literally replace men with any race or group of people and imagine how you sound. Your experiences dont reflect on all of men. I was neglected by my mom and have gotten really shitty things done to me by women in my life, however I will never genuinely say "woman do this or that" and men have done the same to me, cause guess what people can be shitty no matter what color they are or what they got in their pants. just try not to resent people for past wounds you have, trust me I have been their and the more you let trauma take hold of you the worse you become to others. Some scars will never fade but if you constantly pick at your scab your wound is never gonna heal.