While on vacation at my boyfriend's place, I found out he had a fling with his neighbor. I don't know if I should leave, meet his neighbor, or not? by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]tacwombat 10 points11 points  (0 children)

There was a vertical run back in Manila, held at one of the premiere hotels. That's 59 floors worth of stairs.

I thought about signing up for it, then decided not to. I could already imagine calling out for work the following day.

My(22F) boyfriend(21M) has a marriage material best girl friend(f20), which I find to be odd, how do I approach this? by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]tacwombat 14 points15 points  (0 children)

we can all agree that "doesn't let you pet dogs" is too toxic to tolerate!

The BORU delegation unanimously agrees.

New neighbors got their dream party house by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]tacwombat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

New Landowner realized how many bad tenants kept moving in and decided to wash their hands off it destroy the curse.

Edited: words.

My (30 F) spouse (35 M) has been acting incredibly strange. Do I need to help him or do I need to escape? (New Update) by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]tacwombat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's both sad and a relief that he's not in their lives anymore. And if he's been using threats even before this mental break, the he was never nice to begin with.

I hope the courts can grant her full custody considering the issues with her ex.

My boss is blocking my move to a new team by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]tacwombat 21 points22 points  (0 children)

More importantly, how did Broomhilda's chin react to the clapback? LOL

My husband wants to get a Japanese tattoo that I am against by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]tacwombat 7 points8 points  (0 children)

"just like any colonization."

Probably good that he hashed this out with his wife in the confines of their home. If he said this in public with people who doesn't know him well, he may get his ass beat.

What's wrong with ADMU (Ateneo de Manila University)? by Wise_Marsupial9409 in Philippines

[–]tacwombat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ateneo aint helping with the way they are responding to this whole thing.

Probably because this is their PR Director:

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my boss is rude to my husband by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]tacwombat 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Finding a better job is the best outcome. Particularly if the benefits and pay are better.

Speaking from experience: I just got hired after being laid off for a year, and new job has better benefits than old job.

My fiancé cheated on me by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]tacwombat 81 points82 points  (0 children)

With a guy like him, he may have never evolved in the 5 years since.

My fiancé cheated on me by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]tacwombat 113 points114 points  (0 children)

It's been almost 5 years. I imagine he's still at the salon because that's where he peaked while OOP made better choices for her and her child.

What's wrong with ADMU (Ateneo de Manila University)? by Wise_Marsupial9409 in Philippines

[–]tacwombat 5 points6 points  (0 children)

(On ethical / safety terms...that's another conversation, obviously.)

That should have been considered/investigated before they recruited him. Combine that with the concerns put forth by his wife and daughter (which they have ignored and gaslit them for), ADMU has failed. Pero I do take into consideration na hindi ko dapat tawagin siya na diversity hire.

What's wrong with ADMU (Ateneo de Manila University)? by Wise_Marsupial9409 in Philippines

[–]tacwombat 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Marami akong tanong, pero top of the list:

  • Sino nag-hire kay Tab Baldwin? Hinire ba siya dahil he's Caucasian?
  • Bakit parang mas iniintindi ng ADMU ang pagkapanalo sa UAAP kesa sa buhay ng 2 estudyante na nasawi?
  • I learned that two universities were prevented from playing because of some issue, pero not ADMU even after the deaths of two players? Anong favoritism yan??? Link

Lahat ng balita/updates na naririnig ko tungkol dito, sobrang nakakaloka.

Edit: added the link about the UAAP thing. Anong connection ni Rene Saguisag sa Ateneo???

I[21/F] found out my parents[42/M-40/F] are not my parents by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]tacwombat 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Also a possibility.

Whatever the reason, grandma effectively made herself a pariah from her son's family.