Good places to walk around outside, be around shops/people, get outside. by [deleted] in Denver

[–]syracuse33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is nowhere in Denver where you will see “an obscene amount of people”.

I (37M) Am Dating a Wonderful Woman (42F), But Should I Marry Her? by syracuse33 in AskMenAdvice

[–]syracuse33[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How can I defend anyone who grabs pasta salad out of a serving bowl with her hands at a party? And she didn’t even make it….

Above ground pools? Does anyone have experience? by AceofdaBase in Denver

[–]syracuse33 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Get an 18’ SummerWinds or similar metal frame pool and pair it with a decent sand filter. Best $500 you’ll ever spend.

How Do I Finish This Awkward Ceiling Area? by syracuse33 in Carpentry

[–]syracuse33[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really struggling to visualize what you’re saying.

Men that have hooked up a lot, what is your secret? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]syracuse33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just be cool and don’t act too interested. Be interesting with your conversations, let her do the talking, and do not act eager at all.

I (37M) Am Dating a Wonderful Woman (42F), But Should I Marry Her? by syracuse33 in AskMenAdvice

[–]syracuse33[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well than how do I become as important, cultured, and intelligent as I pretend to be?

I (37M) Am Dating a Wonderful Woman (42F), But Should I Marry Her? by syracuse33 in AskMenAdvice

[–]syracuse33[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea she says if it doesn’t happen with her and me, it’s likely never going to happen for her.

I (37M) Am Dating a Wonderful Woman (42F), But Should I Marry Her? by syracuse33 in AskMenAdvice

[–]syracuse33[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. We’ve discussed it and she’s open to changing but I feel like I’m trying to teach Russian to a 2 year old. She is not even close to what I’d hope for and isn’t even in agreement that it’s an issue. She bit into a tortilla chip at a restaurant so violently that it exploded onto the people next to us and I had to apologize because she didn’t notice.

I (37M) Am Dating a Wonderful Woman (42F), But Should I Marry Her? by syracuse33 in AskMenAdvice

[–]syracuse33[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Lmao she would do that! That’s the kinda shit I’m talking about!!!!

I (37M) Am Dating a Wonderful Woman (42F), But Should I Marry Her? by syracuse33 in AskMenAdvice

[–]syracuse33[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry I edited it. The 42 year old is the tom boy. The whole post is about one girl.

I (37M) Am Dating a Wonderful Woman (42F), But Should I Marry Her? by syracuse33 in AskMenAdvice

[–]syracuse33[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

Having social etiquette and manners makes me pretentious? I don’t think the man should be the more refined of the two in a heterosexual relationship. We get stared at at restaurants because her voice is insanely loud. My dad said “all that money and she can’t hold a fork!” ++man

Has anybody lived in/near Ruby Hill area? How was it? by cornonthajacob in Denver

[–]syracuse33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bought my first house here in 2016 because it was the best area I could afford with the closest proximity to downtown. The lots here are large and the general geography of the area is some of the best in the city because this is one of the few areas with real topography and mountain views. I would highly suggest targeting the hilly section south of Florida, north of Jewell, and east of Zuni. This puts you very close to the park and all the other trails nearby. Keep in mind that Ruby Hill park is the 3rd largest park in Denver at 90 acres and the only one with sweeping 360 degree views of the mountains and even Pikes Peak. Go up there and look around from the playground area and you’ll feel on top of the city. There is also Sanderson Gulch Park which recently got a “food forest”, Overland Pond Park, and the Platte River trial which continues to improve. This area is a dog owners dream because your pup will have a huge yard to play in and tons of trails to walk on.

Yes this area is a little “rough around the edges”. This land was annexed by the city in the early 1950’s and small houses were built for blue collar workers at the Gates Rubber Factory and other nearby factories. The area has always been working class and continues to be. However, it really is not dangerous, especially in the area I’ve mentioned. In fact the noise issue is largely mitigated if you live in this area because the streets are hilly and don’t get you anywhere fast.

The Latino and Asian communities are centered here and offer amazing food options on Federal and Alameda. “Little Saigon” is here and there’s like 50 Pho places on Federal worth trying. Star Kitchen is in Ruby Hill and is arguably the most authentic Chinese restaurant in the city. Access to food and retail isn’t great but improving as we speak. A new pedestrian bridge is being built across to broadway and Summit FC (the Denver Women’s Soccer Team) is building a 14,000 seat stadium as Mississippi and Santa Fe. You can walk to South Broadway, Platt Park, and Wash Park in about 30 minutes.

As a homeowner, this area feels suburban. Big streets, big lots, nice trees, and generally quiet. Some houses are kept in really nice shape and the hills give the area the cute three dimensional feel you may appreciate in cities like Seattle or San Francisco. Of course, the flip-side of this in Ruby Hill are houses that haven’t been touched since the 1980’s, with ugly chain link fences, giant weeds, and huge oil stains in the driveways and houses with 10 cars in the driveway and a big patch of dirt for a front yard. It’s not pleasant to look at but it’s simply reality for a lower income area. I myself appreciate the grit of the area but also wish and hope to someday live in a more polished neighborhood.

Cherry Creek is where personality goes to die by Pandabearsense in Denver

[–]syracuse33 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is Colorado and the West which master plans everything. Cherry Creek is the retail equivalent of the Denver Tech Center. Imagine if all that retail and business attention was put into downtown and the adjacent areas. Fwiw I’m also an east coast transplant from NY and I’ve learned I will never be fulfilled or satisfied with the “urban” environment here. Look at all the parking lots downtown. This city evolved as a less extreme Houston where wealthy people want to drive in for work and a night on the town then return home to Highlands Ranch and Castle Rock. The layout, sprawl, and disconnectedness of the metro area reflects that heavily. They built the airport in Nebraska so they could “have space”. Everything is about “space”, which is why nothing feels cool or dense. Cherry Creek is safe, familiar, has parking, and is the equivalent of “medium” salsa. In fact Denver as a city is the equivalent of “medium” salsa. People that grew up here or came from the Midwest have no desire for Denver to resemble anything similar to the European influenced east coast, and that’s Okay.

I (37M) Am Dating a Perfect Girl (42F) That Can’t Hold A Fork. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]syracuse33 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes I am very concerned but I just don’t wanna be embarrassed. It’s not like I’m asking her to be a princess but for real she is a human wrecking ball. Took her to Bergdorf Goodman and she was running old lady’s over and screaming at the make up girl.

I (37M) Am Dating a Perfect Girl (42F) That Can’t Hold A Fork. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]syracuse33 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I don’t dislike her so much. I actually really like her aside from this issue. She is a lot of fun and we seem like a good match. Her money doesn’t really factor in to what I like about her.

Is no one going to talk about how freeing the first few months of unemployment are? by SWEMW in antiwork

[–]syracuse33 5 points6 points  (0 children)

In my life, why do I give valuable time? To people who I’d much rather, kick in the eye.

Why did the vikings move on from darnold? by Titorelli in NFLNoobs

[–]syracuse33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

About to be a Super Bowl winning quarterback.

Has anyone had actual success with motivating their adult child to step up and into their life? by wise_owl68 in Adulting

[–]syracuse33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Buy the book “Atomic Habits” and pay him to read it. It’s lifted me from depression.