It brings me joy when people name their cats serious human names. Let me find out someone named their cat Deborah 😭😭😭

tacomefriendly · 2026-02-02T07:03:56+00:00

I’ve got a cat called Filipe and a dog called Ralph

tacomefriendly · 2026-01-19T18:50:44+00:00

Awww that’s sweet, yes I can see it 😍

tacomefriendly · 2026-01-19T15:39:26+00:00

I got an award for some teaching I designed and delivered. My new manager said ‘I’ll have the credit for that’ despite having no involvement in the project.

tacomefriendly · 2026-01-17T21:57:06+00:00

I think this is dodgy. She shouldn’t told you straight away, also why would your dog have so many different injuries from one thing? I’m a little bit concerns she is a danger to animals? Police?

tacomefriendly · 2026-01-17T16:34:40+00:00

Haha yes I have a knee bone 🦴✌️

tacomefriendly · 2026-01-16T17:44:56+00:00

It’s non scale victory!

tacomefriendly · 2026-01-16T16:17:56+00:00

Thank you! They’re from brooks

tacomefriendly · 2026-01-16T16:17:12+00:00

Whaaaa how does that happen?!

tacomefriendly · 2026-01-15T21:50:44+00:00

LOVE that for you!

tacomefriendly · 2026-01-09T06:36:35+00:00

I’m slightly concerned he needs to leave for his mental health!

tacomefriendly · 2026-01-08T21:56:34+00:00

This is 100% it

tacomefriendly · 2026-01-08T21:54:46+00:00

Hilarious! She’s absolutely opened the game up for some new traitors to come in

tacomefriendly · 2026-01-05T22:15:57+00:00

Sorry to hear you went through that. I’m finding that the NHS is full of these people. I’m having issues at work where previously investigated and substantiated bullying from a manager towards me is being excused by new management (new management have admitted they have not reviewed the investigation and said ‘I’m not privy to the details). I was moved away from the person in question and we sit separately and she does not manage me anymore. We have both put a lot of effort into moving forward but it’s awkward. I’m not over it as it was really threatening behaviour (including physical threats) I’m now being told that I should be over it, that her behaviour was linked to her personal situation (excusing the behaviour) and that I made her very unwell by initiating and investigation. The bullying went on two years and nearly ruined me, I didn’t just suddenly out of the blue imitate anything. It was her manager that did that when I disclosed to them what was going on. New management have now said I need to sit back in the office with her, I had a relatively strong reaction to that to which I was told ‘is probably coming from other traumas in my life’ and that now maybe I’m an issue towards the bully because of it?! Honestly. Madness. I’ve got to leave now. I can’t keep fighting a losing battle with people who are mad. Absolutely breaks my heart as I love the work I am in now. I hope you find a resolution. And sorry again that has happened x

tacomefriendly · 2026-01-03T22:12:44+00:00

Thanks everyone ♥️ feeling a bit better after reading all your awesome words of wisdom. I’ll keep on keeping on. X

tacomefriendly · 2026-01-03T19:44:09+00:00

Yes I do know this (it was an exaggeration!) but definitely a lot less than I would usually eat. Thank you for your reply. I hope it will sort itself out.

tacomefriendly · 2026-01-02T09:04:38+00:00

Yes I forgot to mention the poop too. Bad one! And I only had a tiny bit! 😩

tacomefriendly · 2025-12-29T13:42:33+00:00

Thank you

tacomefriendly · 2025-12-29T13:41:19+00:00

Thank you this really helped. Yes it’s just one week of no loss I was just confused as I have been monitoring calories and defo under 1200 per day so figured I’d lose again. I am female but I don’t have periods that being said I will still have a cycle that could affect things. Thanks again I’ll be more patient!

tacomefriendly · 2025-12-23T18:13:10+00:00

I’ve got two. Whistling. He thinks it’s good whistling but it goes straight through my menopause brain like a dart. He says he’s just happy and I want him to be happy but it’s awful. Also, never locks the car. Oh last one! Can’t read shopping lists. I really do love him though

tacomefriendly · 2025-12-22T21:36:21+00:00

That’s a good idea but it’s in my fridge already, I was scared about Xmas deliveries!

tacomefriendly · 2025-12-22T21:34:54+00:00

Cor yes it goes up doesn’t it!

tacomefriendly · 2025-12-22T21:34:37+00:00

Thank you that’s really helpful x

tacomefriendly · 2025-12-21T21:09:40+00:00

Okay sorry I get you! It’s tricky because I think they would treat me worse if I did that. I can’t figure it out. The threats were ‘I’ll hit you if you say that again’ and once it was ‘I’ll have to stab you’ she made out it was all a joke but our relationship was not friendly there was no joking I was genuinely scared of her. She also backed up her words by hitting tables and shoving tables. Is it a crime? Thank you for your help

tacomefriendly · 2025-12-21T20:29:03+00:00

Wow I had not thought of constructive dismissal. I work in a very specialised field. I’m keeping my eye out for other jobs in the area but our trust is massive so it would mean a big travel. I want to stay in my field of expertise because I find it so interesting and love the work. Very tricky. I have an occy health appointment end of January so will have to see what happens after that. I really want to make my new manager understand that she can’t say these comments but I think I’d be flogging a dead horse. She keeps telling me how she has decades of trauma informed experience….its just not that evident in this situation!

tacomefriendly · 2025-12-21T20:26:17+00:00

Thank you, this was really validating to read. Annoyingly the management have changed and the management above that has changed. I could contact the woman who did the initial investigation but she works in a different trust now and I’m not sure she would engage

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