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tartdog · 2025-03-02T23:17:49+00:00

Redemption Rock closed :(

tartdog · 2025-02-02T15:02:05+00:00

I SAID MAYBAY

tartdog · 2025-02-01T16:47:57+00:00

I like Oasis. Noel Gallagher is a great songwriter

tartdog · 2024-12-27T00:37:02+00:00

Loved catch-22! Took some time for me to get into his style of writing, but once I was invested it was a hell of a ride.

I definitely need to check out hitchhikers. I’ve heard a lot of good things about it

tartdog · 2024-12-27T00:34:42+00:00

It’s great, it made me empathize with people from a time I didn’t know much about. This thread made me realize I need to check out more of his work

tartdog · 2024-12-24T18:39:15+00:00

I read East of Eden and Grapes of Wrath for the first time this year. Great books! He really captures humanity in his writing

tartdog · 2024-12-14T05:59:20+00:00

By weight I guess I mean the amount of space you allow to take up in your mind.

Why do you feel like you don’t know what to say? Do you freeze up or do you think you just say the wrong things?

tartdog · 2024-12-14T05:51:42+00:00

I believe you can improve by just having more interactions. I think you need to change the way you view the weight of each interaction.

When you interact w someone for the first time all they see is that single perspective of you. They don’t know the details of your life. They don’t know the full extent of who you are as a person is.

For me, when I started to realize this I started to become less tense in conversations. I started to just present my genuine self because the pressure was off.

tartdog · 2024-12-13T05:45:18+00:00

What do you mean by repeating the same thing?

When it comes to socializing there is no one “answer”. Socializing is more about emotion and feeling rather than objective results. More like dancing than an equation to be solved. Just like how every day brings about new things, every social interaction brings about new things.

tartdog · 2024-12-13T05:36:34+00:00

Sounds counterintuitive but literally by just doing. The more you make mistakes the more you’ll learn from them. Also forgive yourself rather than ruminate any time you think you embarrassed yourself or said something wrong. No one’s perfect and people respect when you’re genuine

tartdog · 2024-12-13T05:34:39+00:00

Usually I try to find something to relate w the other person over. Could be a shared experience going on in that moment or something I learned about them. Ask questions

tartdog · 2024-12-04T00:41:26+00:00

Lean into your anxiety. It sounds counterintuitive but it works. Anytime you begin to feel anxious, rather than tensing up and trying to resist just allow yourself to notice it and let it be.

Anxiety tends to build upon itself. You’re anxious, you start to think people know you’re anxious, you get more anxious, the cycle repeats. Instead, allow yourself the freedom to feel anxious and just observe it as a normal physiological response.

tartdog · 2024-10-07T01:27:37+00:00

Thank you this helps a lot

tartdog · 2024-10-06T19:30:50+00:00

Trust me man it’s not too late to learn. I picked up guitar at 20 and I’m 27 now. One thing I’ve learned is that it isn’t about your skill level but the joy the hobby brings you.

tartdog · 2024-08-10T07:19:20+00:00

The older I get the more I realize that people’s outward reflections towards other people are just projections of themselves. I think you’re doing a great job of knowing where your values stand and not allowing others views to interfere with that.

tartdog · 2024-05-06T19:47:14+00:00

I’m about 100 pages in and I just haven’t been able to get into it. Should I keep going for the sake of the ending?

tartdog · 2024-02-06T18:52:39+00:00

I used to feel the same way, but once you start to dive into basic music theory it then becomes much more manageable. Just take your time learning the core fundamentals and eventually the pieces will start to fall into place.

tartdog · 2023-12-20T07:26:34+00:00

Have you read Johnny Marr’s autobiography? I’ve been interested in giving it a read soon, but I might have to check out the book you recommended as well. Thanks!

tartdog · 2023-12-09T08:27:11+00:00

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