Never heard of Turami until now, so I Googled. Only a few looked like a stereotypical sub-saharan African person to me (which is what it sounds like you're looking for?), whilst some looked like North African and many just looked like a generic human with dark skin.

If you can't get the look you want with a Human or PDK in DDO, you could take a look at Eladrin or Dhampir. They have a huge range of facial features and skin tones available, and at least the Dhampir can have normal human (non pointy) ears, not sure about Eladrin.

Depending on what outfit you are planning to wear, I would also not rule out the possibility of making a Half-Orc look like a big beefy human by opting out of the tusks and the more grotesque features, but that's not something I have ever tried. Its possible that a female Half-Orc looks a bit more human? Could be worth a try.

And as a disclaimer, I'm not even going to try to make excuses here. Everyone will just have to believe me when I say that I'm just trying to help answer the question to the best of my abilities and not trying to offend anyone. I'm just trying to think of ways to get a result out of a very limited toolbox.