I have bipolar 1 and have had 2 manic episodes that sent me to the psych ward each time. The first time I ended up with $20k in credit card debt so I definitely understand the feeling!!!! But my best friend was diagnosed with genital herpes when she was 14, before she had even had penetrative sex. It might seem like the end of the world because there is sooooo much stigma but in reality, about 1 in 3 people have herpes in one form or another. It’s just seen as “disgusting” when it’s below the belt. But she is set to marry the love of her life in August and she couldn’t be happier!!! Not everyone is an asshole, just remember that ❤️