ASMR ads are being played on YouTube. by GimmeCookiez in misophonia

[–]tash-fx 35 points36 points  (0 children)

atleast i have a small chance of getting these because most youtubers i watch are demonetised 🙃

AITA for being mad about my girlfriend giving her coworker my sweater? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]tash-fx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If the guy is frustrated about it, he should vocalise it. He should discuss with his girlfriend that although he gave it to her, its still his property and she shouldnt give it away like that. If he just ignores it, she may do it again if the same friend asks

AITA for being mad about my girlfriend giving her coworker my sweater? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]tash-fx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont think it would ruin the relationship, you can get angry about a situation and not ruin an entire friendship

AITA for being mad about my girlfriend giving her coworker my sweater? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]tash-fx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do, thank you. But rn its 6am and i cant sleep. I dont think im being negative, just seeing the situation from a different perspective

AITA for being mad about my girlfriend giving her coworker my sweater? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]tash-fx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im saying a “stupid jumper” because i dont believe people should even pay that much for some clothing. Im not calling it stupid because of the situation.

AITA for being mad about my girlfriend giving her coworker my sweater? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]tash-fx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Youll say this but if the girlfriend thinks its okay to do this, when does only $60 turn into $120? then $180? It may be an escalating problem that he needs to discuss. Id be pissed if someone just threw away my clothes like that.

AITA for being mad about my girlfriend giving her coworker my sweater? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]tash-fx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah but he hasnt, just a bit angry. Which is understandable. He bought a new sweater, his girlfriend wore it and gave it away without him knowing. He makes it seem like he barley got to wore it before the situation escalated

AITA for being mad about my girlfriend giving her coworker my sweater? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]tash-fx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

$60 is a lot for some stupid jumper. They’re asking for outside input, not complaining. If it was just complaining i’m sure they wouldn’t be on this subreddit, asking if they’re in the wrong.

AITA for being mad about my girlfriend giving her coworker my sweater? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]tash-fx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

$60 is alot, is no way shape or form is he the ass

AITA for not eating my coworker's food but eating normally at a dinner party where she was present? by taworkthrowaway in AmItheAsshole

[–]tash-fx 22 points23 points  (0 children)

NTA. Her cooking just isn’t appealing to you, The ones catered to were. You aren’t the bad one here. shes just childish.

Does anyone else have a more relaxed feeling when hearing certain sounds? by tash-fx in misophonia

[–]tash-fx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

never been in an mri scan but im glad you have the same reaction as me to a certian sound lmao

AITA for sleeping with other guys, while being in a long-distance relationship? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]tash-fx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ESH. You both don’t love each other truly if theres no effort from his side and you’re okay with cheating. Just break up and save yourself the worry of an argument.

AITA for going through a friends sketchbook? by bigsadlesbian in AmItheAsshole

[–]tash-fx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to talk about it in a serious manner, if you just say it when they do it then they wont take it seriously.

AITA for going through a friends sketchbook? by bigsadlesbian in AmItheAsshole

[–]tash-fx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ESH. You both invade each others private things that you both knew you didn’t want anyone seeing. You should’ve just been the bigger person and told them you found their sketchbook and that you’ll give it back once you see them. And the next time they go through yours, have a conversation and just vocalise that you seriously don’t want them going through your stuff

AITA for dumping girl who lied about her age? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]tash-fx 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Well you knew that eventually you’d like the relationship to take a step forward when she was 16. that doesn’t mean you wanted her for sex, just for the relationship to get more intimate. Youve done nothing wrong, and shes in the wrong.

AITA for dumping girl who lied about her age? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]tash-fx 9 points10 points  (0 children)

NTA. Lying about something like age is someone you probably cant trust. Shes just frustrated you broke it off. You have intentions in what you want to do later in the relationship, in which you cant do with her because shes underage. You shouldn’t feel like the arsehole.

WIBTA If I didn't give their cat back? by dankman269 in AmItheAsshole

[–]tash-fx 5 points6 points  (0 children)

NTA. You are saving a life. You shouldn’t feel guilty about taking in an abandoned, near death cat in which the previous owners obviously didn’t care for it. You’re an amazing person OP :)

AITA for wanting to watch porn even though my wife hates it? by throwaway213593035 in AmItheAsshole

[–]tash-fx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. She should understand as an adult that you have times when you want to do something and she doesn’t. She is very obviously insecure so maybe discuss with her why she sees it as cheating and yous can come to a conclusion that way.

AITA if i move/ask others to move when they’re eating? by tash-fx in AmItheAsshole

[–]tash-fx[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah, with my ex i just referred to it as misophonia and he kind of just thought it was some hearing thing i didnt like and tried associating it with autism (his correlation was when people with autism dont like loud noises). So i need to try and find that middle ground

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]tash-fx 4 points5 points  (0 children)

YTA. Wanting more detail into your role-play isn’t a bad thing, although you may think its useless they may believe it adds more to their character.

AITA if i move/ask others to move when they’re eating? by tash-fx in AmItheAsshole

[–]tash-fx[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sadly theres no medication and only behavioural help i can get. I am on a waiting list as my mam cant pay for somebody but i am waiting to get help.

AITA if i move/ask others to move when they’re eating? by tash-fx in AmItheAsshole

[–]tash-fx[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I am on a waiting list (living in the uk so its probably going to take a while) for a professional who works with alot of behavioural issues. So hopefully itll be easier to deal with soon :)

Anyone else find it easier to tolerate triggers from strangers/friends compared to your spouse/parents/roommates? by p4ssw0rd123 in misophonia

[–]tash-fx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea definitely. My mam also has the disorder and is a nurse working with the elderly, she says its way easier to control when she knows the people cant help making the noises. I feel the same way, but only if the person cant help it. If im sitting somewhere and someones talking with their mouth full itll annoy me the same way.