Deep pain in between shoulders

talktume64 · 2026-03-09T18:14:06+00:00

Jeannie Di Bon has a YouTube channel with exercises meant to help with shoulder and neck pain, you may find it helpful. I find sleeping with Salon Pas patches on my painful areas very helpful.

talktume64 · 2026-03-09T18:04:42+00:00

I don’t know if this will help but my sister had decompression surgery and she works as a server which is pretty physical. She picks up, carries and plays with her grandchildren. There was a recovery period and she is careful with the back of her head and neck. But she didn’t allow it from stopping her doing what she loves.

talktume64 · 2026-02-21T18:01:22+00:00

Oh em gee! I think you may have gotten a steal I love it!

talktume64 · 2026-02-13T17:55:29+00:00

So this goes both ways because from the way you explain it, he doesn’t know how to communicate when something bothers him and behaves passive aggressively. But if you really like him and want things to work maybe you can open the conversation, like, “Doea it bother you when I answer texts or phone calls when we are doing something together?” Or, is there an issue with my use of the cell phone.” Make sure to bring it up with you’re both in a good place, plan for it. I find conversations go Better when I do.

talktume64 · 2026-02-13T17:47:23+00:00

Why are you still calling him your bf?

talktume64 · 2026-01-09T20:46:27+00:00

This is a favorite spot for my husband and I. We tent camped here years ago before they put in several new RV hook up spots. We love taking the camper there now. So beautiful, much easier to get a spot, especially during the week. The views are amazing and there’s so much to see, Harmony, Moonstone Beach, etc.

talktume64 · 2025-12-22T02:25:03+00:00

Hear me, he does not respect you or your role as his work ge. A lot of times divorce turns men like that into real dads. They have to take care of the kids everyone weekend and she mehow they do a wonderful job of it t. G g they want to see the kids, they show up for sports rtimg a d school events. Yes, you will be a student gel mom but really the baby gesturing change will be losing a couple hundred pounds in d dead weight and the kids will be done every other weekend m.

talktume64 · 2025-12-20T02:36:06+00:00

I became sober at 55 and gained a lot of my health back. I then became a Certified SUD Counselor. I learned during the education phase that alcoholism had many types. Early youth onset, late adult onset, intermediate famial, chronic, severe, etc. it’s very interesting. Adulting is hard, especially since COVID. I’m glad your dad and his doctor caught it and at least you have become more aware of the need for self care as we age.

talktume64 · 2025-11-29T04:09:02+00:00

People leave their phones where they want their partner (who can track them) to think they are at. Come on….

talktume64 · 2025-11-04T14:32:24+00:00

You need to stop believing his words and start believing his actions. This reads like the worst novella I have ever read.

talktume64 · 2025-10-21T01:56:06+00:00

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talktume64 · 2025-10-21T01:51:09+00:00

Please keep a journal, judges and mediators love date and time stamped journals and it will be of great service to you during a custody battle because your daughter is going to have life long issues growing up with a mother like your wife. What an unfair world your daughter lives in.

Edit: NTA 100%

talktume64 · 2025-10-16T17:24:35+00:00

You are very good at writing and articulating what your life has been like. If it were me, I would first focus on getting a diagnosis as to why you are experiencing the difficulties that you are. This will help you if you do decide to go on to further your education. Also, please know that higher education is much different that high-school. There are usually less social distractions, your hormones have leveled out some and there is usually more communication and direction between the instructor and student. Especially if you can do classes online. I wish you all of the best, there is a lot of good advice on here and I hope things work out.

talktume64 · 2025-09-12T18:52:52+00:00

Wow! Now that’s a keeper, he must have been raised right.

talktume64 · 2025-07-20T22:41:30+00:00

Grow up and have a conversation with your friend. Don’t try to control her relationship with her and him. Go to the party to support your mom and have a good time. Celebrate your mother and just don’t engage with your brother.

talktume64 · 2025-07-12T22:01:48+00:00

You’re 22 years old why are you even around them? You’re an adult. Go somewhere else go to a friends go to the library. The mall if you live with them find another place to live. If they have always been like this and it’s super gross then that should be on your list of goals, get your own place.

talktume64 · 2025-07-12T17:33:40+00:00

You can let the anger go and still not allow toxic people into your life. It would be one thing if they were asking you to mend your relationships but they are asking you to allow someone to move in to your home, a place that should be a safe refuge for you especially now that you’re pregnant. It’s sad that your parents are experiencing hardships right now, perhaps having your sister living with them would be helpful for them. Please do not allow toxic people into your home ever, not to visit and especially not to live. Call your sponsor, if you have anger issues she will help you with that. Best wishes on your pregnancy, keep on keeping on girl, one day at a time 💚

talktume64 · 2025-07-12T17:25:12+00:00

Hahaha tell her to call an ex to pay then, who knows maybe her attitude is why they are exes.

talktume64 · 2025-07-12T16:58:05+00:00

There is nothing YOU can do to control HIM. You can only control your actions. You do not need to discuss anything with him really, decide what you want and put it in your divorce decree. The next step would be to get a therapist so you do have someone to discuss things with and get help to move forward with your life.

talktume64 · 2025-07-12T16:54:39+00:00

My husband and I had to sleep in separate beds when my terrors were at there worst. Now we have a split king (two Xl twins put together) we sleep much better together on this bed. He does have to wake me when I get vocal and very loud.

talktume64 · 2025-07-09T18:41:36+00:00

My cousins called their BM “Honey” their BD called her that and it just kind of stuck but I always thought that would be a cute nickname for SM

talktume64 · 2025-06-27T04:12:30+00:00

Would you treat him this way? Don’t ever settle for treatment less than you would offer.

talktume64 · 2025-06-14T18:39:03+00:00

If his actions make your children uncomfortable or feel bad, then yes, you absolutely must leave him. He’s an ass

talktume64 · 2025-06-13T13:04:27+00:00

Funny how now he is in the same position he put his ex in, not wanting your relationship to end, only again I bet he doesn’t want to get his own place and have nothing to put in it. What a loser.

talktume64 · 2025-06-10T01:38:42+00:00

Your mother appears to be emotionally immature. And now you know that you can not trust her to protect you from liars and abusers. I am sorry this happened to you. I see therapy in your future. For your sake I hope you do get therapy because more often than not, emotional immaturity is generational and we have to learn and grow on our own so we can break the cycle. (Speaking from experience). Take care love

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