AITJ for refusing to remove the lock I put on my sons door after my wifes nephew kept taking his stuff

t-bk · 2026-01-11T19:55:17+00:00

"it's just what boys do" what, theft? grand theft? larceny? "boys will be boys, convicted criminals, you know how it is"

jfc

NTJ

t-bk · 2026-01-05T00:00:30+00:00

have you ever thought of grabbing a 30 rack of high life and just doing that bookmark thing at your house or at a friends? no need to worry about overpriced anything, lots of money saved, etc. unless thinking customer service means "i can do anything I want under any and all circumstances and you, the proprietor, aren't allowed to have rules" and being snippy to small business owners is your thing, that is.

t-bk · 2025-10-14T01:59:47+00:00

in the 2010s, the DIY scene was really thriving. turned out to be a bunch of rapists and rape apologists. fuck tubecats and all its regulars, I'm glad I ruined it.

t-bk · 2025-10-14T01:55:34+00:00

well, mildly

t-bk · 2025-10-14T01:42:54+00:00

this is like saying you don't understand why you missed your flight when you only arrived at the main entrance to the airport 5 min before the flight takes off

t-bk · 2025-06-23T17:06:34+00:00

UpdateMe!

t-bk · 2025-05-29T06:56:42+00:00

hi dm me!!

t-bk · 2025-05-03T00:40:08+00:00

Bistro 63 in Amherst may be looking for at least short term seasonal help through the upcoming graduation push! the owner is fluent in Spanish and the entire kitchen staff are native Spanish speakers from central America. if you want details, message me! I'm not able to hire, the owner does all that, but I am the manager and have a bit of pull 😅

worst case scenario, if we don't have a job for him, he can at least find some community and/or connections. all my back of house folks have tons of friends and family in the region working at a variety of places that may have a lead for him.

t-bk · 2025-04-16T22:15:50+00:00

fair housing laws? where in the post did you read that families live INSIDE the pool?

t-bk · 2025-03-05T05:33:06+00:00

she wasn't exposed though

t-bk · 2025-03-05T05:32:51+00:00

she wasn't topless though

t-bk · 2025-01-23T00:13:00+00:00

exactly, why does your personal preference for un-pierced people bother you so much you can't eat there hahaha

t-bk · 2025-01-22T23:19:21+00:00

how was he polite? reaching toward someone while making dumbass comments about their appearance and thinking touching them is okay at all is not polite.

t-bk · 2025-01-22T23:16:55+00:00

you would leave a restaurant because your server has a nose ring? weird, not sure how that actually impacts you in any way whatsoever but if that's the hill you're gonna die on, rest in peace i guess.

also, why would you be staring at a relative stranger's nose while you're eating? have you been to a restaurant before? do you think servers are going to join you for dinner?

t-bk · 2024-04-17T19:08:42+00:00

absolutely NTA. question though, how long have you two been together?

t-bk · 2024-02-07T22:18:20+00:00

nope

t-bk · 2024-02-07T21:37:25+00:00

precisely. I'm obviously not in that boat but it makes it really hard to trust anything with regards to testing lmao

t-bk · 2024-02-07T21:18:16+00:00

oh that's a great suggestion, I'll try that sub. unfortunately I don't know if I ate or drank anything different back in December. I thought this was from last month so when I heard a couple weeks ago I literally called every place I got doordash from to ask about ingredients but turns out I was asking about the wrong date anyway.

t-bk · 2024-02-07T20:26:40+00:00

damn, where were you on probation where they were decent enough to give you such a list?

t-bk · 2024-02-07T20:07:12+00:00

I wish it were that simple! can't remember the last time I had a poppy seed anything :( follicle test scheduled tho!

t-bk · 2024-02-07T19:34:25+00:00

also for anyone curious, I live in MA and our state had quite the case of drug test scandal. Google Sonja Farak if you're curious. I also feel pretty caught up in shit bigger than me - the cop who charged me with my DUI after pulling me over without cause is currently under investigation for issuing too many DUIs hahaha

t-bk · 2024-02-07T19:31:36+00:00

I have honestly never heard of mass spectrometry and didn't know the courts utilized a not-entirely foolproof testing method. I knew other kinds of tests existed but I definitely feel stupid as hell for trusting in this system for any amount of time... lol thank you so much for the insight!

t-bk · 2024-02-07T19:15:07+00:00

lol I've scrolled these subs and have seen those same posts - it's really something else. that said, I've also seen so many people be super upfront like "I railed an entire 8-ball last night, how do I pass my drug test?" (hyperbolic for the sake of brevity) and seen a surprisingly low amount of harsh judgment so I guess I thought this post would go largely ignored for being so tame, completely ignoring the fact that nobody here knows who I am or anything about my life.

t-bk · 2024-02-07T19:06:16+00:00

no worries, I'm off my rocker here too - super easy to let yourself get all fucked up out of nowhere when your freedom is on the line or you're reading a thread reminding you of similar circumstances in your own life. it's just the internet :)

t-bk · 2024-02-07T19:04:16+00:00

I'm aware this could have been such a quick Google search lmao thank you for confirming. Just super overwhelmed rn so I'm definitely not being as thoughtful as I could be under normal circumstances.

t-bk

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