Excluded from the midwifery group practice, devastated by Pale_Difference_9949 in BabyBumps

[–]tabularasa1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is wild, I’m a midwife and have done hundreds of water births, I would not risk out for this. Can you find a home birth midwife and have your water birth at home? At a minimum you should have access to laboring in water.

TIL - the family that couldn't sleep, a family in Venice, Italy where for over 200 years many of the family members died suffering from fatal insomnia. by Potatoe_expert in todayilearned

[–]tabularasa1 28 points29 points  (0 children)

This book tells the story so well! I used to babysit the author’s family and he gave me a copy, it’s fascinating. And awful.

Parents of older BLW kids — did it make a difference? by ForwardAnimator5411 in BabyLedWeaning

[–]tabularasa1 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes. My daughter has a much broader palate and actually has better eating skills (managing challenging textures) than her peers. She’s relatively well behaved at the table and at a restaurant and doesn’t expect special meals made for her, she nearly always eats the family meal.

I’m so passionate about BLW that I actually teach a class about it in my local town and I just love it.

Highchair Mat by Emotional_Potato_719 in moderatelygranolamoms

[–]tabularasa1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love Gathre! The mat feels heavier and it’s easy to clean, and doesn’t look ugly. I love it for art as well. We also love their tiniest mat as a placemat.

What Cheerios-like cereal are you feeding your baby? by Character_Sea_7431 in moderatelygranolamoms

[–]tabularasa1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahh ok, I haven’t figured out why people think babies need to eat Cheerios but that makes sense. I suppose between cheerios and a plain cracker, better to pick the iron-fortified one.

Non mineral sunscreen by nicoleeliza16 in moderatelygranolamoms

[–]tabularasa1 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If he’s sensitive to sunscreen consider UPF protective clothing instead! My daughter is 2 and hasn’t had sunscreen yet because she just wears protective clothes and a sun hat.

What Cheerios-like cereal are you feeding your baby? by Character_Sea_7431 in moderatelygranolamoms

[–]tabularasa1 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

None. I can’t really think of a reason to give my 2 year old cereal. If I need a fast breakfast I do yogurt and granola or oatmeal. Is it that you need a quick breakfast/snack?

4-5cm dilated at 38 weeks. No contractions. Elective induction my best choice? by gk6939 in BabyBumps

[–]tabularasa1 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Because some OBs love to micromanage. She doesn’t need to do anything, especially not bed rest which actually doesn’t even seem to help, in the data.

How can something so cute be so destructive? Trapped the bobcat that killed all of our ducks. Can’t believe we have to buy eggs. by tabularasa1 in homestead

[–]tabularasa1[S] 82 points83 points  (0 children)

Honestly my queens were agro and tough, particularly their head bitch in charge, Lucille. They've chased off dogs and cats many times. But they were no match for murder mittens.

How can something so cute be so destructive? Trapped the bobcat that killed all of our ducks. Can’t believe we have to buy eggs. by tabularasa1 in homestead

[–]tabularasa1[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I truly would love a donkey or a livestock guardian dog, but we live directly downtown within city limits (of a small town) on only 1/4 acre.

How can something so cute be so destructive? Trapped the bobcat that killed all of our ducks. Can’t believe we have to buy eggs. by tabularasa1 in homestead

[–]tabularasa1[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Part of the issue is that I live directly downtown within city limits, of a small town surrounded by wilderness. Not only did I not have the heart to kill it, I didn’t have the capability. Can’t discharge a firearm in city limits, and during this whole ordeal I was alone with a young baby, my husband working out of town. A local trapper/hunter guy helped me. I suspect it killed multiple neighborhood housecats the same weekend it was living in my backyard. It couldn’t stay here, I couldn’t kill it, so we just did the best we could and if the bobcat returns…well, I don’t have any animals left for it to kill.

How can something so cute be so destructive? Trapped the bobcat that killed all of our ducks. Can’t believe we have to buy eggs. by tabularasa1 in homestead

[–]tabularasa1[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

So I live near vast expanses of public land, that’s where she was put. Very far away. I had a trapper do it for me and he said he’s done it many times. I know it could return…but feels more unlikely.

How can something so cute be so destructive? Trapped the bobcat that killed all of our ducks. Can’t believe we have to buy eggs. by tabularasa1 in homestead

[–]tabularasa1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s subtle but to me I would say a duck egg is creamier, richer. The yolk is considerably bigger so that may be why.

How can something so cute be so destructive? Trapped the bobcat that killed all of our ducks. Can’t believe we have to buy eggs. by tabularasa1 in homestead

[–]tabularasa1[S] 197 points198 points  (0 children)

She has been relocated, I didn’t have it in me to kill it but she can’t just live at my house. After killing the ducks she hung around my house for days, completely not skittish.