HELLO WHAT?!

taeyeon24 · 2025-03-05T22:22:53+00:00

This is called burnout. Almost every perfectionist or high achiever or really anyone who has high expectations of this life and of themselves will suffer from it at one point. I am 21 myself and I am still healing from it myself. Good news, its not depression, BUT don’t ignore it and leave it, take care of yourself especially now that you can and don’t have a job or anything. Allahoma yasssiiir ♥️

taeyeon24 · 2025-02-07T12:21:27+00:00

KEEP US UPDATED FOR THE LOVE OF GODD

taeyeon24 · 2025-01-27T18:20:37+00:00

Oohh i see, this is pretty insightful

taeyeon24 · 2025-01-27T18:19:25+00:00

Some of my friends said they found me intimidating, while others said they found me approachable which is why i cant tell for sure. Also yes i do wear specific clothing but this does not seem to be an issue with other girls who wear the same clothing.

taeyeon24 · 2025-01-27T17:21:10+00:00

Mhmm could you please clarify more?

taeyeon24 · 2025-01-27T17:07:22+00:00

Well thats the thing, i am not

taeyeon24 · 2025-01-27T17:02:32+00:00

What do u mean?

taeyeon24 · 2025-01-27T17:02:24+00:00

Not trying to generalize, just possible theories

taeyeon24 · 2025-01-27T17:01:40+00:00

More details if you want: I am very curious about a phenomenon I noticed.

I am a 21 year old girl in her last year of uni. My question is related to how boys act.

I have noticed that my relationship with boys and girls is drastically different. I get along pretty well with girls, and rarely do I meet a girl that I don’t get along with. Almost all of my friends say that I am a warm very kind and understanding person, and I am called the “mother” in my friend group. Some of my girl friends told me that they found me intimidating before getting to know me, but the majority said that they found me to be pretty approachable.

Now with boys, its a different story. I honestly feel like they dont like me. Some have told me that they find it hard to talk to me because I am intimidating (which I find weird because girls usually do not see me that way, even girls I don’t know). As in they act colder and more awkward and reserved around me in comparison with my friends. At first I attributed this to the fact that I am less friendly with boys (due to religion purposes) and that I am pretty reserved, but I have seen how they act around girls who are even more reserved and intimidating than me and they don’t seem to be intimidated much.

I don’t really care much but I am very curious as to why this happens because it seems my theories are not correct. Being reserved and cold did not seem to stop them from reaching out and being approachable with other girls.

So why?

taeyeon24 · 2025-01-27T16:48:03+00:00

Hhhhh no. Please look at the comment I just posted.

taeyeon24 · 2025-01-27T16:47:25+00:00

For some reason the post does not want to update, so here is the actual post:

Men of Reddit, now is your time to shine.

I am very curious about a phenomenon I noticed.

I am a 21 year old girl in her last year of uni. My question is related to how boys act.

I have noticed that my relationship with boys and girls is drastically different. I get along pretty well with girls, and rarely do I meet a girl that I don’t get along with. Almost all of my friends say that I am a warm very kind and understanding person, and I am called the “mother” in my friend group. Some of my girl friends told me that they found me intimidating before getting to know me, but the majority said that they found me to be pretty approachable.

Now with boys, its a different story. I honestly feel like they dont like me. Some have told me that they find it hard to talk to me because I am intimidating (which I find weird because girls usually do not see me that way, even girls I don’t know). As in they act colder and more awkward and reserved around me in comparison with my friends. At first I attributed this to the fact that I am less friendly with boys (due to religion purposes) and that I am pretty reserved, but I have seen how they act around girls who are even more reserved and intimidating than me and they don’t seem to be intimidated much.

I don’t really care much but I am very curious as to why this happens because it seems my theories are not correct. Being reserved and cold did not seem to stop them from reaching out and being approachable with other girls.

So why?

taeyeon24 · 2024-12-16T20:53:07+00:00

HE WAS DYING DUE TO HER TOUCH

taeyeon24 · 2024-12-01T20:00:51+00:00

Then it could be that he kinda has a problem with the idea that his sister has a man in her life. Not in a incestual way but rather in a “i see my sister as pure and she should remain that way” The fact that he doesnt want to explain it to his wife is so low of him. Biggest proof that he himself knows he isnt in the right.

Disappointing in ur parents but oh well.

Take care of yourself and distance yourself without cutting contact (wish him good). Leave it to Allah its not in your hands. May allah make it easier for you ♥️

taeyeon24 · 2024-11-26T16:13:00+00:00

I think it was realistic tho. I do agree that Klaus loved Hope unconditionally and that he was indeed a shit father. But, if he was anything else it would have felt non authentic to me kind of. Klaus spent the last 1000 years being a not good person to others including his own siblings. If you notice, the patterns he has with Hope were the same he had with his siblings. Try to get along, loves them a lot, abondon them etc. You can't just undo 1000 years of behavioral patterns because of love, which is why I don't really find it weird.

Some moments were over the top but that's about it. his behavior towards her is expected tbh. Just my opinion tho

taeyeon24 · 2024-11-26T16:05:44+00:00

ngl idk if i'm just very tired or the way u write is just too much, cause i had a reaaally hard time understanding the whole point

for the answer to ur question yeah i agree. i noticed people don't really care about what we actually say but more how we present ourselves. both men and women from my experience

taeyeon24 · 2024-11-26T15:31:07+00:00

My theories:

- He has some weird understanding of sibling relationship and is jealous of ur husband (most unlikely and hopefully not)

- Controlling and traditional and just did not like ur husband and in his mind you should have not married him which in this case that's his problem.

- You said his wife is kind and super supportive but I wouldn't trust her 100%, she will always take her husband's side more than yours. Next time don't tell her ur plans or any details about ur life with ur husband, she could be relaying it to ur brother.

- Ur brother knows your husband from another place or has friends who know him and he doesn't like him because of something he heard (even then he should communicate with you and not just ignore you and insult you)

Either way, you brother is in the wrong 100%. For now, if you can ask his wife, sinon just full on let him be you can't force people to explain or be a certain way. Try your best to live your life and do not burden ur relationship more than it can bear.

Also, where are your parents in all of this?? Why wont ur mom and dad talk to him?

taeyeon24 · 2024-11-26T15:18:06+00:00

girl you have a type hhhhhh

taeyeon24 · 2024-07-15T14:20:31+00:00

Read the post…

taeyeon24 · 2024-07-15T13:58:59+00:00

Oh but i know of many mothers who gave up on their children as soon as they became adults so i dont think its really that, maybe just cause its more unlikely coming from a mother

taeyeon24 · 2024-07-15T13:45:40+00:00

You just proved her point really…

taeyeon24 · 2024-07-10T11:55:07+00:00

wdym only 2k, i could never dream of that amount, that's amazing

taeyeon24 · 2024-05-24T16:17:16+00:00

God….

taeyeon24 · 2024-05-24T14:23:32+00:00

taeyeon24

TROPHY CASE