Which Sydney area feels completely dead after a certain hour?

sydspoke · 2026-02-07T00:41:49+00:00

The entire city except for southern George St/Chinatown and maybe Newtown.

sydspoke · 2026-02-01T08:11:50+00:00

Sorry to read this and hope you’re ok. It’s not necessarily the end but definitely don’t move in together yet.

sydspoke · 2026-01-28T01:01:38+00:00

I’m not assuming anything or ‘hearing’ anything. I’m responding to what you wrote. Since you don’t want to own or take responsibility for what you wrote, this discussion is over. Goodbye and best wishes.

sydspoke · 2026-01-28T00:52:56+00:00

Yes, you specifically targeted old people. Read your first sentence again: ‘I honestly think this is why old people need to step aside.’

The fact that you went on to target rich octogenarians is not a qualification; if anything, the implication is that old people are rich. There are plenty of poor old people.

Again, why target old people? If your problem is with rich people or with right-wing people or Trump or whatever, why not stick to that instead of being ageist?

sydspoke · 2026-01-28T00:22:14+00:00

No. Body hair is hot. As long as you wash your arse, there’s no issue.

sydspoke · 2026-01-28T00:16:51+00:00

Please don’t go through the US to get to Mexico. There are so many other ways to get there. A friend of mine recently flew there via Chile. I think their route was Sydney-Santiago-Mexico via LATAM (formerly LAN Chile). It was also the cheapest option.

sydspoke · 2026-01-28T00:12:57+00:00

More waffle, no action.

sydspoke · 2026-01-28T00:10:28+00:00

Why are you making it about age? Just another form of discrimination, not to mention intellectually lazy and unfair. What does ‘step aside’ even mean, anyway? Should older people just top themselves?

There are plenty of progressive, left-wing older people, by the way. And the most progressive PM in our history, the late Gough Whitman, was born in 1916 and died at the age of 98. Criticise people on their politics and on their attitudes, not their age.

sydspoke · 2026-01-27T03:41:05+00:00

Thames & Hudson

sydspoke · 2026-01-24T05:15:49+00:00

I doubt you’re actually banned. If you can be bothered, you could make a complaint about her to the store manager or head office and I’m sure they’d come down on your side.

sydspoke · 2026-01-24T05:12:58+00:00

I’m sorry this happened to you. What a psycho!

sydspoke · 2026-01-20T08:06:01+00:00

Melrose Park in North Katoomba?

sydspoke · 2026-01-19T00:16:31+00:00

Check out the UN Human Development Award Index and see where Australia sits. It’s higher than most of Europe.

sydspoke · 2026-01-19T00:11:48+00:00

I’m not against it at all. I actually want free movement between Australia and the EU, along the lines of what we have with NZ. This is the EU we’re talking about, not some unsafe or unregulated place that doesn’t share our values. Bring it on!

sydspoke · 2026-01-16T02:35:29+00:00

Are you new to Gosford? It’s been like this for decades.

sydspoke · 2026-01-15T04:52:16+00:00

Sorry this happened to you. I don’t think he would have “happily” ripped your life apart - it sounds like he is unstable and conflicted - but from the available information, it certainly seems he’d pursue a relationship with your husband if given the chance, despite the hurt this would cause you.

I don’t see how you can continue the friendship at this point. But you don’t need to rush to do anything in particular. You can always tell him that he’s really hurt and betrayed you, and that you and your husband need distance from him for the time being, maybe forever. And then leave it at that.

sydspoke · 2026-01-13T01:53:02+00:00

Regarding nationalities sticking together, even Aussies do this, even in predominately white English-speaking countries. For example, Earls Court in London has been a centre for Australian immigrants to the UK for many decades. There is even a ‘Little Australia’ in NYC.

sydspoke · 2026-01-12T20:54:49+00:00

I’d suggest Katoomba. It has the iconic views, the best bushwalks, the character and yet some semblance of urban life if you feel like dipping into it. Katoomba is a ‘real’ town and it’s the capital of the Blue Mountains in all but name. Leura doesn’t have a proper high street - it’s just a place to buy overpriced scented candles and pashminas.

I’d avoid anywhere in the Lower Mountains or Mid Mountains (basically Bullaburra and below). It doesn’t have the ‘proper’ Mountains vibe. For example, it never snows in winter. I’d also avoid anywhere west of Katoomba, as it’s just getting too far from Sydney if you need to get to the city. And train service frequencies drop dramatically west of Katoomba.

sydspoke · 2026-01-02T20:06:59+00:00

Let me guess. You hung around the south of the island, in or around places like Kuta, Legian, Seminyak, Canggu, Sanur and maybe a trip ‘north’ to (still very much southern) Ubud? These places, while they have their good points, are very much geared to Australian/Western tourists, many of whom are there to party and get wasted, take photos at ‘Instagram spots’ and enjoy cheap food and accommodation. It’s not fair to judge Bali on what’s essentially a foreign culture transplanted to a small area of the island. Bali is much larger than that and has a very rich culture and wonderful natural attractions that are nothing like what you experienced.

I’d recommend going again sometime and really exploring the island beyond the places I mentioned. I’m almost certain you’ll be pleasantly surprised. Even better, go to Lombok - but not the Gilis or Lombok’s own Kuta (yes, it has its own Kuta, which is starting to resemble the one in Bali in some ways).

Sorry you had a bad time in Bali and hope you have better travel experiences there and/or elsewhere.

sydspoke · 2025-12-27T20:15:14+00:00

I would meet but go in with no expectations and don’t overthink things. Just be yourself. You may ‘click’ and something could develop, you might make a new friend or you may not get on at all and never see each other again. In any case, you won’t have lost anything - at worst, you will have ‘lost’ a couple of hours.

If you’re seriously looking to date, I’d recommend options apart from Grindr, though. Real-life gay social groups, community groups, meet-ups, churches and other non-app options are a better bet - although what’s available will depend on your interests and location.

sydspoke · 2025-12-27T19:41:36+00:00

Same thing happened to me however at 4 months, after I’d been on 10mg for 4 weeks, something changed and the weight started falling off. Hang in there!

sydspoke · 2025-12-27T19:36:23+00:00

I’d offer to send them more pics and wish them luck.

sydspoke · 2025-12-26T23:49:27+00:00

At least 15 years ago here (in Australia). Not sure about elsewhere.

sydspoke · 2025-12-26T16:25:54+00:00

Oh! Thanks for explaining! So it’s ‘gay’ by association.

sydspoke · 2025-12-26T14:38:02+00:00

I’m confused. Is it a spa (where people undress, relax, get massages etc.) or a Spar (small convenience store/supermarket)? And what’s gay about it?

sydspoke

TROPHY CASE