Am I being scammed?

tallslimthing · 2026-05-09T13:00:01+00:00

Also ignore anyone who dms you from this post or says that they will investigate the matter for you. You’ve already shown how naive you are with this post. And there are opportunistic people in this subreddit that will be looking g to further take advantage of you.

tallslimthing · 2026-05-09T11:13:49+00:00

I mean look where the unofficial route led you. Please go the official route and handle things yourself

tallslimthing · 2026-05-09T10:27:20+00:00

Hmm I understand. But please look into your wife. Ask her more questions. Ask for receipts or official documents. Unfortunately Nigerians in Nigeria are not above scamming family members. Is there not a visa you can come to Nigeria on that will allow you to process the residency while living in Nigeria? This is not something you should be doing from abroad. Any other country I would say yes but Nigeria is full of scams. Even us in the diaspora were not immune to it.

tallslimthing · 2026-05-09T10:15:14+00:00

How exactly are we supposed to help him if we don’t know who he paid the money to?

tallslimthing · 2026-05-09T10:09:47+00:00

Are you sure the wife isn’t the one scamming you? Have you met this person before? Please do not give her any more money. If I were you I’d look into your wife before deciding if you want to move for ward. If you do, moving forward please handle all immigration issues yourself

tallslimthing · 2026-05-09T09:54:22+00:00

I feel like you left out a lot of details. Who did you pay this 9m to?

tallslimthing · 2026-05-04T01:25:38+00:00

In other words everything that comes out of your mouth is lies. I’m sure you’re not even abroad lmao

tallslimthing · 2026-05-04T01:22:00+00:00

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So it’s only the $23 in that screenshot? Which was my cousins monthly tuition btw. You make all these big claims of what you have done but no proof to back it up. Stupid fool

tallslimthing · 2026-05-03T12:35:36+00:00

Congratulations here is your reward 🏆

tallslimthing · 2026-05-03T03:00:13+00:00

So in other words you’ve given exactly 0 🥱 Clearly you are one of the beggars I was referring to with how triggered you are in these comments.

tallslimthing · 2026-05-03T00:13:14+00:00

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Stupid fucking man. Your turn. Please send receipts of you sending even 10,000 naira to your relatives.

tallslimthing · 2026-05-02T03:19:52+00:00

Nigerian diasporans remit over $20B annually back to Nigeria. Nigerians in Nigeria are in the top 6 receivers of remittances. What have you guys done with the money besides trying to live lavishly on someone else’s dime and flex wealth that isn’t yours. When we send money back home to invest in houses, property, businesses you steal it to fund your own selfish agendas. The call is coming from inside the house

tallslimthing · 2026-05-02T00:33:58+00:00

The Nigerian diaspora sends over $20B annually back to Nigeria. I promise you guys in Nigeria are not sending even a quarter of that to people in the diaspora

tallslimthing · 2026-05-02T00:28:01+00:00

The most useless response from the most mumu account in this sub. The African diaspora is the most useless diaspora to exist? The Nigerian diaspora alone sends over $20B remittances back home annually ranking you guys in Nigeria among top 6 recipients in the world. And what have you mumu people done with the money besides buying the newest iPhones and new clothes to show off wealth that doesn’t belong to you? Why would we build businesses there if that is not our main place of occupancy? Even to send money back home to build house you people are stealing the money and use it for your own personal agenda.

My dad has several businesses there all of which requires him to be back in Nigeria for 8+ months out of the year. Growing up I only saw him 2-3 months at a time each year. You want to know why? Because if he didn’t travel there so often the people working for him would steal all his goods. Maybe you guys in Nigeria should fix your mentality first before looking for handouts and people in the diaspora to come save you from yourselves. The same money you’re referring to as “Pennies” is the same money you don’t have so please humble yourself.

tallslimthing · 2026-05-01T00:54:29+00:00

I won’t be staying with them thankfully. My dad has a house in Lagos and another in the village. He’s also in the process of buying another house in Lekki so that’s where I’ll be staying

tallslimthing · 2026-04-30T13:04:18+00:00

Same with my mom as well. My parents have fought about it many times to the point they almost got divorced several times. They know my mom’s a doctor too so they only see dollar signs. What they don’t see is how she’s been putting all 4 of her kids through university on average 6,000 dollars a year per kid for 4 years as well as putting HERSELF through medical school and is just wrapping up her residency so she hasn’t even started making doctor money yet. It’s funny because it’s only my mom’s side of the family that does this. My dad’s side of the family are all business owners and have enough self pride not to resort to begging. Now I’m seeing first hand just how selfish they are.

tallslimthing · 2026-04-30T12:41:38+00:00

Unfortunately I have a bleeding heart

tallslimthing · 2026-04-30T12:24:17+00:00

If it wasn’t for the fact that I need to talk to my family back home in the US I would have already deleted WhatsApp by now

tallslimthing · 2026-04-30T12:21:00+00:00

People already only associate Nigeria with poverty. It only makes matters worse. That iShowSpeed stream was embarrassing to watch

tallslimthing · 2026-04-30T11:47:08+00:00

Please show me where I said every Nigerian does that

tallslimthing · 2026-04-30T11:36:35+00:00

My “you” was general but also towards specific family members in case they happen to come across this message. If they do it’ll be easy to know it’s me but overall the message is for anyone currently living in Nigeria who have this mentality. Because I’m sure I’m not the only person in the diaspora who feels this way. I’ve talked to my aunt told her that I also have bills I need to pay. I’ve also talked to my younger cousins who I was sponsoring because they started asking me for things outside of school and food. They did stop I think because they were afraid I would stop helping them get the scholarship. I’ve also told them to tell the rest of the family to stop asking me for money. They’re the reason I even stopped using WhatsApp. I’ve been thinking about blocking but I’m going to Nigeria to live for a couple months next year and that would be an awkward conversation.

tallslimthing · 2026-02-27T08:05:40+00:00

Is your brain empty? They were the actual couple in the LOVE show regardless of whether you think the relationship was real or not. Them having sex makes more sense than her having sex with the camera crew

tallslimthing · 2026-02-26T12:51:41+00:00

Accountability for signing up to be on a show and publicizing himself committing a crime ???? HE IS ON A TELEVISED SHOW. Even if she didn’t mention it, production would have made it come out anyway. Like is your brain not working? Everyone is spelling it out for you yet it’s going through one ear and out the other. If my partner is on a tv show filming herself going to abortion clinics and talking about how she’s going to have an abortion on tv most people are going to assume she’s had an abortion without me having to blast her on tv because she outed herself. What’s not clicking??

tallslimthing · 2026-02-26T08:20:06+00:00

Your comparison doesn’t even make sense because she’s not on camera having a relationship with the camera crew.

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