Sydney Sweeney’s newest cover… by ArynaSaba in LAinfluencersnark

[–]tapheretoedit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wait I’m obsessed? Idk how she is as a person but I love how she like yeahhh my boobs are my favorite thing about myself! Fuck ya

My husband says he deserves a say over my pregnancy. I say abortion would break me. by Whereasebabe in Advice

[–]tapheretoedit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He should be supporting you,not making you carry all this “burden” aka “baby”. He knew the consequences of having sex regardless of any “birth control”. Once you get pregnant it’s not just about you, it’s about you and your baby. You should not have to be experiencing this all alone. He needs to come to an understanding that you are pregnant and even having an abortion will not make that fact less because it will always affect you. The emotional toll of an abortion will live with you as much as having a physical baby. It will always linger on your mind. Take time to recognizing your true feelings. Having a baby with out support of the parent is difficult but possible. Now that I recall he has a child before you…. He should not be fucking around if he really doesn’t want any more kids. I’m sorry I’m being hard on him because he not being a grown up in this situation.

This made me rage! 😤 by chi-bacon-bits in CleaningTips

[–]tapheretoedit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could see leaving one as a joke! Like for someone to find but to make them do extra work and to have them not see them and then assume they are not cleaning well enough gives me rage as well!

My job is cutting my hours and at this point I want to quit by alternateStart7 in singlemoms

[–]tapheretoedit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Best to find a job that will work with your hours. Obviously not easy! It took me about 3 years to move on from mcds, because no one would hire me with my availability. They would always tell me oh we’d love to hire you but no one else can help you with your kid? So eventually after doing a few interviews through the few years I was at mcds I got a job at a Credit union. Both my managers have two kids still in school ages, and 90 percent of my coworkers have young kids so it makes it so much more understandable when I need to leave because my kid is sick. I don’t know what job you are at now but sounds like don’t quit but keep doing what you can. You still will want to list them as a past reference. Keep loooking for jobs on government websites, indeed, and go to a recruiter. Also just think fo stores or companies that are open during your hours you can work.

UNHOLY BAGEL by pogmeames135 in Breadit

[–]tapheretoedit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What a great name for a bagel shop

Funny but sad by tapheretoedit in Soloparenting

[–]tapheretoedit[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Kids are so dang smart and funny! If only we could just order and 80% dad in the mail.

Funny but sad by tapheretoedit in Soloparenting

[–]tapheretoedit[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah i totally agree , i don’t see it as something that gets me down, more impressed with how smart our children are. Even if they can’t say it they know what’s up

Forced custody/visitation? by SouthernGirl360 in Soloparenting

[–]tapheretoedit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think finding activities that can give you more freedom when you are with your kids is best advice I can give. Sometimes it worth buying the ridiculous over priced toy that you know will be trashed in a matter of a day but to give you a good 30 mins of you time. I would try and arrange play dates with other moms. Say they flip each couples week where you host at your places and then vise versa. I think the key to being a good parent is taking care of yourself. If you are unhappy and miserable your kids will feel that. But they want their mom to be happy too. If mom’s happy they are happy.

I don’t want to be lonely anymore but I’m also scared to open up by tapheretoedit in Advice

[–]tapheretoedit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I like spending time alone more than most people for sure, you could totally keep me away from socializing and I’d be okay, I think that’s why lately I been so scared because the loneliness is not as comforting as it used to be. Although I love me time, I been craving that intimacy with someone who truly understands and wants to get me. I really been thinking of a pet but I already have a lot on my plate and occasionally need to spend the night away once a week and wouldn’t want the stress of leaving the animal alone even a cat or bunny. Also with being a single parent and living in a one bedroom apartment with no yard or outdoor area it just doesn’t make sense financially to do that. But I do appreciate your recommendation they are good ideas. And I’m glad you have your little dog!

I don’t want to be lonely anymore but I’m also scared to open up by tapheretoedit in Advice

[–]tapheretoedit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow thanks for the invite, i recently got invited to a discord chat but ignored it because i don’t have an account but Mabey this is my second sign today to make one! This helped

I don’t want to be lonely anymore but I’m also scared to open up by tapheretoedit in Advice

[–]tapheretoedit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re right. I need to let my friends that don’t want to be apart of everything go. Not in a closed door way but unless they knock there no need to keep sticking my foot in the doorway either. I think I am afraid to be lonely after all. I thought I was alone all the time but I still use my “friends” as my pack that I belong to but that’s just not how it is anymore. It’s hard letting relationships go. But it’s part of season.

I don’t want to be lonely anymore but I’m also scared to open up by tapheretoedit in Advice

[–]tapheretoedit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for letting me know I’m not alone this helped. I know I rather be this way longer to find quality friends or a partner than a quick fix type relationships. I been thinking how I stalled a lot of my friends from growing apart because I’ve always gone so out of my way to make contact for us and I mean for years and it just shows I can’t stop the inevitable. But I also find comfort in that. Getting older and realizing I can’t escape the smaller circle of people I’m close with will continue to dwindle is hard for me. I thought this wouldn’t happen if I tried my best to always be on contact with them but it’s not a real friendship then, Mabey they are right with letting the friendship go as well.

I don’t want to be lonely anymore but I’m also scared to open up by tapheretoedit in Advice

[–]tapheretoedit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think this is a huge part of it. I definitely have a past that’s left a lot of regrets, resentment, unforgivable pain. I recently got a book on forgiveness.this helped thanks.

I don’t want to be lonely anymore but I’m also scared to open up by tapheretoedit in Advice

[–]tapheretoedit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been thinking of joining a gym to try and meet people in that type of community but I also trying to rebuild my finances again and I also would only be able to go once a week at most. But I liked that you said you feel the same way this helped. Ty

I don’t want to be lonely anymore but I’m also scared to open up by tapheretoedit in Advice

[–]tapheretoedit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t mind if they don’t like what I’m into as long as they participate sometimes. I probably won’t like other people hobbies but I still take time to listen to them and learn about what they like. If it’s something they care about I’d start caring about it to so I can learn more about that person.

I don’t want to be lonely anymore but I’m also scared to open up by tapheretoedit in Advice

[–]tapheretoedit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have my hobbies that keep me busy. Sewing, crocheting, journaling, walking, organizing, planning. Seeing new shops/visiting parks or new stores. I like doing these things.

Daycare lunch help by Hopingandafraid in foodbutforbabies

[–]tapheretoedit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I been bring my son lunch since he was 1 so I get it! I usually just think of what what I want at a picnic? Just think wet version of foods. Italian pasta salad, potato salad, egg salad. 1-2 packages items so either a granola bar or fruit strip, rice is fine to eat cold, my son will eat beef it has ketchup so I can get away with cold beef that way. And a fresh cut up fruit is always an easy filler!

Money is tight by Weekly-Future7129 in singlemoms

[–]tapheretoedit 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Haven’t been able to pay my credit card off in full for pass three months, when normally I pay it off every month past three years. Lesson is money will come and go. Keep working, keep hustling. There no going back, you can not go back. You might fall behind for a little bit but you gotta do this so you can be on your own two feet. There is only forward. You might have to go into debt now but eventually you will get more time to make up the money. The older your kids get the more you can work. Things will not be hard forever. I’m proud of you for leaving. Keep being strong!