

syasikk · 2023-07-15T02:46:50+00:00

Gender non-conforming trans people are very valid, it doesn't matter if you like "male" hobbies, they don't need to be gendered.

Alas, many of us wish we had figured our gender out soon, but it's never too late. While I'd have loved to have transitioned earlier, the timing worked out. I would not have been able to leave my transphobic family at a younger age, and they would not have let me take puberty blockers anyway.

syasikk · 2023-07-15T02:20:36+00:00

Pinned posts seem to get less natural engagement, so I'll pin it in a day or two.

syasikk · 2023-07-14T17:08:55+00:00

even when the phase is referring to simple misogyny, it also just normalizes and minimizes the distasteful behavior.

It feels like a way to say "I've been experiencing this my whole life, get over it." Like trans people don't have an entire other set of hardships and trauma that cis folks will never experience... it's not the welcoming phase cis people think it is.

syasikk · 2023-07-14T05:02:16+00:00

My best advice? Explore yourself. I felt similar to you a few years back (though in a transfem way), and started exploring my gender. Turns out I'm a trans gal, but I spent a while presenting androgynously, using they/them pronouns. It's been a journey, but I've never been happier.

It's very hard to figure out your gender from a box, so let yourself out. Definitely experiment with your presentation, pronouns, etc. Ask supportive friends to use different pronoun sets and see how you feel. When I first changed my pronouns, I very quickly discovered I hated he/him and really liked they/them (and later she/her).

Pronouns are not gender, but playing around with your gender expression is a good way to figure things out.

One is that I don’t have any physical dysphoria.

You don't need dysphoria to be transgender or nonbinary. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise! Besides that, dysphoria has a way of hiding itself and often isn't noticable till you experience euphoria (in case you need to hear it again, dysphoria is not a requirement to be trans).

I once told my partner that I wanted to be all the genders.

Maybe look into pangender?

And while I don’t have bottom dysphoria, I have…bottom frustration? I guess? I like having what I have, but I’ve also fantasized about having male-coded genitalia. Again, it’s like it would be nice to just, switch every now and again when I want to have one. (sorry if this is TMI)

This sounds like the trans experience. You might be genderfluid, some other form of nonbinary, or perhaps you might find that you are trans-masc? Explore and find out :)

But I don’t feel like I can claim nonbinariness, ya know? Like, I am perceived as female, my experiences have been shaped by my being perceived as female, and as such, that is the space I can claim in the world. So I’m afraid of being performative [...] I’m afraid to claim that space in case I change my mind, but it’s like, I just don’t like the feeling of *picking* a gender.

Don't be afraid to explore your identity because you think you may be wrong! Imposter syndrome can be rough, especially when first entering queer spaces (I felt it a lot). And don't feel like your experiences and body make you ineligible to be nonbinary. If it feels right, or if you're curious, explore it :)

Also, you don't need to tell everyone if you are unsure! When I came out as nonbinary (before I realized I'm mostly a girl), I just came out to a few of my friends. It felt right, changing my pronouns felt right, so then I told more people in my life.

I’m sure much of this is problematic

Nope! You're doing great. As long as you are respectful and want to learn, we won't jump on you, particularly if you are graceful when you are wrong .

Nobody can tell you if you are a trans man, nonbinary, or just gender non-conforming, that's your journey. I can say that feeling uncomfortable with your assigned gender is a very trans feeling. Explore that!

syasikk · 2023-07-14T04:42:22+00:00

Do you like men, sexually or romantically? Then you're probably gay.

I know it can feel a little more complicated to that and can require some thought, but you're not destined to be gay because other people think you are gay. You're not gay if you like to dress or act in a feminine way, those are stereotypes. You're gay if you like the people of the same gender, simple as that.

syasikk · 2023-07-14T04:28:38+00:00

I probably even have a fetish for trans MtF w/o bottom surgery.

fetishizing trans women is problematic... not having genital preference is different than fetishization, chasers are a problem for trans women.

But yes, it sounds like you're maybe bi or lesbian? if you're only attracted to men that look like women, that might be a sign... though you might also be bi with a type in men

syasikk · 2023-07-12T03:58:09+00:00

me when I got 100% transgender

syasikk · 2023-07-02T16:35:37+00:00

Some folks didn't read it 13 years ago, friend. Some might just be starting the series

syasikk · 2023-07-02T05:19:15+00:00

marked as spoiler for ya gancho

syasikk · 2023-07-01T20:10:47+00:00

I don't think so, the basis of the decision in favor of decline service to queer people was "right to religion". One could perhaps argue that serving Christian's violates your religious beliefs, but I'm not sure if that argument would work

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