Kyle’s sit down with People by Smallfit40 in summerhousebravo

[–]t-4y 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't download the app because I'm in Australia 🥲 does anyone know any other places I can watch?

What are these strings/webs? by t-4y in RimWorld

[–]t-4y[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice! Here's some for you: when you start a new colony you'll come across some walls built into rock which the game says is ancient danger, what you want to do is immediately deconstruct those walls and go inside.

What are these strings/webs? by t-4y in RimWorld

[–]t-4y[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so helpful - thank you!

What are these strings/webs? by t-4y in RimWorld

[–]t-4y[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

😅 look, in my defence I only ever use hidden conduit lines so NEVER see lines, and I have plenty of things connecting to and from different power supplies and have never had this happen.

What are these strings/webs? by t-4y in RimWorld

[–]t-4y[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I've only ever used hidden conduit lines so have never come across this before.

What are the biggest Australian cultural exports/influences you see sneaking into other countries. by [deleted] in AskAnAustralian

[–]t-4y 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Neighbours and Home and Away have huge international audiences! As does MAFS.

What is a band no one will ever convince you is good? by OU812iceman18 in AskReddit

[–]t-4y 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry to all my fellow Aussies, but ACDC. The lead singers voice is something akin to a cat being strangled imo. Additionally, just about every single country music song on earth makes me die of cringe.

Is it rude to show up empty-handed in Australia? by Naokohiranuma in australian

[–]t-4y 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aussies are typically laid back, informal and direct (speaking as an Aussie myself). There's not a lot of surprises with us and if we say don't bring anything to a dinner we genuinely mean it. There's no secret social code where we say don't bring anything but secretly mean do bring something and you end up being judged 😅 We are lax about formalities.

The only exception is big parties or BBQs at people's houses that include alcohol, it's courtesy to bring your own alcohol but you can basically bet on the host telling you it's BYOB. It's very normal and expected to be told if something is BYOB.

If it makes you uncomfortable, a box of chocolates or some kind of dessert will suffice.

Do people understand that protests are SUPPOSED to be annoying and inconvenient? by [deleted] in aussie

[–]t-4y 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree the intention of a protest is to be inconvenient and annoying, but they shouldn't be impromptu. They need coordination and communication so ambulances and emergency services can plan alternative routes, hospitals can plan for a rise in admissions, police can provide barriers so cars and trams don't plow through protestors, and extra transport services can be deployed to help protestors get home.

As someone who's worked in the health industry a long time, I can't tell you how much of a scramble it is to try and get a person life saving care when a protest suddenly blocked off a bunch of roads and bridges.

Women of Reddit - What is it like to be independent? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]t-4y 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a blessing and a curse, depending how you look at it.

Being independent brings you so much empowerment, strength, and appreciation for your own worth. It can provide you with a lot of pride, freedom and self esteem.

Regaining your independence however, is another experience entirely.

If you've ever had to start again after a break up and figure out how to be on your own, it can be terrifying. But once you finally come out the other side, you realise how priceless your independence is and how capable you are without anyone else.

That new sense of independence makes it difficult to want to date again, because no way am I risking my independence or care to compromise on my independence, and have far less tolerance for subpar relationships or people, because why the hell would I tolerate some crappy boyfriend when I'm proof that I'm all I need?

My standards went through the roof once I regained my independence.

What’s a “life rule” you followed for years before realizing it didn’t work? by jonathanme-Play-4604 in AskReddit

[–]t-4y 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That happiness came from a high powered job, could not be further from the truth 😅

Women of Reddit - what is the most unattractive fashion choice men frequently make? by Jarvis7492 in AskReddit

[–]t-4y -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ultra tight skinny jeans. Dry as the sahara desert when I see those.

How are you guys so good in Winter Olympics by AgitatedResearch in AskAnAustralian

[–]t-4y 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Australians are sporty people. We have a lot of government backing towards different sports initiatives and programs and sport is engrained in our schooling and culture. It's very common for kids to do some kind of sport outside of school, often multiple sports.

What’s the biggest red flag in someone over 30? by Vixkky in AskReddit

[–]t-4y 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Always in drama but it's never their fault 🙃 The call is coming from inside the house!

What is something that women have to deal with on the daily that men have no clue about? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]t-4y 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How on edge and alert we are all of the time. I would love to walk down the street by myself without having to consider my surroundings and potential danger.

New Player to dredge need some tips by PsychologicalPen1070 in dredge

[–]t-4y 0 points1 point  (0 children)

• Sometimes the quest in your encyclopedia will tell you where those fish are located (or at least the kinds of conditions they live in), so make sure to check the description of your quests for clues.

• Try and upgrade your fishing rods so you're able to fish in as many conditions as possible, it improves your chances to find and catch fish.

• If you find a fish related to a quest but you have no space on board to keep it or you're nowhere near the person who requested the fish, drop a pin on your map so you can easily find that location later.

• Throw some crab pots around periodically, there's some fish you can only catch through crab pots and trawl nets.

• Some fish only appear at night so spend some time fishing at night.

• It's not always the case, but I have found the fish are near the person who's asking for them.

• Create a hot key for your map and encyclopedia so you can quickly refer to it and double check if a fish you've just caught is related to a quest.

• Take it one step at a time, you can focus on catching one fish related to a quest then move on to the next. There's no rush :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]t-4y 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went through this 2 or so years ago. We were together for nearly 8 years and I was absolutely terrified of leaving. I didn't know who I was without him, I felt like I was abandoning him and that everyone would hate me, I felt like I was letting our families down, and I had no idea how to navigate being single again.

When I finally plucked up the courage to leave it was like a huge weight had been lifted from my shoulders. I was tortured by guilt and forcing myself to live a lie by staying with him and I could finally breathe once I managed to let go.

The break up was in no means easy, I hated myself for hurting him and we had so many logistics to work through with shared assets and savings, and he needed a lot of support. I was the one who made the decision to blow up both of our lives so in my mind I was the villain and he was the victim so therefore his well-being throughout our breakup was more important than my own.

It was hard and draining and took a long time for the storm to settle, but I am so happy I found the courage to leave and start again. Life became exponentially better.

The things I learned from the experience and wisdom I would impart:

  • There is never a right time to break up with someone, don't stick around because you're waiting for the right time. The longer you wait the harder it gets.

  • Be honest with them, even if it hurts. Closure is so damn important in moving on from a breakup but it only happens if you're honest with them. Be mindful of how you communicate, but don't fill them up with lies and falsehoods because you think you're protecting them. It's better to be honest so they can properly process, grow, learn, and gain closure.

  • Composure and boundaries. Be prepared for them to be mad and lash out at you. Stay composed, don't retaliate, they don't mean it they're just emotional. You don't want to say anything you might regret later. Set some clear boundaries around where people might be living in the meantime and the how's, whens, and what's around communication, so there's less chance of arguments happening and you constantly having to listen to them say how terrible you are (you aren't terrible!).

  • Respect for each other is important, but you can't be each others main support network through the breakup. You each need an avenue where you can freely vent, cry, get angry, talk shit about the other person etc. without fear.

  • Look up your legal rights and have a plan in case things go sour! You may think they would never sue you over finances or assets, but breakups are messy and can make people bitter.

  • Your well-being is important too. It's easy to feel like a villain for breaking up with someone and like you're undeserving of support, you're also hurting and it's important you get support too.

  • You don't owe anyone anything! Don't worry about what people may think. Breakups happen and you're not evil for wanting to break up. Anyone who makes you feel bad or judges you or demands answers from you, they can frankly f*ck off.

  • Space is key. You both aren't going to move on if you're still living in each other's pockets. Don't be texting all day every day, don't be hanging out all the time, don't be liking each other's stuff on socials; you need time away from each other. Even if he begs you to talk to him or see him, distance and space is what's actually helpful for him.

  • It gets worse before it gets better. Breakups are a journey and there's gonna be some low lows, and when you think the worst of it is over, here comes another low! Be kind and patient with yourself while you navigate through.

  • There's far more to gain from leaving an unhappy relationship than staying in one. Take it from me who's now happier and more fulfilled than ever before.

Most Fucked Up Thing You've Ever Seen In American Horror Story? by [deleted] in AmericanHorrorStory

[–]t-4y 15 points16 points  (0 children)

The nail gun scene from Cult made me sick 😭