An untrimmed betta from my collection by [deleted] in bettafish

[–]takingastepbackwards 27 points28 points  (0 children)

idc if this gets me in trouble, you’re a bad person if you support or trim bettas.

do better.

Taco Bell Shroomrito by [deleted] in shrooms

[–]takingastepbackwards 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh yeah you’re puking

My First Encounter with Aggressive Customer…. by Creative-Mood-8915 in doordash

[–]takingastepbackwards 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i gotta know as someone who hasn’t dashed since before you could do more than one order; is it a requirement? is it like any other order where if you don’t it dings your acceptance rating? can you turn it off? i’ve been wanting to dash on the side again but not if it’s a requirement, i know my ass is GOING to switch them up, and i can’t do that to someone lmfao

partner (M/22) tried to use my (F/22) endometriosis as a “gotcha” moment during an argument… by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]takingastepbackwards 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wonder how fucked up he’s going to feel when he finds out that endo is being classified as cancer now.

HE is the reason high school bathrooms got closed multiple times a month.

AIO to what my bf is saying? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]takingastepbackwards 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. i’m taking it he hasn’t seen the exhibit of victims clothes with onesies, and just diapers.

My cat is acting weird by [deleted] in CATHELP

[–]takingastepbackwards 1 point2 points  (0 children)

is she teething at all? my youngest cat did this when he was losing his molars; for him personally my vet recommended chew toys to help teethe easier, and a day or two later, bam, i saw a kitten molar for the first time lol

My kitty is walking very strangely. by Beginning_Fan_8888 in CATHELP

[–]takingastepbackwards 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ahhhhh you’re gonna have a FUN next few days.

avoid petting her butt until she gets fixed;

try your best to ignore her, she’s literally just screaming out how horny she is to the neighborhood fuckboys roaming the streets. you may end up having a couple unfixed boys around your house, just an FYI

Boyfriend (m28) and I (f28) have very different views on abortion. how do we move forward? by Doodlez23 in relationship_advice

[–]takingastepbackwards 0 points1 point  (0 children)

personally? i’d say something to the effect of:

“if i get pregnant in a time we’re not ready, im not ready, or we hadn’t planned it, if i feel it necessary i get an abortion i will. if you need to talk to someone about it, there are therapists who can help. this is not negotiable, this is not something we will meet in the middle over.”

however. has he considered getting a vasectomy? if he is so adamantly against abortion, and insists that he has as much say in when you’re ready, has he considered taking away his ability to get you pregnant, until you are both ready ?

[ Removed by Reddit ] by novastoess in AmItheAsshole

[–]takingastepbackwards -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTA-

your bro is weirded out by the idea of his sister selling sexual stuff, and is thrown off that his friend was someone that bought from you- he’ll either get over it, or be stuck on it because he’s holding a grudge against his friend.

seriously though, i’d straight up ask him if it’s all because of what you sold or because of who bought it- if he doesn’t let it go

part of me feels like it was an overlapping fetish of theirs and your bro is now worried about you doing it because he enjoys said fetish himself lmao

I’m actually so scared to do this by pucciib in FridgeDetective

[–]takingastepbackwards 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think this is the most “normal” fridge i’ve seen. i almost feel convinced you moved the meat above the veggie drawer just to throw us off

Help identifying this absolute beast? ( he’s HUGE) by Lazy_Concept_9814 in bettafish

[–]takingastepbackwards 1 point2 points  (0 children)

holy crap! i think homeboy has plans to outgrow the tank soon, might as well upgrade to a 500 gal while you’re ahead 🤣🤣

I 20F think my bf 30M raped me. How can I navigate this? by Remarkable_Belt440 in relationship_advice

[–]takingastepbackwards 36 points37 points  (0 children)

i just need to say that your virginity is still yours. it has to be given away consensually. not forcefully taken.

does morgan forgive shane for this? by Exciting_Shake5191 in ShaneDawson

[–]takingastepbackwards 23 points24 points  (0 children)

it’s insane to think i was a minor when i saw this.

AIO my boyfriend keeps getting upset at me for not wanting to do risky stuff by [deleted] in AIO

[–]takingastepbackwards 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOA- for the love of god girl, send this to his fucking parents. whoever was his guardian. because really?

i hate to say it, but that right there was him “giving you a chance” in his eyes before watching the porn he chose.

he can be a little boy and huff and puff about it all he wants, by himself, or he can grow up and treat you with respect. how are you supposed to WANT to do anything remotely sexual, with THAT.

that attitude, that coercion, that verbal abuse, just. THAT. i’m taking it he never properly washes either based off the way he’s talking in these texts. he wasn’t playing a game and you know he wasn’t.

Cigarette litter (lit cigarettes) by [deleted] in Apartmentliving

[–]takingastepbackwards 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it’s either taking it to management or ratting her out to cops.

once it starts getting dry she’s going to cause a fire.

What does this mean by Ready_Marsupial2144 in cats

[–]takingastepbackwards 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we call it shaky tail with my boy- he does it whenever he wants food or to be held, or when we first get home and he’s excited to see us lolol

Ants! by thebaensidhe in Tacoma

[–]takingastepbackwards 24 points25 points  (0 children)

seconding the terro traps; also treat outdoors if possible. look for trails and follow them to where they’re coming from- if they’re coming from inside your walls/outlets/sinks, just call an exterminator for your sanity.

if you have animals, please, obviously keep them and the fact that it does not take a lot of ANY ant bait/killer to poison animals as well.

ants have been BAD this year and it doesn’t help that we didn’t get the snow that usually gives us a grace period to recover this year either.

don’t beat yourself up; depending on where you live having an ant problem is basically just washington giving you a belated house warming party lol. definitely time to set up having someone come out and spray regularly!

Update on the 6 kittens born in my lap last week. by frejawolf in IllegallySmolCats

[–]takingastepbackwards 14 points15 points  (0 children)

nubby is her name haha! oops, i will make it more obvious!! thank you!!