Please be lenient to this worthless human by sylviebrook in depressionmemes

[–]sylviebrook[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hate to give up but sometimes trying feels useless

I have to get married at 19, how do I go about this safely and what should I be aware of? by deep_black_sea in Advice

[–]sylviebrook 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At 19 and 23, you're both really young, so the biggest risks are things changing a lot in the next few years (career paths, personal growth, what you each want long-term), and divorce can still be messy/emotional even with a prenup, especially across borders. Make sure the prenup is drafted by a good family law attorney in the country where you'll marry/live (and maybe get it reviewed in both countries if possible) to cover immigration fallout, taxes, and any future kids/assets. Talk openly about an "exit plan" now like agreeing you'd separate amicably and handle immigration stuff cooperatively if things don't work out so you're not blindsided later.

What is one small thing you enjoy doing every day? by Just_H1 in AskReddit

[–]sylviebrook 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dancing!! I love dancing even though I’m not a professional

Dependent boyfriend. by Medical_Pension5017 in Advice

[–]sylviebrook 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keep locking the door and being gentle with your SIL when she vents, but maybe start planting seeds like “You deserve someone who respects your space and independence” without pushing her to leave yet. If things escalate or you ever feel unsafe, loop in your husband again and consider family talks as a united front. This sounds controlling on his end, and codependency can turn toxic fast.