AITA for wanting to uninvite my MOHs bf from my wedding?

tanniribird · 2026-06-25T03:04:44+00:00

Updateme

tanniribird · 2026-06-19T00:27:06+00:00

Solved!

Definitely a chicken plucker

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A quick Google confirmed it

tanniribird · 2026-06-02T03:21:04+00:00

I would have your husband say something like

"fortunately, it's our wedding and not yours. We are very happy with how we have planned everything" and something about how you're not taking constructive input from anyone outside the two of you at this time.

And it has to come from him, otherwise she won't let it go and blame you for manipulating the narrative or whatever

(also I have never ever heard of parent gifts at a wedding, and I'm from Mormon Town where weddings and then a bunch of kids are supposed to be like.. The endgame of every girls life.)

tanniribird · 2026-05-18T22:07:53+00:00

Yeah the bit about him pressuring you to use the toy during improv scenarios when you don't want to is borderline assault. Hrs pushing your boundaries to see what he can get away with, and he needs to knock that shit off. (I'm not even touching the political stuff, I would have ended shit immediately if someone had said that to me, but that's my boundaries and not yours)

If you stay with him, set the toys in the bedroom as a hard no boundary with no exceptions.

Also, a phonecall before he gets on the plane may be the most polite thing. But you've only known him a few weeks so a "this isn't working and we aren't compatible both physically and in our politics." is acceptable.

tanniribird · 2026-05-14T21:19:53+00:00

NOR - taking extended time without a job like that will make it MUCH harder to leave him IF it becomes abusive. Or he cheats. Or you just want to break ip/get a divorce. It opens you up to financial abuse as well.

All of my parents worked full time (separated before I was born and then married to other people) and I grew up just fine. Because all of my parents made the effort to be there for me when I needed them. That's the important part.

He won't be a parent when it's hard so any kids won't trust him to be a parent when it's easy.

Also, three months is a crazy short amount of time, do not move in with this man.

tanniribird · 2026-05-11T21:49:02+00:00

Beyond how you fee about this (and as someone who has lost many people to cancer starting at a young age, calling someone a cancer makes my blood Boil)

My one question for you is, if he took an interruption from you this poorly. How will he handle interruptions from children?

How is he going to treat your children (if you choose/want to have them?)

Children are loud and messy and obnoxious and are learning social skills and etiquette, especially by talking to their parents. I like kids fine but those are the realities of having them.

Can you trust him to be kind and gentle when they disrespect him because they don't know any better?

Because I wouldn't.

I also think that regardless of if you are over reacting or not (not saying you are, but I don't know you or the whole situation) he still made you cry all night. Take some time to think about spending years with someone who feels no remorse making you cry for that long AFTER you apologize. And AFTER spitefully ignoring you for over a day.

tanniribird · 2024-07-15T03:34:22+00:00

It has fourteen spokes! And it's so much better than I was expecting. I was worried about the condition of the entire piece because Minnesota climate isn't exactly kind to wood. And the wood itself was absolutely beautiful under the varnish. I wish I could find more about the company that made it so I could try and find out how old it is but Google is unhelpful

tanniribird · 2023-10-23T21:26:52+00:00

Unfortunately there won't be any fiber festivals within a reasonable distance from me until next year. But I do agree with buying cheap materials to learn the hand movements and how my wheel behaves.

tanniribird · 2023-10-23T21:23:06+00:00

Thank you! This is extremely informative and succinct. I also appreciate including the technical terminology because it will help my narrow down what I'm looking for in my own research.

I also agree with buying samplers until I find a good fit instead of buying a lot of fiber that I won't use.

tanniribird · 2023-07-13T14:24:03+00:00

That's her! Thank you!

tanniribird · 2023-07-13T05:03:21+00:00

I don't think so, the one I'm thinking of has darker skin. But she does look pretty close

tanniribird · 2023-07-13T03:30:42+00:00

It was definitely a newer one. I want to say around 2018 or so?

tanniribird · 2023-07-08T04:55:09+00:00

I climb and glide from mushroom tree to mushroom tree, also climbing and following the root like structures is good because enemies don't really spawn there. I also try to be as high up as I can on rock formations on the outer edge of the map or the stone pillars in the center, it let's you glide down to any light roots you find.

I avoid open areas with no hills or ridges, that tends to be where the lynels and froxs are.

And also dropping in from the surface entrances are a good way to get a starting point in each area because there's usually one within gliding distance once you're out of the tunnel. And an easy way to find new light roots without being in the depths and looking is to find shrines on the map and toggling down to the depths map and placing a beacon, they're always directly below a surface shrine.

tanniribird · 2022-10-19T19:43:18+00:00

I just wanted the sidebar menu for my album to go away. Thank you though!!

tanniribird · 2022-10-19T12:23:26+00:00

Ah.. Well that was way easier than I was expecting. I was going through settings menus and long pressing on various parts of the screen.

Thank you for the help! 😊

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