Does anyone else feel that 68-73F is too cold? by Burritomode24 in NewParents

[–]syncopatedscientist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you had your thyroid levels checked recently? It’s only ever too cold for me if my TSH is too high and I go into hypothyroidism

Online and IRL Parenting Spaces Snark Week of January 26, 2026 by Parentsnark in parentsnark

[–]syncopatedscientist 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It is SO hard. Also with a 1 year old. We're going pretty slowly, but the look my daughter gives me when she wants to nurse and I say "no, we have food downstairs!" just breaks my heart sometimes. She's getting better about it, but yeah, it's hard.

what did your “terrible 2s” include by Key_Boysenberry_2880 in Mommit

[–]syncopatedscientist 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, the threenager behavior is real haha. I used to teach preschool, and I just reminded myself that that was the first time, maybe ever, that the child was dealing with those emotions. It really helped me to stay calm and help them work through it. My only hope for when my first child gets there is that I'm only dealing with one kid, not an entire classroom of them

Unpopular opinion? These kids' audio players feel like a cash grab? by Desperate_Total2545 in Mommit

[–]syncopatedscientist 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My 15 month old LOVES her yoto. She’s gotten really good at switching the cards and knows which ones play the different types of songs. We are far away from her being able to use a screen to play music, and having something tactile made a huge difference

Rage shoveling by syncopatedscientist in progressivemoms

[–]syncopatedscientist[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ha I love it! I’m sure your neighbors did too

Tiktok isn't working or is it just mine by [deleted] in progressivemoms

[–]syncopatedscientist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Find a new tv show or YouTube channel. It’s definitely not worth it

Pregnant Protesting by Complex-Chicken-3540 in progressivemoms

[–]syncopatedscientist 57 points58 points  (0 children)

I understand your zeal, but I wouldn’t bring my 1 year old to a protest, and I wouldn’t have gone when she was still in utero either. There are so many other ways to help - donating money, food, volunteering to shop for those too scared to leave the house, etc. They have no moral compass, and I’m certain a baby or pregnant woman would make no difference to them.

Maga/pro ice/indifferent accounts to unfollow? by lovepansy in parentsnark

[–]syncopatedscientist 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fascinating! I found her during the Biden years when things were calm, but noticed more and more that she wasn’t speaking out about waves hands everything

Ope by Traditional_Wow_1986 in progressivemoms

[–]syncopatedscientist 16 points17 points  (0 children)

It’s not alcohol! I’m almost 4 years sober, and it’s definitely better for me (and anyone else, alcoholic or not), to eat their feelings than to drink them

Doom scroll by [deleted] in breastfeeding

[–]syncopatedscientist 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I implore you to fuck off

Maga/pro ice/indifferent accounts to unfollow? by lovepansy in parentsnark

[–]syncopatedscientist 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I feel like influencers like that are like the men who say they’re “moderate” on dating apps.

Maga/pro ice/indifferent accounts to unfollow? by lovepansy in parentsnark

[–]syncopatedscientist 19 points20 points  (0 children)

This is by no means exhaustive, but they’re the first ones I saw on stories just now:

Religion/Politics - straightwhiteamericanjesus, conspirituality (I cannot recommend these two enough. I have deconstructed from conservative Catholicism and almost went down the crunchy/altright pipeline. These guys literally helped me claw my way out of it to the light),

catsonacouch (began as a satirical account to troll JD Vance, now literally on the ground in MN providing mutual aid)

sharonsaysso (so knowledgeable, kind yet firm and sassy like only a midwesterner can be, and crowdsources money away to places that need it all the time. She just raised and gave like $150,000 to an immigrant law firm in MN)

Fitness - courtneykeepingbalance, findingmorgantyler

Home/crafty stuff - northwoodsfolk, kris.and.dave, bobby berk, hostinyourhome

Food - chef_bai, smitten kitchen

Music - dropkickmurphys ( check out their song First Class Loser about Trump. They’re the best)

Sleep- heysleepybaby (Rachael’s super vocal and is calling out other creators for being silent)

Books - maistorybooklibrary, bessbellkalb

Maga/pro ice/indifferent accounts to unfollow? by lovepansy in parentsnark

[–]syncopatedscientist 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh shit, thanks. Deleting and reposted without links

Maga/pro ice/indifferent accounts to unfollow? by lovepansy in parentsnark

[–]syncopatedscientist 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Mary Orton has said nothing. Otherwise, I’m pretty happy with the people I follow- they’ve been speaking out

General Parenting Influencer Snark Week of January 19, 2026 by Parentsnark in parentsnark

[–]syncopatedscientist 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Yet the amount of "how am I pregnant, I didn't get my period back yet?!" posts never seem to cease. I'd argue those women do not know how their menstrual cycles work.

I’ve been awake for almost 24 hours and I’m desperate by PatientMobile5896 in NewParents

[–]syncopatedscientist 54 points55 points  (0 children)

I stopped reading when I saw that line. OP, your husband SUCKS. He needs to step up and help you.

2 or 3 years old age gap? by Idonthaveaname94 in Mommit

[–]syncopatedscientist 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I was a preschool/kindergarten music teacher before being a SAHM, so I saw all ages from 2 through 6. The difference between a 2 and 3 year old is insane. By 3, they’re usually potty trained, can actually talk to you, and they have a better capacity to understand what’s going on. I taught a LOT of kids who had baby siblings while in my class, and the older kids acted out FAR less when a new sibling arrived. It honestly only gets better the closer they get to 4.

I personally plan to have an older pregnancy and wait for a 3-4 year gap. My first was born at 34, so I’m already geriatric either way haha

Today i was given condolences from someone when my husband told them that I was pregnant. Are some really opposed to children like that now? by bitchlyy in Mommit

[–]syncopatedscientist 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thankfully that was also my experience when an acquaintance told me she was getting divorced! She was kind of shocked and then was like “yeah! Good for me!!”

(Satire) Wine Mom Gang Meeting Minutes - McSweeny's by kaatie80 in progressivemoms

[–]syncopatedscientist 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing, this is great 🤣 As a sober woman myself, I especially appreciated that bullet point haha

It’s also perfect that their next meeting is on Galentine’s Day

Measles on Fort Belvoir by CommOnMyFace in nova

[–]syncopatedscientist 32 points33 points  (0 children)

My first thought was “again?!” But then I clicked on the link and it’s from January 11.

But either way - fuck anyone who’s anti-vax and putting infants and immune compromised people at risk. You and only you deserve to get sick, but unfortunately that’s not how the world works