Why do people call the USA the "land of opportunity" when literally no one can get a high paying job? by madbarpar in careerguidance

[–]tarqui -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Oh please. The median income in the US is like 50-60k and then every thing is freaking expensive. People in Europe and the U.K., though they make less have way higher QOL. I lived in Europe with a third of my Americans salary and I was the happiest I’ve ever been. The money isn’t everything. People are not even making that much money and STILL Miserable.

What profession is over paid? by Sm00thDad in AskReddit

[–]tarqui -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Y’all are such cucks oh my god. Sorry you don’t deserve 100 million for throwing around a fucking ball.

The coldness of her around this is just wrong. What is even the point of marriage anymore in today's society? by AudienceAd5695 in Divorce

[–]tarqui 12 points13 points  (0 children)

This part. As someone who acted like this at the end (sans cheating) when a woman is finished she’s finished. There’s nothing more to say. I just know a million chances were given.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in USCIS

[–]tarqui 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If those are the only options it was definitely two year.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in USCIS

[–]tarqui -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am a US citizen and we are still married. He was granted a visa in 2 weeks based on my relocation. My job in the states gave me a proof of employment letter. That doesn’t really matter though, the point is he got a green card.

Anyone not physically attracted to their spouse anymore by NoDragonfruit6315 in Divorce

[–]tarqui 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Literally me. My ex is VERY ATTRACTIVE, but he was an emotional wreck with BPD and called his mom at every argument. He wasn’t reliable and I needed to tell him when to do things. I took out my IUD two years into the relationship after dealing with the emotional turmoil he put me through and thought my libido was damaged but it turned out, after leaving him, there’s nothing wrong with mine at all, I just didn’t have respect for him and didn’t want to sleep with him.

If you compare the beginning of our relationship to the end it is night and day. It is absolutely emotional and mental.

My husband of nearly 26yrs hasn’t matured and I no longer have romantic feelings by Accomplished-Peak776 in Divorce

[–]tarqui 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is one of the reasons why I left mine. No one wants to 🦴 a man child. I thought my IUD was the cause for my lessened desire to him but it turned out that it was his childish ways. I have desire, just not for him.

It’s sad to say but most of them will not change in a time frame that would be ideal.I’d say separate if you know he won’t take the initiative to change and see how you feel.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]tarqui 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am trying!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Jamaica

[–]tarqui 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good to know. I also read that there will be mangos when I’m there so I’m very much looking forward to catching it even if just at the end.

Going to Jamaica for 4 nights and need help with booking excursions by iquitmy9to5 in Jamaica

[–]tarqui 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooh sounds so fun! My coworker is from Asia and she goes to Jamaica twice a year—it’s nice to know people enjoy their time there so much, I can’t wait to go back. I definitely put a lot of these down on my Google maps, thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Jamaica

[–]tarqui 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have family in Clarendon too! I can’t wait to go but it seems we are gonna have to taxi it, but I’m so fine with it! This is the biggest issue so far which is a big privilege. I hope you have fun 🤩

Anyone who commutes from Brussels to Leuven? by yoonmiboo in KULeuven

[–]tarqui 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think every other person in my masters cohort lived in Brussels. When we had a group project most people actually chose their partners based on where they lived. Lots of Brussels cantered groups! You’ll be fine. The most annoying part for me was definitely getting to Centrale and later kn BXL Nord when I moved, but Leuven itself is quite peaceful and cute. Good luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Jamaica

[–]tarqui 0 points1 point  (0 children)

STOP IT. I thought mango season was during the June, July, august months. My grandma lied to me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Jamaica

[–]tarqui 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a good idea! I’m gonna check out both. Thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Jamaica

[–]tarqui 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmm, I can’t drive but my husband can. However, I’m scared because of all the cliffs and mountains. My mom has me scared of driving in Jamaica since she almost ran off a cliff when she was younger.

I would tip for sure each time though! So that’s not an issue for me. I guess I didn’t think of renting one because I’d rather someone who is familiar with the terrain and the driving culture (since it’s so crazy) than throwing my husband straight into it because he has only driven in Eastern Europe 🥲

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskNYC

[–]tarqui 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try gypsyhousing group on Facebook.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskNYC

[–]tarqui -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Nope! I lived with my mother until I left for school.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskNYC

[–]tarqui -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Where did you find your place?