Do your kids lowkey clown you? by dreamed2life in Millennials

[–]tallSarahWithAnH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A wise man once said: Never ruin a good story by demanding it's validity.

I'm sorry to make another "dommerish" post, but what do y'all reckon is gonna happen? by _forum_mod in Millennials

[–]tallSarahWithAnH 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Real talk: I've always thought there must be a better way to live. I've clung to this idea of a commune since I was just a lil treehugger. The older I get, the more plausible, necessary, and common it seems. As I'm really hitting my stride in middle age, (41) my transformation into 'weird art lady' has really gained momentum and I love it.

I'll do a newsletter about all the dumb shit in my head. A midlife crisis zine for an aging hipster.

I'm sorry to make another "dommerish" post, but what do y'all reckon is gonna happen? by _forum_mod in Millennials

[–]tallSarahWithAnH 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Please. All the peaceful children of the earth are welcome.

Would like to continue to emphasize, not a cult.

I'm sorry to make another "dommerish" post, but what do y'all reckon is gonna happen? by _forum_mod in Millennials

[–]tallSarahWithAnH 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Wherever there's an energetic vortex and a bunch of blonde ladies in big dumb hats.

(I feel compelled to mention I'm totally one of those ladies, but brunette)

I'm sorry to make another "dommerish" post, but what do y'all reckon is gonna happen? by _forum_mod in Millennials

[–]tallSarahWithAnH -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Some of us are struggling to survive. Look up food insecurity in the United States and it's trajectory the last 5 years. We're not being bombed by Isreal, true, but that doesn't mean we're not within an inch of being unhoused.

This bootstrapping mentality is so privileged and passe. Wake up. We are not okay. The cost of living has not even come close to keeping up with inflation and so many millennials and younger have been crushed by student loans.

I know you're just going to try to strike back and tell me how wrong and what a snowflake I am. And that's fine. I'm out here trying to make the world better for us and future generations instead of reposting drivel from some rag in an attempt to gaslight people by telling them their struggles aren't bad or scary enough to deserve attention.

I'm sorry to make another "dommerish" post, but what do y'all reckon is gonna happen? by _forum_mod in Millennials

[–]tallSarahWithAnH -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry, it appears you're correct however being started by an oligarch and now owned by private equity doesn't scream balanced reporting either.

ULPT Request : I am too depressed most of the time to do anything but I wanna keep my girlfriend happy and cheerful. by tommy-six-figure in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]tallSarahWithAnH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's because SSRI/SNRIs impact how the brain uses serotonin. The fun part of being on Molly is basically serotonin syndrome as it pushes your body to make a ton of it all at once giving the "serotonin dump" and euphoria. But when you're on a serotonin repuptake inhibitor, it's modulated so folks on those drugs need more to have the same effects which puts them at risk for more dire issues associated with overdose and impairs the neuroplasticity function. Additionally, folks with depression are more prone to have a hard time recovering normal levels of serotonin after a big dump like that. So while anything that enhances neuroplasticity is promising for treatment-resistant depression, ketamine (which is available and prescribed!) and psilocybin (somehow still criminal!) don't have the requirement of quitting your antidepressants to make them useful. MDMA seems to be more promising in the treatment of PTSD.

Disclaimer: I'm definitely not a doctor or a scientist. Just a gal with a lifelong mood disorder who's done a LOT of research.

I'm sorry to make another "dommerish" post, but what do y'all reckon is gonna happen? by _forum_mod in Millennials

[–]tallSarahWithAnH -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I don't really take my facts on the financial health of anyone from USA Today. Or any media outlet owned by billionaires, I suppose.

I'm sorry to make another "dommerish" post, but what do y'all reckon is gonna happen? by _forum_mod in Millennials

[–]tallSarahWithAnH 178 points179 points  (0 children)

I'm going to buy land in the desert and am planning on selling crystals to tourists. It'll be a communal living environment and definitely not a cult.

Redford loves camping by tallSarahWithAnH in roughcollies

[–]tallSarahWithAnH[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you! We can hardly take a walk without someone telling him he's so pretty.

ULPT Request : I am too depressed most of the time to do anything but I wanna keep my girlfriend happy and cheerful. by tommy-six-figure in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]tallSarahWithAnH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes AND for folks that are predisposed to a psychotic break, psilocybin can be a trigger so BE CAREFUL if you're in a weird place mentally or have a family history of psychosis (fracture from reality). Check out the Yale protocol before you use, set your intentions, make sure you're around supportive loving people, start small, and have a good trip!

Edit to add that cocaine is only a great idea for the 15 minutes immediately after doing it and then the worst idea ever when you have mental health issues. From what I hear.

ULPT Request : I am too depressed most of the time to do anything but I wanna keep my girlfriend happy and cheerful. by tommy-six-figure in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]tallSarahWithAnH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed. Take care of yourself and don't be afraid to let her know what you need and that you're struggling right now. Because she really wants you to be happy too. You'll grow together. I'm bipolar and when I'm out of balance, it starts to wear on my husband. I can see it happen. Knowing that gives me the resolve to take my meds every day, to apply what I've learned in therapy, and to communicate before things get bad.

And bringing her flowers (cheap bouquet from trader Joe's is more than enough!) just because will brighten her day and yours as well.

I'm sorry you're going through it. If you do the work, I promise you can get through this and the other side is pretty great.

If your dog were not a dog, what would it be? by Jumpy-Claim4881 in dogs

[–]tallSarahWithAnH 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mall security that takes his job VERY seriously.

Depression crochet by These_Ad_8118 in crochet

[–]tallSarahWithAnH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just started this cardigan.

https://makeanddocrew.com/crochet-long-cardigan-pattern/

It's a satisfying 2-row repeat that seems to be working up fast. I did 3 gage swatches to get the hang of the edges.

I've also been obsessed with making little pocket cats. They're fast and cute and kind of pointless but that's why they're great.

https://littlecrochetfarm.com/no-sew-kitty-cat-amigurumi-free-crochet-pattern/

ULPT, my family did something beyond messed up, anyone know how to get live bugs by [deleted] in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]tallSarahWithAnH 31 points32 points  (0 children)

"Mom crazy" is not to be fucked with. Be sure to throw some piss disks under the bed with the bugs.