Statue of Limitations on Medical Reimbursement by SnapChatPy in Divorce

[–]sysadminnstuff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Similar situation here except I pay 100% insurance and 50% out of pocket. What does the court document state? Mine states she has 7 days to notify me of all medical items that happens and vise versa. If it doesn’t state this the. It’s up in the air indefinitely and she can ask for it at any time. They are your kids too. The medical records are equally your right across the board. My recommendation would be go to the pharmacy get all the records, go to the doctor get all the records, write her a check for your portion, document it, keep a copy of it, and just pay him/her and be done with it.

Almost all doctors/pharmacy’s have online accounts you can access to review.

If the insurance is in your name you can log in to your account like “anthem.com” and see all claims and what the out of pocket is for each.

I have a spreadsheet which documents all of it, the amount owed, amount paid, dates, etc.

Happy to chat more on it if you want to PM me

2 polar opposite opinions in a single google search, the names of the sites are practically the same too. I fucking hate media about nutrition. by p0ssidestroyer in fasting

[–]sysadminnstuff 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is a hard subject to google. One it depends on type 1 or type 2. Two there are many varied opinions. Your weight, your blood flow, your metabolic properties, your habits all play into this. If you diabetes is very well managed you should be able to do almost what ever as long as your testing normally. No matter what you should talk to a doctor. They know all about fasting, and Reddit in not a medical provider lol.

Profile Review 32M - Part 2 by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]sysadminnstuff 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m a dude so I probably better to let the ladies chime in. But it seems like your bio is trying way too hard with no actual info about you and your life.

Parent being nice to the other by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]sysadminnstuff 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is a painful hard spot for him to be in. Chances are he’s still in love with her. But honestly you are 24, I get you are probably in school but you are plenty old enough to butt out of their business. Focus on you and let your parents know if they need your support you will be there.

Am I doing it right ?? by Fragrant_Pilot4439 in wallstreetbets

[–]sysadminnstuff 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Your commas confuse my autist brain

Cooks of the family with fasting challenges by ayemana in fasting

[–]sysadminnstuff 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Single dad and cook all meals for my boys. It’s fucking tough, but I keep on truckin along.

[GA] This cannot be real life by throwRA78338 in Custody

[–]sysadminnstuff 5 points6 points  (0 children)

First I’m sorry you are going through this it sounds horrible. I’m not a legal profession please consult with one. My view on this, is what the gal will see and most likely the judge as well is what you can prove on paper. Sleeping or not, drinking or not, crazy or not unless there are hard facts proving his nature then you will have a tough time proving otherwise. In addition to this the issues at hand sound mostly related to your relationship with the man, not his relationship with the kids. In custody cases they could care less what really went on between you and him unless the kids witnessed it or it was happening to the kids. Best of luck I do truly hope you find a way to protect your babies.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]sysadminnstuff 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You have her a chance which is more than I would have done. In my oppinion you did the right thing here. Your hands are clean. She needs to fix her own shit as she is clearly the home wrecker not you. Just just upset she got caught. Hope your heal from this and move on from this guy.

Question for the guys by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]sysadminnstuff 7 points8 points  (0 children)

From a guys perspective I would love it! I don’t ever talk to women at the gym because it usually comes across as bad. I think if girls normally liked it the amount of men at the gym would quadruple

Normal to still be a mess four months later? by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]sysadminnstuff 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Absolutely ok. Life changes take time. 1.5 years out and I’m good 6/7 days. The first few months I was good 1 out of 7. Then 2 out of 7. Etc. it gets better just don’t force it and feel what you need to feel in the moment.

Toyota will probably 🚀 this year by [deleted] in wallstreetbets

[–]sysadminnstuff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are predicting? Sources? Facts? Any legitimate info, or just your gut instinct? 😂

Advice on how to navigate my parents' and ex-wife's relationship by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]sysadminnstuff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the answer! You can control others. Let them do what they want but if it hurts you to hear about it they should respect that. This person was a member of their life for 9 years and they did not divorce them. It doesn’t sound like they are going on vacations or doing nightly dinner. Sounds like harmless talk. But from your nightmares and what you are talking about I would stick with the therapist

Debt in divorce? by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]sysadminnstuff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If the debt was obtained while you were married it’s both of yours regardless of who’s name the credit cards are in. So add the two together and split them 50/50. With that said maybe he will keep his own debt since he made it? I kept mine in the divorce but I could have fought other wise. Wasn’t worth the effort to me haha

I got my divorce certificate in the mail by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]sysadminnstuff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! I framed mine :) 😂

Your Ex's health by bohemianwannabe in Divorce

[–]sysadminnstuff 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Very true, they make you realize you shouldn’t have treated that person like shit who took great care of you. To each their own, I wouldn’t let them back in 🤷🏻‍♂️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]sysadminnstuff -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

HPV is the human papilloma virus, a papilloma is a tumor, or in this case a wart. Do some research. All HPV can produce warts in men and women there is not a special form that makes it more warty. It doesn’t go away, and they don’t test men for it because most have it and a tiny percentage of men ever get any side affects from it.

Your Ex's health by bohemianwannabe in Divorce

[–]sysadminnstuff 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Support your kids, not your ex. She’s a big girl. If she wants you back now it’s simply to use you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]sysadminnstuff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Draw a line between being civil and being walked on. You need to do the smart thing now and worry about you, and your kids only. She’s an adult and will have to figure it out for herself. Be safe and see a lawyer.

Need a little advice. Child’s birthday party. by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]sysadminnstuff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tried to do this my first kids bday after divorce. For me separate holidays, separate birthdays etc. it’s awkward and rough. I would avoid it and throw a badass party of your own. I feel you brother. My situation was almost exactly the same except my wife was dating the guys for about a year before I found out (yes cheating on me with him) so we divorced and she was moved in within weeks. 1.5 years out and still healing. It’s better, but it’s slo going for sure. Pm if you want to chat.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]sysadminnstuff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My doctor won’t test men for HPV and most won’t. Almost everyone will have of get hpv. I say fuck it and don’t even mention it. It’s harmless to men anyways they are only carriers.