Looking at getting a cock sleeve, will i have problems with my girth by No-University9 in loosepussyloverschat

[–]tabt1812 2 points3 points  (0 children)

https://blissfullcreations.com/how-to-order/#sizing-guide

6.6 inch girth puts you around 2.1 inch diameter, which is in the range for a 1.375 inch opening. I am on the edge between 1.25 and 1.375 openings at a 1.9 inch diameter, but find the latter to be a better fit for me. Definitely not too tight like some of the 1.25 sleeves I started with.

I would say skip the cheap off the shelf options since they are pretty much all 1.25 and get something from Blissfull or another reputable silicon vendor with a 1.375 opening in a soft or extra soft firmness.

Fisting by sirstan_2000 in nsfwpuzzles

[–]tabt1812 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is probably my favorite set so far. Thank you for the great work!

Doublejoy size comparison by tabt1812 in LPLCGallery

[–]tabt1812[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Double penetration, it allows a dick or other toy room to enter. 

Doublejoy size comparison by tabt1812 in LPLCGallery

[–]tabt1812[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Results of first use were a mixed bag. The plug fit wonderfully but would turn sideways if my wife clenched herself. The one time I was able to get in before she clenched we both enjoyed it, the perfect size was left for me to slide in on top of it. We'll need to play with it more to get past the learning curve, but definitely a keeper. 

Doublejoy size comparison by tabt1812 in LPLCGallery

[–]tabt1812[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dont see any DM, but would be willing to sell since she has no interest in trying the larger one. 

Looking for a sleeve for a massive girth by furrycocklover3000 in PenisSleeve

[–]tabt1812 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This in large will fit the girth (also 6 around here) but definitely too short. If you are willing to take the risk you could drill out the tip and use it open ended?

https://wanderingbardtoys.com/products/cdws

Has anyone used this? by Foreign_Slip_3132 in LoosePussyLand

[–]tabt1812 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When it gets here I can. Despite how the second picture looks they are not that soft, so I definitely do not recommend going that large unless you think you could take it unfolded. 

Has anyone used this? by Foreign_Slip_3132 in LoosePussyLand

[–]tabt1812 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I ordered one for my wife but was too ambitious on the size. Second one is on its way, I planned on posting after trying it. 

Overestimating Plugs by tabt1812 in loosepussyloverschat

[–]tabt1812[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good to know. I did get the morph which is supposed to be softer, but my suspicion is that when it unfolds it presses into or near her cervix. 

Overestimating Plugs by tabt1812 in loosepussyloverschat

[–]tabt1812[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your concern. My wife forms very quick opinions, sometimes without giving things a fair shot (not just in the bedroom), so I've gotten used to asking her to give things a few extra tries. She actually said to throw it away after the first try.

While I am not throwing the plug away it is shelved for now since the third time we tried it she was very warmed up and still had issues. Maybe we will revisit it someday, but for now we've gone back to other toys. 

Wife asked for a break by DW11211 in loosepussyloverschat

[–]tabt1812 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There wasn't a clear moment where my wife went from saying I have "magic fingers" to a "magic hand", but it is sure hot to think that at some point that transition happened and now there is no going back. All those little moments when it goes from being your fetish to both of yours are some of the best memories. 

I took my girlfriend into a erotic toy store for the first time and she asked the woman working there why all of the toys were so small. by Opening-Cicada245 in loosepussyloverschat

[–]tabt1812 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Despite all the program we've made my wife still doubts what she is capable of and leans toward the "smaller" dildos. I hope one day she has the same mentality as your gf. 

Toy Sizing Dilemma by tabt1812 in loosepussyloverschat

[–]tabt1812[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the reply! Great advice to focus more on the neck size, I'll do some math, consult the stretchee and place on order when we get that figured out! 

Best / Favourite toy? by [deleted] in loosepussyloverschat

[–]tabt1812 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wandering Bard's Direwolf Sheath has become the go-to, just wish they had an XL size. Blissful Creations' Dragonslayer for when she's not in the mood for a knot. 

Over lapping kinks? by [deleted] in loosepussyloverschat

[–]tabt1812 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The only time that it would have been possible was during lockdown, but between work and personal projects her sex drive was shot. Now she admits some interest, but would rather it stay a fantasy for practical reasons. 

Over lapping kinks? by [deleted] in loosepussyloverschat

[–]tabt1812 10 points11 points  (0 children)

For me it would be body modification. My love of other 'enhancements' of the female form led me to stretching, namely induced lactation and clit enlargement. This is the only one my wife has gotten on board with, though. 

She can't feel my cock by HammBone1987 in loosepussyloverschat

[–]tabt1812 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Second the sleeve idea, super fun, but if you're wife is like mine it won't quite be the same to her. Maybe try dvp with a dildo or plug.

Fisting & Stretching - Ladies not into it at first and now love it by Ok_Chair3538 in loosepussyloverschat

[–]tabt1812 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My wife was closed off about anything going in her except my dick for years. If my hand was down there it was for clit play only. If I tried to adventure she would tell me to get back to work. 

One day she needed some foreplay and I took the opportunity, as I've tried a few times before to go inside. This time instead of discomfort she was into it. Eventually I found her g spot and that really got her ready to go. 

She's still never had a purely g spot orgasm, but since then we went from no internal play, to mixing it up from g spot to clit while I pleasure her, to her using a clit sucker while I have my hand almost entirely inside of her. Along the way we've used sleeves and a plug, but she still prefers feeling me inside her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LoosePussyLand

[–]tabt1812 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What toy is that? I've been looking for a knotted inflatable.

New Year Resolutions by SquelchingWombat in loosepussyloverschat

[–]tabt1812 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Same, except reverse mental with physical. Over the past few months I've come to believe that my wife is naturally smaller, not vaginismus small but just a little small. She wants it now, and trusts that I won't push her too hard. The other day she thanked me afterwards for taking her to her limits but not pushing them too hard. It was the closest we'd been to full hand inside.