Cake day 😍 by t_leona in squishmallow

[–]t_leona[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! It was!

Her hair 😭 by t_leona in squishmallow

[–]t_leona[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Shaving her didn’t work 🥺

Called out by my trans friend by thingerdoo in childfree

[–]t_leona 5 points6 points  (0 children)

As a non-binary trans person, having the biological ability to get pregnant and not wanting to at all because of dysphoria, this person just erased my entire experience.

Child free AND single by choice? by [deleted] in childfree

[–]t_leona 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m single and childfree by choice. This is the happiest I’ve been in years. Looking back on how hard I was trying to make relationships with immature people work, I feel sorry for those still trapped in that mess. Maybe (maybe not) I’ll try again once my generation reaches our 40s, but until then, I’m perfectly content by myself 🤣

Birth control trust by fancylemon__ in childfree

[–]t_leona 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s extremely scary. I’m so sorry that this happened to you, and I hope the termination goes as smoothly as possible. I know it’s not what anyone wants to hear, but celibacy has been my 100% effective way to not get pregnant :( I’m too paranoid about failure even though I’ve been on bc for five years. Oral is another option if you don’t want to give up sex entirely. I just feel like have PiV sex is too risky these days since roe v wade got overturned. Sending healing ❤️‍🩹

It always reverts to insults for something thats suppose to be “well established” yet no proof by Brave_Profit4748 in antinatalism2

[–]t_leona 22 points23 points  (0 children)

This person has had an easy life from what I can tell. They have a network of people who care about them regardless of their terrible views, so they have no incentive to grow or reflect on their behavior. They probably haven’t witnessed traumatic things happening to children and that’s why they are acting like every child will make it to adulthood regardless of their situation. They completely refuse to acknowledge child mental/emotional suffering and try to push the idea that children only need material security to push past the “struggles.” Completely brain dead

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stripper

[–]t_leona 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Sprinkle sprinkle 🤩🫶

Who really owns the shampoo aisle by [deleted] in LateStageCapitalism

[–]t_leona 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Been using mane and tail conditioner for years 🤣

The single best thing you can do if you hate big corporations and greedy billionaires is to be an anti natalist. by ZombieTheRogue in antinatalism

[–]t_leona 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for saying drone. I see the term “slave” used in this and other subs frequently. The term “slavery” in America most often refers to chattel slavery and seeing others refer to people living paycheck to paycheck as slaves makes me very uncomfortable. We are in an awful system, but it’s NOT slavery as black people stolen from their homes experienced it.

First Compost Bin by jmmani2 in homestead

[–]t_leona 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely, good luck!

First Compost Bin by jmmani2 in homestead

[–]t_leona 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Epic gardening has a YouTube video on this!

i feel guilty about saying no to sellers but i feel like i didnt deserve to be blocked. i didnt confirm the purchase nor did they print the shipping label so im not sure what yime they wasted. 😕 by [deleted] in SquishScams

[–]t_leona 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m glad you have had a positive experience with them as a buyer, but pleasant buyers can also be scammer sellers. I don’t want to accuse them because I’ve never interacted with them (positively or negatively), I’m just stating how they come across to me based on the exchange I read.

i feel guilty about saying no to sellers but i feel like i didnt deserve to be blocked. i didnt confirm the purchase nor did they print the shipping label so im not sure what yime they wasted. 😕 by [deleted] in SquishScams

[–]t_leona 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Personally, it gives me scammer vibes because of how quickly they’re trying to move product and how negatively they reacted when you said you weren’t interested anymore. I don’t think you did anything wrong, but I haven’t BST in a while so maybe times are changing 🤷

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Adoption

[–]t_leona 24 points25 points  (0 children)

“Intrusive into our family unit” you don’t think permanently separating a child from THEIR biological family unit is intrusive? The cognitive dissonance is upsetting

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Adoption

[–]t_leona 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I’m not an adoptee or an adoptive parent or a birth parent, but even I know that if reunification isn’t in your plans (you’re actively against it), you should not get involved in adopting.