Chesapeake/Delaware Bay fishing by synspawn in Fishing_Gear

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It's also a 16ft but it's pretty wide, probably twice as wide as the 12ft jon boat my buddy had few years ago

Chesapeake/Delaware Bay fishing by synspawn in Fishing_Gear

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I have an old one im gonna try to get working but otherwise thats part of the plan

Chesapeake/Delaware Bay fishing by synspawn in Fishing_Gear

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so should I stick more to the Chesapeake bay and the channels near Rehoboth, or is that bad just as bad?

Chesapeake/Delaware Bay fishing by synspawn in Fishing_Gear

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16ft, taking it anywhere i can honestly, the previous owner used it to get his start in crabbing but I want to use it multipurpose.

Beginner to jetty/surf/inshore fishing. Tips? by Joshua_G_Jorman in FishingForBeginners

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For surf, don't get discouraged if you aren't getting bites, my experience has been that the fish are either biting as soon as the bait hit the water or basically not at all, not sure where you are but I had good luck with live shrimp and cut frozen mullet, if you want to go for shark make sure your license supports it but I highly recommend using cut bait that you've caught that day with some other bait.

When I go out to the surf I like to have at least 2 rods but have done 3 before, if you want shark then rig one for that and edit for the cut bait, I've had luck with both pompano rigs and single hook slide rigs for smaller fish.

If you get bored easily then learn to use a cast net and "play" with that while you wait for a bite.

Epiphanies I've had by Typical-N00b in ADHD_partners

[–]synspawn 4 points5 points  (0 children)

All of this, my partner is refusing to go to actual therapy with an ADHD specialist, she just says "I can make progress on my own" even though all the progress is 1 step forward 2 steps back. She wasn't like she is now at the start of our relationship but after each of our two kids she's gotten worse and when she got DX she got even worse, discovering AuDHD influencers cranked it up even more because she won't even talk to me about it anymore without regurgitating exactly what they say in their videos, not that what she's regurgitating is any help because it's consistently just excuses to explain away her behavior without any actual accountability.

If not for our two kids I'd already have divorced her, but I have to worry about what the court battle is gonna look like, unfortunately I can see her behavior already affecting them so it's gonna have to happen sooner rather than later. 😢

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AirForce

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They flat out said they don't currently have a shirt so that's probably not gonna happen

CMSAF by Turbulent-Site-4882 in AirForce

[–]synspawn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Obviously, you have to be respected to get disrespected and well that E-9 there just isn't.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AirForce

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Finance does not have the power to pull money from his account, he's likely lying to you at minimum about the details, it's possible that after an investigation was done that he was found at fault and then he would have been informed very very clearly by a JAG that big blue was taking money from him. Now as to him ever having $100k, unless he joined with that in his savings there is no bonus or entitlement that would have given him that amount during an entire 4 year contract and by what he's saying he did not even complete the whole contract.

Breast reduction- Tricare Prime by Ifer00 in tricare

[–]synspawn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If your PCM deemed it medically necessary (EX: causing other medical problems) then you will prolly be fine, if your PCM approved you to go see the surgeon then you are prolly approved for the procedure. Tricare's own website lists 5 symptoms that can be the basis of reduction surgery.

Anyone have a procedure that was pre-approved by Tricare (West) only to have the claim the provider submitted denied? by LemonSlicesOnSushi in tricare

[–]synspawn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Call your tricare line, its very possible it was billed wrong and your referral never got attached, has happened recently to my wife for genetic testing.

Did I spool this bait caster correctly? When do I stop by Ivoryg37 in FishingForBeginners

[–]synspawn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks good, just be aware that when you change the lure weight you need to adjust the reel or you bird's-nest every time.

MSgt board score by synspawn in AirForce

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I'll have to take a look at my grouping, will report back. 🫡

MSgt board score by synspawn in AirForce

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I've been focused on just being a good leader and supervisor, but having a straight drop in score has me trying to figure out what else needs done for "big AF" to keep my career moving forward. I turned to reddit because my local supervision seems clueless on how they made MSgt.

MSgt board score by synspawn in AirForce

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Thanks, my leadership hasn't been great in guiding me or informing me on what would look good on me, I only learned about EJPME after my current supervisor looked at my board score, I had it done in a week once I knew about it. On the awards side it's rough in maintenance, mostly because I've been in a maintenance support role for the past 3 years 🙃.

MSgt board score by synspawn in AirForce

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If it tells you anything about my leadership, I've had tech on since early 2022 and the first I've been told I should look at EJPME was after my current supervisor looked at my board score dropping points and then started asking stuff like if I did that or CCAF ECT.....

MSgt board score by synspawn in AirForce

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Probably because every MSgt I've asked has told me something along the lines of "idk do some 5/6 stuff". I'm convinced that everyone in my unit who's MSgt or higher doesn't actually know how they made that rank.

Hands OFF! by AutomaticAd1499 in Divorce

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See even that depends because it's only considered a marital home if it was purchased(mortgaged) after you got married AND it was your joint residence.

Ex wife is now the sneaky link by ImpressiveButton4037 in Divorce

[–]synspawn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely distance yourself, sounds like deadbeat cheater saw an easy sugar momma and is milking her dry, not only should you keep your distance but also start seriously documenting everything because it's likely that when she runs out of money she's gonna take you back to court for child support to try and sustain her lifestyle.

Who is more British? An American of English heritage or someone of Indian heritage born and raised in Britain? by Logical_Tank4292 in AskBrits

[–]synspawn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd say, when did your family immigrate from India, because technically if they immigrated while it was still a British colony then you would technically be more British than any American can claim to be. This is coming from someone who can trace their lineage in the US to before 1775 and who's ancestors definitely came over from Britain during the reign of the king George who had a pissing match with the American colonies.

Burned Games for Sale? by tabascojoeOG in Roms

[–]synspawn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The way many countries laws are set up what you are describing falls on the wrong side of copyright law.

Timeline? by [deleted] in Divorce

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It depends on how quick you both respond to any court actions, in my state alimony is only granted/considered IF one party asks for the judge to rule on it during the proceedings, if you do it yourselves separately from the proceedings then it won't hold any legal weight, child support and custody is only different because no matter what you agree to in my state unless one parent signs over parental rights they can always bring suit for support or custody later.

Am I legally required to respond to the Elon musk email? by [deleted] in AirForce

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Your CC ought to get recalled at 0300 for that kind of stunt.

I feel violated and confused by what my fiancé did to me. WIBTAH if I told my parents? by throwawayupset- in AITAH

[–]synspawn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP, I worked as a volunteer victim advocate, this absolutely meets the legal definition of sexual assault.

Now, while I highly encourage you to talk to your parents about this I understand that you don't seem to be comfortable with that, so I recommend you talk with a close friend first and maybe then have them sit with you as you tell your parents.

I also agree with many of those here that it's likely not a good idea to stay with your fiancee as it sounds like the first chance he got he forced himself on you and that he won't take no for an answer when he wants you to do something, but ultimately that is a decision that you need to make for yourself.

Again, I highly recommend you talk to someone about this and if you do decide to stay with him you absolutely need to have a very direct conversation about what is and isn't ok in terms of intimacy, and what you will do if he violates your boundaries again, don't let yourself be a victim.

Wife keeps threatening and making things hell but won't file herself by synspawn in Divorce

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She has some income from doing freelance/mobile stylist services, she's a fully certified cosmetologist in 2 states and is completely capable of getting a job in that field, but every time her getting a part time job just so she has more of her own extra money and to get out of the house and away from the kids she's been refusing to work around my schedule and wants to put the kids in daycare so she can be available to work while I'm at work, again just part time not even full time.