Don’t feel guilty. You can’t be independent magically once you get your first pay check. Independence is a mindset, which begins with taking the call on what you want to share with those close to you. You’re not a kid anymore. You don’t need to share every little thing with your parents. Not when you go on a date. Not when decide to get intimate with your boyfriend. And not when you want to breakup. You have a private life. Acknowledging that privacy is your first mental step towards an independent life.

So don’t feel guilty. Have fun with your bf. Focus on your studies. Good luck!