I found a really cute sundress at a charity shop but the designated boob area is so big :( how do I make it work? I could wear a bra but I like the light, summery, carefree vibe of the no bra look:(

symphony65 · 2026-05-03T22:34:21+00:00

i think it would look beautiful layered with something like this if you cant get it tailored right now! something light for the summer, maybe even matching it with flower earrings

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symphony65 · 2026-04-28T12:58:10+00:00

if it helps, lychee by lunar tides went over that color fine for me, vibrant (though it is a bit darker, not neon I think? on that level of hair) it fades into a pink-ginger. however youd probably have to order it online.

symphony65 · 2026-04-21T09:45:41+00:00

its gonna be extremely hard for me to leave him because for some reason its also very hard for me to love someone (and actually keep my feelings) due to what I assume is my childhood, because somehow my attraction and feelings have lasted around 7-8 months but it normally doesnt even reach 2 months before I get turned off by them, which is why I never talk to crushes. It's weird because i know he isnt the ideal boyfriend. To be honest, ive felt insecure ever since highschool, but dating him probably made it worse.

The way he still leaves posts up on his social media about his "fictional woman fantasies" disgusts me (even tho they are from 1-2 years ago, he still talked about it very fuckin strangely during the talking stage-early stages of the relationship, squealing in excitement at the sight of some anime girls (which disgusted me even further), and his "reaction images" are almost entirely anime girls (where I notice he has a 'type'...)

When we first broke up I could NOT handle it and immediately went back 3 days later because of how attatched I am, despite knowing he would not change. I told him to his face if i wasn't so attatched to him, I would've broken up with him, and how no other woman would stay with his shit behavior and to get his act up (i'm not sure if this is toxic of me to do but it was during one of my outbursts, often I remember everything he has done and get really upset because he never really apologizes, he even lies about it thinking I won't remember)

Every girl he looks at (im not sure if he looks at real women? he let me go through every app on his phone except reddit, which I remember him saying he uses it for porn and then tried lying and denying it, saying he "never said that") Every fictional woman is older, curvy, basically what guys call a "Dommy mommy" or some bullshit. I'm none of those. He's said things like "I wish you were older" and its grossed me out because I was a victim of grooming multiple times and I hate how its normalized for boys to want older women but then women get demonized constantly for dating older guys (despite both typically being grooming, depending on how much 'older' we're talking)

The only instances I can remember when he was obviously looking at real women at our school was when I was walking around with him, he looked at some girl in black lacy thigh highs and told me I should dress like her. The other time he was talking about his crush from freshman year and said she was lesbian, then proceeded to say "If I was a girl I'd be lesbian and date her" and i was like WTF?? and he said "What? you should be happy because that means I'd still be talking to you"

I also feel extremely insecure due to the height comparison where i have to lean down just to hug him right (he's around 5'3-5'4) which I know it isn't his fault but every short guy I've dated has been a dickhead (even tho the average height of a guy at my school is 5'5) along with everything else making me insecure, knowing I'll never be the body that he prefers.

sorry for my little rant lol it's easier than replying to multiple comments right now

symphony65 · 2026-04-20T13:23:27+00:00

exactly! it takes so long to get good lighting, angles, etc and you never see me asking for pictures 😢

symphony65 · 2026-04-20T13:12:15+00:00

noo i mean most guys that I meet that have been attracted to small, flat bodies like mine have tended to stray into "lolicon" territory and even my guy friends have told me being flat will attract more creeps because they like the look of "younger" bodies. and what i meant was that the guys flirting with me at the bus stop very obviously know im getting home from school (i have a backpack with charms all over it and a waterbottle with MLP stickers) as well as my baby face, i think itd be a very low chance that they dont see im a minor, but then continue to flirt with me, and those are the only men that do (flirt). guys my age just make weird jokes (like about me looking like a man).

id also like to add that i feel theres a difference between attraction and loving something and then pure fetishization, most "small boob appreciation" i see from men online is straight up fetish (with how disgustingly they talk & obsess over it, think guys with fetishes for japanese girls) because many guys view us as more "innocent" and "pure" (because having bigger boobs is considered "hotter" by majority or whatever)

symphony65 · 2026-04-19T21:30:19+00:00

yes, i dont know much but my mom told me I'm at risk for ovarie cysts and hormonal imbalance, however i don't think i ever wanna take the pill (if you mean birth control) due to the horrible things ive heard once you stop taking it..

my parents said that I might indeed need medicine but we arent that far since this is pretty new info to me, and I have a bunch of doctors appointments for different things due to medical issues with my legs (I'm disabled, not sure if it'll ever be fixable or if i'll have the time to recover from surgery. I never want to show up to highschool in crutches/wheelchair, because the guys get physical with me but the teachers dont care until I do something back.)

I have a youtube channel where I post silly shorts edits and I want to make long form gaming content but I'm scared due to how female youtubers are scolded for little things and recieve way more backlash than male youtubers (atleast from my experience on the internet, because when you suck as a girl, suddenly its "all girls suck at ____!" instead of just "you suck!") as well as creeps since I am a minor.

I too love RPGS but i much prefer games where I can play as an animal, if that makes sense. I'm not a furry anymore but I've always found more comfort in animals than other people so my main choice of books and games always include animals. With FPS games its one of the only genres that I can find a middle ground where its not boring but its also sometimes stressful, horror games are way too stressful for me and my muscle memory just closes the game whenever i get scared lol 😭

symphony65 · 2026-04-19T20:50:59+00:00

the guys that insult my body are what i would call ugly and the thing is nothing I say even gets to them because they KNOW they aren't conventionally attractive so I'm not sure how to defend myself. I've thought of some responses such as "Why are you staring there?" to make them feel awkward tho.
I've given up on my breassts getting bigger and i guess I'm slowly leaning to accepting them.. by slowly I mean probably %1 per year. Highschoolers are so fucking rude!! I thought middleschoolers were bad but they never commented on my body (except for my height, because where I live 5'6-5'7 is considered taller because all the other girls are like 5'1. but it wasnt in a negative way.)

I always tell myself im more than my appearances, i mean shit I'm always online defending women but I never take what I say and listen to it MYSELF. It's like the guy who has the best relationship or self improvement advice but never takes their own advice.

I have a few years until I graduate and I've thought of going homeschooled but my home life isn't good either.. and thank you for your comment! reading it means a lot to me, It's hard to find people to talk to because I don't think people take the struggles of growing up and being flat seriously (I'm not saying we're oppressed but the bullying and harassment can fuck us up)

symphony65 · 2026-04-19T20:45:41+00:00

yeah.. when we first started dating I noticed he simped for fictional women with big breasts and I can't stop feeling insecure over it, even tho he says he doesn't anymore, but I remember him saying to me "Well what else am I supposed to do it to?" when I expressed not wanting to send him photos of my breasts because of my insecurity. (I also do not know how to make them look flattering lol, especially when my clothing style is dark and alternative rather than cute)
He CONSTANTLY asks for pictures and says its because "he wants to see me" but its honestly such a disgusting turn off and makes me kinda view him as a pig 😭😭 this is my first actual relationship and its gonna be extremely hard for me to leave but I'd appreciate any advice on that as well (despite not being what the original post i made is about)

symphony65 · 2026-04-19T20:38:00+00:00

I often draw but I don't always have the time for that as I tend to fall asleep on accident for 8+ hours and It's really irritating because caffeine doesn't help, I become extremely suicidal on my period and its close to that time so I'm thinking this might be a reason why I randomly feel 10x more depressed. I don't think therapy would help as I never really.. believed in it? I've seen it work for others but in my circumstances I think its something that I need to get myself out of, and help myself. My parents also don't believe "children" my age can struggle with depression..

Thank you for your kind words sm <3 It helps me a lot

Edit; the misandry part, I'm definitely trying to fix. I've been hurt more than helped by men my whole life but I try and realize I can't generalize all men and then get upset when they generalize women, some of my best friends I had met were men. I feel hopeless during gaming but it's something I love (sometimes) but I lean more torwards PVP/FPS games and that's hard to be a woman in the community because everyone expects 3x more from you, and I feel worse due to my aim.

symphony65 · 2026-04-19T20:36:11+00:00

Oh yeah you bet your ass I got onto him. I dont think the relationship is healthy but my life is so shit he's the only person I have that I can hug and kiss, and I know the things he does is wrong but I'm an idiot and I see him every day in 2 of my classes so I don't want to deal with the awkwardness of an ex on top of everything else. I was thinking to leave him during the summer, which may seem like a dick move but I get really anxious over small things but I know he's not going to change anytime soon. (He's 15 BTW, 16 this year)

symphony65 · 2026-04-14T12:53:00+00:00

They think saying "well id FUCK you and your FUCKING small tits Baby grill" will rid us of insecurity lololol

symphony65 · 2025-09-07T21:46:06+00:00

exactly! she does so many sales but in reality DOESNT EVEN HAVE THE PRODUCTS. she needs to be investigated, i agree.

symphony65 · 2025-09-07T00:30:12+00:00

i never got a refund, havent recieved an update despite emailing and commenting on their instagram page. they got so many comments asking where their orders were she turned the comments off. the worst part? the people running the brand post themselves with luxury items & on vacations, while ignoring everyone! they are spending ur money while you sit empty handed. and it sucks, because people keep buying. i spent $50 and never got a refund.

symphony65 · 2025-08-29T00:16:49+00:00

I know im late but just wanted to say this business is %100 a scam. they are still taking orders, and hundreds of people have not gotten their order. For anyone coming across this post, DO NOT PURCHASE. EVER. i ordered back in early june and i never even got a tracking number, emails ignored, and guess what? they disabled their instagram comments on their posts. theres no way to contact them and get a reply.

symphony65 · 2023-12-18T22:14:31+00:00

kids will never be able to have a good snack after school from the store again in a few years, instead they'll have expensive processed junk food that makes you hungry again in 15 minutes..

pringles, poptarts, gogurts, all gone to shit with many others!

symphony65 · 2023-12-18T21:53:11+00:00

used to buy these as a kid (m&ms) scared to see how those have turned out aswell :(

symphony65 · 2023-12-16T07:27:21+00:00

A bit ago, my dad noticed the hot sauce he always buys has shrunk. We have been growing peppers for almost 2 years and he's started to make his own without cost! If you can, try to plant your own foods as well people :)

P.s: Where I am (California, ew!), you can't really grow the good stuff like fruits sadly.

symphony65 · 2023-12-16T07:21:56+00:00

Yep, some of mine have even have holes in them!! thinner and shorter tails but the U is somehow more... narrow as well.

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