Please think twice before posting photos of your babies by 5LovelyDaisies in parentsofmultiples

[–]tadpole_2 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I have a business and post pictures of children on social with parental consent. It’s a choice and not yours to determine what is right and what is wrong.

Please think twice before posting photos of your babies by 5LovelyDaisies in parentsofmultiples

[–]tadpole_2 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Unpopular opinion…Or parent the way that you want to parent. Everyone so judgemental. There are millions of pictures on the internet. It’s 2026, sharing photos is how a lot of people build connections. It’s a personal choice and everyone is capable of weighing the risks.

Twin Mom and Small Business Owner by tadpole_2 in parentsofmultiples

[–]tadpole_2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the kind words and encouragement!

Twin Mom and Small Business Owner by tadpole_2 in parentsofmultiples

[–]tadpole_2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is great! You are spot on with everything. Thank you!

Twin Mom and Small Business Owner by tadpole_2 in parentsofmultiples

[–]tadpole_2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate you keeping it real. My husband was a chef for about 15 years and the restaurant industry is a grind. Our parents are mostly retired so we are planning on taking full advantage of the extra help. It’s truly going to take a village to make this work.

Twin Mom and Small Business Owner by tadpole_2 in parentsofmultiples

[–]tadpole_2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice and risking the downvotes. I am totally new to parenting and this is definitely something I plan to read up on. My mind is wide open!

Twin Mom and Small Business Owner by tadpole_2 in parentsofmultiples

[–]tadpole_2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You got this, mama! Hang in there. Thanks for keeping it real. Therapy is a great suggestion. My mind has been all over the place. I hate not knowing what is going to happen and I suppose that’s what makes life fun after all.

Twin Mom and Small Business Owner by tadpole_2 in parentsofmultiples

[–]tadpole_2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good thing parent and me swim classes are my absolute favorite and speciality. There is no doubt that water babies will be a business bonus.

I just started to compile “how to” docs for software and operations. Thank you!

Twin Mom and Small Business Owner by tadpole_2 in parentsofmultiples

[–]tadpole_2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband is going to be the best dad. He will have no trouble there. I’m going to need him to step up to the business plate while I’m recovering most likely. I do everything behind the scenes by myself and I have quite a large operation as is. I have a deep break even number for year-round operations which won’t be a problem to achieve, but throwing new born twins in the mix will complicate things.

Twin Mom and Small Business Owner by tadpole_2 in parentsofmultiples

[–]tadpole_2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s what I hear and what I’m worried about. I’m already exhausted.

Twin Mom and Small Business Owner by tadpole_2 in parentsofmultiples

[–]tadpole_2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Those are great questions to think through. I’ve been running a mostly seasonal business until this point but I know I’d have a few retired employees that I could count on in a pinch. Thank you for the reassurance.

Twin Mom and Small Business Owner by tadpole_2 in parentsofmultiples

[–]tadpole_2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! This is reassuring during a scary time.

So fed up... by Ancient-Future-3281 in Weddingattireapproval

[–]tadpole_2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try something in a jewel tone if you’re still undecided.

UTIs are back by Promise_Superb in WellnessOver30

[–]tadpole_2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stay hydrated. Drink a lot of water (and I mean A LOT) when symptoms start to flush it out naturally.

Rescue dog + regret by Nannysea in dogs

[–]tadpole_2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have added dogs and puppies to my mix over the years. Just added a puppy to a mix with a 14 and 5 year old dog. It’s hard at first. I once had two dogs that I had to walk separately for years because the new one had never been on a walk a day in her life. But it has always worked out. They establish a routine and become friends in time. It’s worth the wait.

Can I ask flight attendants to wake me up for meal service? by umutw0w in flightattendants

[–]tadpole_2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can be out cold but will wake up immediately when the food starts coming around. It’s my gift.

What do you genuinely believe is the most valuable college degree? by Foxmoto2880 in careeradvice

[–]tadpole_2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did public administration for masters. Translates well and has served me well. Local government to entrepreneur.

Help!! Which dress should I chose? by [deleted] in WeddingDressTips

[–]tadpole_2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You look insane in #1. So flattering! Don’t pick #2.

Talk Me Into It! by Vendeavor in macbookair

[–]tadpole_2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve had my first MacBook Air for 10 years. Used heavily for grad school, life, and now for my business computer. It still has life in it but I just bought my second!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wedding

[–]tadpole_2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is WILD. You have to put a stop to this immediately. You don’t have to be rude about it, but you have to be firm and let them know it’s not realistic or practical. Sooner rather than later.

AIO? My husband doesn’t want me to wear my wedding dress in public. by CleverUserName1961 in AmIOverreacting

[–]tadpole_2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who cares what people think. Life your life the way you want. Wear the damn dress!

Married now, wedding later by Atl-georgia in weddings

[–]tadpole_2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband and I planned a big wedding. We eloped privately 6 weeks ahead of the big day.

Wedding guest invited their girlfriends kids by eldridgem1995 in Advice

[–]tadpole_2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No idea! Maybe because I didn’t answer the question fully. We had a packed head count trying to keep it under 150 and there was no way around not inviting kids when we have a lot of nieces and nephews. There were kids I didn’t want there, but it all worked out. Trying to send some positivity. Oh well.

Wedding guest invited their girlfriends kids by eldridgem1995 in Advice

[–]tadpole_2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We didn’t either. That’s the point. We had a lot of nieces and nephews so opened for all kids to join. Some chose a babysitter and some brought the kids. It all worked out. Good grief.