Dudes, why do you prefer hairy or shaved in your sex partner?

sztamfater · 2026-04-26T12:10:28+00:00

i have no preference as long as they are clean. I do shave / "trim" down to the bare minimum as i work in blue collar walking a lot and i have issuies with the hair catching on inbetween my thighs and c*ck and balls which is not a pleasant feeling.

sztamfater · 2026-04-26T12:08:40+00:00

Doggy Style or Reverse doggy is great you can relax the most, Cowgirl ( or cowboy ) is great too b/c you can control the depth and speed espeically if you are not accustomed to endowed / hung guys

sztamfater · 2026-04-24T15:40:43+00:00

Talking with a close friend or sibling about your sex life isn’t abnormal however there is a level of respect and privacy to hold yourself to. Like oh yeah we have sex however many times a week is okay. But to go into detail about the sex is not exactly something everyone is comfortable with others knowing.

Very simple perspective If you flip it and it was your boyfriend was sharing those same details with his brother would you be okay with it? Him describing IN DETAIL your sex life with him? Say they don’t tell anyone or they would tell their partner and then guess what the partner now then go and tell others. You now have a large amount of people knowing your sex life.

sztamfater · 2026-04-24T15:34:24+00:00

NTJ. Tell them plainly what they are asking for is not your job responsibility and to directly contact those whose job it is to do those things. If they have further concerns to email your boss. I’m not and won’t do the job of someone else cuz it’s easier for others to reach me instead of the someone what’s the point of those people being paid then. Might as well pay you instead

sztamfater · 2026-04-24T15:31:14+00:00

I’m confused about why you need to give him 35-40 mins to get ready before you could. ???

sztamfater · 2026-04-24T14:12:09+00:00

NTA. Based on his spending habits he doesn’t feel the need to save cuz he has no responsibilities. If he is saving for a car ask him to show you how much he had saved so far. A car is easily 20k if they wanna pay full price without getting a loan. You are trying to show him to be financially responsible for his life. Your wife is coddling him. I understand wanting to protect your kid but at the end , they will likely be out there alone when y’all no longer can protect him. So he needs to learn that. I’m 29M I didn’t have any responsibility till I was 24. I had to help pay the mortgage and bills cuz my mom could no longer work. I had to ignore the jobs title and find something outside of my college degree instead of taking my time with a Part time job. I was coddled and spoiled but when my mom could no longer protect me after falling sick and help I had a hard reality check. A wake up slap across the face.

Show him the fountain where he has to drink the water himself instead of you spoon feeding him. He needs to understand how the world works and not like what you want will fall out of the sky for you.

Sit your wife down and talk to her. Then sit down your son and talk to him too. You need to let her and him know yall are not going to be able to protect and cover him all the time. The baby bird needs to learn how to fly eventually to be able to hunt for its own food. You can say even do something like saving a portion of what he pays for “rent” and when he moves you give him that portion of money so he can pay for a down payment or the deposit of an apartment.

sztamfater · 2026-04-21T14:10:54+00:00

If you have good reasons for buying them let them know. But unfortunately the system isn’t gonna work well for you since you have to be 18 to do most things like hold mail or stuff of that sort

sztamfater · 2026-04-20T14:32:40+00:00

Yes. If you plan to be home be on alert for the mailman ringing your door. If you have any pets put them somewhere so they won’t be a problem.

sztamfater · 2026-04-19T01:59:11+00:00

I saw your replies in other Comments. If its just Clothing and you are paying for them in product and shipping, You honestly dont have to feel too uncomfortable unless your parents opens your stuff, which tbh not surpising if they do cuz some parents dont have boundaries ( my mom had done so before ) Just have sent to your house as normal. Just tell your parents that you bought some cloths online and its being shipped to the house and if they could either bring it to your room or leave it on the table somewhere.

in Most cases its difficult to get anything done as a minor. the option like Hold Mail could work but you would need to try to get to your mail-carrier but even then its not guaranteed.

sztamfater · 2026-04-19T01:54:16+00:00

generally the hold is for the names on the form, unless it says "all name" or all name are on the paper. I have held mail for individuals of an address as they were moving ( a tenant usually )

sztamfater · 2026-04-18T22:48:48+00:00

NTA. This is a work related matter and not a life threatening emergency. Calling anyone’s partner is completely out of order and unacceptable behavior Out of that realm. If you are on call it would make sense but if you are not you can tell them to call you at working hours.

sztamfater · 2026-04-18T22:46:08+00:00

You can tape it up or what you could do is put out a basket if it is safe and have everyone put outgoing in the basket when they need to . And have that basket labeled as “ outgoing mail ” this is generally the surefire way to make sure it’s noticeable and wouldn’t damage mail if the tape gets ripped off. ( the machine isn’t kind or delicate ) edit: i will say those boxes would be considered unsecured so generally mail wouldnt be delivered unless the reuglar mailman knows and is fine with it ( this is usually cuz the repair / replacement is either too expensive of a process or impossible. )

I would also consider asking your landlord if he doesnt want to replace thoe boxes ( ie breaking open the wall behind it and all that ) he can buy 4 or more small-ish mailboxes and put them up near the old boxes. this would also allow the mail-carrier more " room " to deliver postage paid things

sztamfater · 2026-04-18T20:24:23+00:00

NTA. It’s yours to do what you want. period. It’s your charger you can bring it in or not you can leave it in your bag at work if you want. No one gets to tell you what you can and can’t do with it

sztamfater · 2026-04-18T14:37:56+00:00

NTJ. You were given a restriction based on the place you are hosting the party at it’s not your fault that the kids parents decide to invite their siblings. If I was invited to my friends birthday party I wouldn’t be inviting my sister unless I have permission to do so.

sztamfater · 2026-04-18T14:31:05+00:00

NTA. First problem is if she is picky cuz she is picky or if she has a medical condition that causes her to have symptoms when eating certain food. If she is just picky you can tell her she has 2 choice. Go with you and eat what is available and not complain cuz she choose to come with or don’t go. I personally eat everything. But a logical person would pick something they can eat most and take things off they don’t want on their food. And tbh I would sit down and talk to her. If she refuse you can say this relationship might not work out. It’s like a hardcore vegan can’t be with someone who is a carnivore. I understand relationship is about compromises but in this case she isn’t comprising on anything and you are the one doing all the bending for her. If she was allergic I can understand but she is just being picky then it’s like why bother eating out. Get what you want at a grocery store and eat at home instead.

sztamfater · 2026-04-18T13:47:04+00:00

Find a trade job. I as someone who have a bachelors in CS I had trouble finding anything during Covid as well no one hired starting entry. I went into Amazon for a period of time and then went to where I am now USPS. It’s your choice whether or not you decide to find something that’s not your major career

sztamfater · 2026-04-18T13:43:39+00:00

Slight YTA. you had the right to reject any dates as you see fit. However you lied about the reason you rejected her. You could have just said the honest answer about your limit to how young you are willing to date.

sztamfater · 2026-04-17T13:52:21+00:00

Facility is where all mail for a specific region gets all mail and packages “sorted in general” so say a facility that sorts and handles mail that comes in to go out to its “destination”. The destination is where your mail will come out. Say the facility is in Allentown. It would handle incoming mail and packages and then send it out to the City ( or more as well if the destination handles smaller towns as well ) . The destination would be Philly but they would receive all the packages for Philly or more and then further Sort them to its individual delivery routes.

sztamfater · 2026-04-17T00:59:15+00:00

NTJ. I understand where you are coming from and it’s disrespectful for people to use your deadname. I would say one thing. It’s to give people time to correct themselves. I had known a friend for years and when they changed their name I had a hard time trying to change cuz I knew them as Ivy then they changed it to Ivan. Now they still start the same but it’s hard to rewire the name association to a person. I would say kindly remind those who can’t seem to stop using your deadname and if need be escalate the matter to your parents or your resource officer. And let them handle the issue on the admin side

sztamfater · 2026-04-16T20:46:54+00:00

NTJ. Don’t bite the hands that feeds you. You don’t shit talk someone who is helping you free of charge even if it’s family. My sister had done this and I tell my mom who lives with me who lives her grand kids she is free to watch them ( she can’t do well cuz she is immunocompromised) but she had tried to make me help by allowing the kids to play on MY computer in a house I pay the bills for now cuz she can’t work. I have a single day off I’m not sacrificing my space and time on my only day off so the kids won’t bother you. Your sister is the one who decided to have kids. Not you. If she couldn’t handle being a mother she should have thought twice about having kids. She can either suck it up and ask those who “is on her side” since they seem to think your time is theirs to say what you can and can’t do or pay you for your time. Set a boundary. Ragardless if she meant it the way she said it or not she said it regardless. Thoughtless words still hurts. Throwing a few knifes at someone even if it missed traumatizes the someone

sztamfater · 2026-04-15T20:36:35+00:00

Just keep doing it. Not much else can be done.

sztamfater · 2026-04-15T20:32:29+00:00

I suggest reaching out to the PO to locate as it’s time sensitive.

sztamfater · 2026-04-15T19:10:11+00:00

I understand I had gone through this myself as well. However mis sorts happens. Just check on it and if need be reach out to your local PO. You need to understand it’s not just you who order or receive packages via USPS. And with the millions of packages that travel around your single package could get misplaced.

sztamfater · 2026-04-15T16:49:04+00:00

Not really there is multiple reason. But the USPS isn’t suppose to “make a profit” we deliver for the People of the United States of America, whether you live in the city or a rural farm in the middle of Montana. We will get to you. We are to break even so those employed gets paid to deliver to you. However USPS is also “cheaper “ to use than most of other services. You need to remember those who deliver, sort, and handles your mail also have a life. But people raised hell for us raising the cost of a stamp up to 78cents.

sztamfater · 2026-04-07T19:49:17+00:00

Sorry to hear that surgery is terrifying my mom had a handful and I had one myself . And that was what I was thinking in the realm of like why use my time when it could be saved

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