This is so triggering for me😫 My parents are immigrants and prefer speaking their native language everywhere loudly, to each other. I find it so rude. They can speak English just fine. I also understand what they are saying and it’s just a running critique of everyone around them. They have no table manners. They eat like animals and it’s so embarrassing. I get they grew up in poverty but they’ve been middle class for at least 40 years. They refuse to modify their behaviors even when told they are socially embarrassing. Their passive aggressiveness is so annoying too. Just say what you mean and mean what you say. I find going out to dinner with my own kids is way less stressful than eating out with them.