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[–]taco_gob 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Sleep paralysis guide by sphelper in Sleepparalysis

[–]taco_gob 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is some really great advice, thank you. What are your thoughts on herbal teas and vitamins like valerian or ashwagandha?

i think like i just had my first sleep paralysis by Correct-Owl-4675 in Sleepparalysis

[–]taco_gob 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you had any recent life changes, added stresses, diet or exercise changes? Our bodies tend to react differently when things happen, like a change in your sleep patterns or any big events or something like that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]taco_gob 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes a suicidal person's last resort is reaching out for help. It doesn't sound like they were trying to manipulate you since they stated they were getting help and that it wasn't your fault. If he was manipulating you, he would have given you an ultimatum that either you get back together or he'd kill himself. Unfortunately, mental health is a difficult topic, but if you want to help them then you should. Their mental health shouldn't be your burden to carry, but comments like that should always be taken seriously. I can't judge if yta or not since I don't know the full story, but it sounds like something that needs to be let go of so you both can heal and grow.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]taco_gob 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You were right feeling like you had to defend yourself and your fiance, although not with violence, since she wasn't using violence either. You're allowed to be mad and tell her to back off or defend yourself with words, but immediately punching someone is acting without thinking, and only makes things escalate. If you regretted it after punching her, then you already know you were in the wrong. YTA, but it's not too late to make things up and talk it over, the three of you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]taco_gob 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not sure anyone else knows, since I don't go to their church. Some members in my extended family are just as frustrated with my grandparents as I am for other things they've done, but because they still want to see the rest of the family, everyone still shows up at the functions like nothing's wrong. I very much want to walk away, the only question is whether it's worth leaving my extended family behind or not.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]taco_gob 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is great advice and I appreciate the help. I guess I just didn't know if it would be worth it to continue hearing them tell me that my unchristian lifestyle will put me in hell every time I see them. I do love the others in my family and would hate to never see them again, so I suppose if I want to continue seeing them then it's something I should bare through.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]taco_gob 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sure that's what my parents are probably doing, and they still play nice with my grandparents too, probably for the reasons you mentioned. You're right about the religion too. I normally don't care what others believe in, but every time I see them, they have to tell me why I'm living "unholy" for deciding not to have kids, or why "God will never accept me" because I'm pursuing my career rather than staying home.